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(13 yr old girl)ok so me and my friend (lets call her Ashley) were best friends. But they i started middle school and we had this big fight over nothing! And a new friend i met in middle school, lets call her Mary, would tell me what Ashley said about me and Mary would tell Ashley what i said about her... and this caused us to fight even more!! She just got in the middle constantly and like now we dont talk anymore.. question : should i be friends with Mary even though she split me and my BFF apart ..
p.s- Mary is friends with ashley .. and mary is friends with me now .. (but idk if thats a big mistake)
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she was a back stabbing bitch to you so no... drop her sorry ass and kick it to the curb!!
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any girl sho plays one friend agasint another is SUPER bad news..Trust me..see you need to hang out with girls who support each other not talk about each other. She is a HUGE bitch for causing fights..and let me tell you...she will do this UNTIL she dies.
If you have to be friends with her becasue of Ashly..do NOT ever tell her anything that is secret..never ever complain about Ashly to her..just say ONLY good things about people to you. And if she tells you abouyt stuff that Ahsly says..just remember..that it may not be the truth.
I however would dump her right away...but again it is your decision..she to me..si ONLY trouble.
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it sounds like Mary probably didn't mean to split you two apart, I've been the new girl before and I know what it's like to "come between fighting friends"... it also kinda seems like your friend Ashley wasn't really trying too hard to salvage your friendship, so I wouldn't worry too much about her. I think you should stil be friends with Mary, but let her know that you don't appreciate her telling your "rival in a conflict" whatever you say about whoever that may be - in this case, tellin Ashley what you said about her. If she doesn't understand that... well i'm sorry. ehhh good luck with all that.
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well people do change, and im not exactly sure if it was entirely mary's falt for splitting you and ashley apart in the first place, considering you said that you two were in a fight before you even met mary. sure she shouldn't have told ashley everything you said, and she shouldnt have told you everything ashley said, but chances are she was just trying to help, but instead ended up ruining things even more. its up to you if you want to be friends with mary, but i would suggest talking to ashley to straighten things out, assuming you still want to be friends with her. chances are it was all just a big misunderstanding, and if she still wants to be your friend, then she'll understand and then all three of you can be friends. just make sure you tell mary that you appreciate her trying to help, but next time you guys have trouble, to let you deal with it on your own. hope this helped
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ahh, some people just love the drama and cause it. Well, it seems like 'Mary' wants you guys to fight, or she's afraid that your going to get mad at her when 'Ashley' says something about you and if she didn't tell you. Hmm, but you should talk to Mary & Ask her why she's doing it. and for about a week or so stop talking about ashley to mary and see wat happens. see if mary's goan go tell ashley other stuff.. you never know, But put off talking about ashley to mary for awhile. & if worse comes to worse, explain to mary wat she's doing is making everything worse, but no effense * x0x muah - jess
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I don't think you should be friends with Mary... she could ruin future friendships too! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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