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My name is Kristen, and I'm seventeen years old.
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Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea
i wouldn't suggest it... unless you live in the middle of nowhere, your parents are probably going to find out from someone.
hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions???
i'd go see spider man or the village
so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...
what response did you want?? if you look good and feel good, people are going to notice it's attractive to people. confidence is a good thing.
but do whatever you feel comfortable with! don't let your friends talk to you into it if you do want it. good luck! send me amessage for more advice.
xox Kristen
What is the average height for a 12 year old?
it varies. i don't think there's a set height.
xangsta?? is that it?? or iz it sumthing else?? i keep goin to www.xangsta.com... n sumthing else cumz ^ wutz going on??
it's xanga.com...
Does cornbread have corn in the mixture???
i hope so
it's made of cornmeal, which is made of corn
i'm having a definete dilemma! i go to an all girls school, so makeup isn't a big deal. in the grade i'm going into, people wear makeup more, and i love wearing makeup, but just... don't. not regularly, at least. how can i start wearing make up without it being obvious??? and also, you know when u see celebs and they aren't wearin makeup, and they look wierd... almost like sickly, just cuz you're used to seeing them with makeup.... well i don't want that to happen to me!!! if i don't feel like putting on my makeup, i don't want it to be obvious! any way to wear makeup subtley, but not pointlessly???? (by pointlessly, i mean like if i looked the same as before, it would be stupid to even wear makeup)
just wear a little blush, lip gloss, and mascara. u should probably wear concealer... but i don't know anything about it so...
For as long as i can remember ive been attracted more to guys that are older than me...not like wayyyy older but like 2-4 years..is that weird? i flirt with a lot of guys my age but i dont like having relationships with em...im not gonna stop i just wanna hear what other people got to say...thanks.
that's perfectly normal... lots of people are like that
How old do u have to be to have sex?
you have to be old enough to accept the consequences of your actions...
Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP!
you and your ex are done with. you aren't a couple anymore and even if he still likes you, both of you have to move on at some time or another. i'm 13 too, so if you need anymore help, or just need to talk, send me a message.
xo K
ok well first of all i am 13 years old.
i dont see my boyfriend much at all, but i love him...and i guess im just afraid he's going to break up with me eventually if we continue not seeing eachother often...but i know he loves me, i just dont know what to do.
well, try and get together with him. you have to make the first move. try and go bowling or watch a movie. but you know he loves you, he hopefully won't do anything to break your heart
hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic?
wear a brown or brown/black mascara instead. i found this in a book, so i know it's right. have fun!! send me a message if you need more help
xox Kristen
my friend has been dating this guy for almost a month now.. and I'm some what friends with him too.. but today online he told me he didn't want to go out with my friend anymore.. and told me to dump her for him.. and then he signed off.. What am I sapose to do?? I don't want to hurt my friends feelings.. but if she found out I knew she would get really pissed.. please help!!!
x0x0 too confused girly
don't do it. it's his responsibility, not yours ... make sure your there for your friend though
I always let my best friend borrow some of my shirts, but she will borrow them and forget to give them back. Like 2day I have to wear a blak shirt 4 school and she borrowed it and now she says she already gave it bak but i no she didn't because i have looked everywhere and it is nowhere and she wore it last. Also she borrowed one of my favorite shirts and she said she can't remember where it is but she will look for it and she still hasn't found it. Anyways- this doesn't usually happen, but i think i should not let her borrow anything else from me until she gives me the other stuff back. Is this a good judgement or is there an easier way?
you've done the right thing. why should you let her borrow more stuff when she hasn't given other things back?? maybe tell her you can't find it, and ask her to look one more time. g/l..
My mom heard from someone (sshe doesn't remember who) that ElAl Air does not allow discmen on their planrs. Is this true? I'm gonna be flying to Israel soon, and I don;t want to get my discman taken away.
i guess you should probably call and ask. i've never flown that airline and i don't know anyone who has. i'll keep looking though.
Be and my best friend are soo tight..we do EVERYTHING together. and whats even better is that our boyfriends are best friends too. The 4 of us do everything together! but now whenever im with my friend when her bf isn't around thats all she talks about is him even on the phone! it gets on my nerves soo bad! should i say somthing to her or just let her talk about him?
change the subject. or start talking about your boyfriend. eventually, maybe she'll get the picture. good luck !! send me something if you need more help
xo Kristen
hey..i really need help!!..well for this summer i have this reading homework 2 do for my freshman honors class...i have to read this 100 pg book..nd then a 300 pg book..along wit these journals!..well i have less than 3 weekz till skool starts...i was half way done! except one of my journals i had typed up was erased!! and not on my computer any more..so i hafta do that all over..plus the other journal!..i cant concentrate!! i need help!!
just work on it a day at a time. one day, just read. the next day, do a journal, and so on. just make sure you save the journals.
don't go online, that will just distract you. just do what you have to do and get it done and over with. good luck!!! send me a message if you need more help or just want to talk.
xox Kristen
I'm 13 years old and I'm not really allowed to have a boyfriend, but I really want one...and theres a guy that I really like and I think he kinda likes me, because on AIM whenever we talk he talks about another girl, I'm not sure if these are hints or not..my friend who is also his cousin says that she has goten things out of him..and I dont know, but I really want to ask him out but im not sure what he would say..any advice?
Thanx
XoXo
*~Confused~*
do u want to be sneaking around your parents back?? you wouldn't be able to call him or hang out with him if your parents don't know. i mean, it's not definite that your parents won't find out. if your OK with this, then go for it. send me something if you need more help or just need to talk; i'm 13 too.
xox Kristen
Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!
you are not fat! trust me....you are perfect!
ok i really need help my bf dumped me cuz i talk 2 my guy friends and now he wants me back and bad i dont know wut 2 do my friends and fam hate him and he's not the best bf dut i still miss him wut do i do.... help me
he dumped you because you talk to other guys??? he sounds controlling to me. I'd move on, because your family and friends know what's best for you. you even said he's not the best boyfriend. you deserve much better than that. and no guy has the right to say who you should or shouldn't talk to. if you need more advice or just need to talk, send me a message. i'm here to help
xox Kristen