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help me forget him~!!!!!!
okay guys, this might be a tough one. im so lost and have no idea what to do. im 20 years old now. i met jeremy when i was 17 years old. i thought he was the perfect guy for me, and for a while he felt the same about me. we got together not long after that. i fell in love with him really fast, as did he. we were together for a little over 4 years. like any couple, we had our fights. i will be the first to admit that our relationship wasn't perfect. but we loved each other very much anyways. we broke up a few times but we always got back together. well about a week ago, we got into a huge fight and broke up. he informed me yesterday that he's unhappy with me and had sex with another girl. it almost killed me!!! i love him so much, and what he did was very wrong and i know that. however, i really need help trying to get over him. i can't stop thinking about him, but he doesnt even care. he told me that he doesn't even want to be friends anymore. how do i get over him? ive tried meeting other guys but i can't seem to find anyone. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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time does heal all wounds, i know that's a cliche, but that's why cliches are cliches...b/c they true. Just be strong, surround yourself with friends and people who love you...they'll help you. PISTRIX!!!
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...wow..i bet he was your FIRTSt real love..you may never geet over him..but you have to GET on wiht you life..he has moved on. See living the best life you can..will help you. date..date date date..ok..maybe you will not fall in love right away..but one of those guys might make you feel better..and every day..you feel a little bit bwetter..you will get over him.
this is going to be hard...join a gym...date..go out with your g/fd..and start to live.
you have to stop obsessing about him..and move on...
This is not easy....but you CAN do it..ok
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since you guys were going out for such a long time, it's going to take a really long time for you to get over him. but i think the fact that he doesn't want to be friends (which i think is stupid and rude but...)will make it easier for you to get over him. i was in a similar position to you last year. except when we broke up, we stayed friends, and i could never get over him. we ended up getting back together, but that's not the point. the point is is that i personally think it's easier to get over someone when you don't see or even talk to them. it's going to be hard, and it's going to take a while, but you can do it. don't try and find another guy right away, because that'll just make you miss Jeremy more. i would suggest imersing yourself in something else, such as yoga, or some other hobbie that you really enjoy. if you have something to do to occupy yourself, you won't think about him and missing him as much. you will get over him, it will just take some time. i hope this helped, and if you need any other help, please let me know!
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I would like to say: He can suck my brother's balls!!!! :( I know that that was weird but hey there has to be a little comedy in all of this.. Ok here's the deal..if he doesnt care at all and doesnt want to consider your feelings then i say SCREW IT! I know that its hard to forget the first one that you've loved for a while, but desperate times calls for desperate measures. Simply, what i think that you should do is...forget about him. Go somewhere, take a vacation. Trust me it can be that simple if you want it to be. No one is making this hard except for you.. but there is another thing that is on my mind. Maybe he wants to be reassured about the way you feel about him. He could have just told you about all of that stuff to test you..i dont know, that could just be another theory. I know that im a little too young to be talking about this but sometimes young people can help too..A LOT! ^_^
hope i helped
~Sam~
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WELL ACTUALLY, IN REALITY, WITH ALL SERIOUSNESS, THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT HE DID BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE. HE IS A FREE MAN! HE CAN DO WHATEVER HE WANTS, WHENEVER HE WANTS. You just have to come to your senses and realize that. It will take time to get over him but there is nothign really to do to make you stop feeling for him the way you do. And if you love him as much as you say then you will respect the fact that he doesnt want anything more to do with you, no matter how hard it is for you and how bad it hurts. Hey, the truth hurts, so just move on with your life. Your young, you'll find someone to be with again. Its not the end of the world.
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