ok i really need help my bf dumped me cuz i talk 2 my guy friends and now he wants me back and bad i dont know wut 2 do my friends and fam hate him and he's not the best bf dut i still miss him wut do i do.... help me
xO_BaBy_GuRL_xO answered Thursday August 5 2004, 8:34 pm: well... if he dumped you just because you talked to two of ur guy friends means he's jealous. If your family and friends all say that hes not the best friend then maybe there trying to say you could do a lot better. I've been in a relationship like that and maybe you should try and talk to him and tell him how u feel and if he doesnt change then try to move on. I hope I helped
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Bri!* answered Thursday August 5 2004, 6:38 pm: Well if you like him then you should go back out w/ him. But if you can't talk to other guys then thats kinda stupid? And if your family and friends don't like him then....I don't know, it's up too you! *brianna* [ Bri!*'s advice column | Ask Bri!* A Question ]
Thickbabyie4u answered Thursday August 5 2004, 5:45 pm: I think you shouldn't take him back. I don't know how serious yall were... but if he cared about you like he should have, he shouldn't have dumped you to begin with. And with that I also say, he shouldn't have to think twice about who he with. So I think yall also broke up because it wasn't meant to be...so 4-get him! "Every Ending Is A New Beginning!" Hope this helps! I hope you make the right decision! And Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~ [ Thickbabyie4u's advice column | Ask Thickbabyie4u A Question ]
sportscutie13 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 5:37 pm: if he dumped u becuz u were talking 2 ur frends then he definitely isn't a good bf. u should tell him you could stay as frends. even if u miss him u still are frends. wait until u find the perfect guy 4 u. [ sportscutie13's advice column | Ask sportscutie13 A Question ]
SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 5:25 pm: To me, he dosn't sound like a good boyfriend if he dumped you for talking to other guys. if you still have feelings for him and want to go out with him agian then go for it! don't care about what your family for friends think about him! [ SwEeTeStSiN7's advice column | Ask SwEeTeStSiN7 A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:53 pm: My advice to you is to move on from him. My family and friends really hated my boyfriend too because he didnt treat me right. We broke up for a week and I ended up taking him back, part of me regrets it because hes not the best bf in the world. He's trying but it doesnt seem like hes trying hard enough to be good to me. I do everything for him and really get nothing in return. Trust me, you should get out of it now while you have a chance. Find someone better, someone who treats you like a princess and with the respect you need. If in a few weeks you feel like you really love this guy and no matter what people say you want to be w/ him, then get back together. No one is stopping you... Good luck and think about what youre going to do.
tweetyLUVR999 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:23 pm: well if he wants you back and you want him back (i think that's what you said) well then i think you guys should just be friends for a while and see how things go and he needs to show you that you can trust him and that he can be a better bf beofre you even consider going out with him again. and you need to make sure that he know you're gunna continue talking and hanging out with your guy friends and if it's not ok with him it will never work out. so there i tried and i really hope it helped. [ tweetyLUVR999's advice column | Ask tweetyLUVR999 A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:19 pm: he dumped you because you talk to other guys??? he sounds controlling to me. I'd move on, because your family and friends know what's best for you. you even said he's not the best boyfriend. you deserve much better than that. and no guy has the right to say who you should or shouldn't talk to. if you need more advice or just need to talk, send me a message. i'm here to help
NicoleMarie answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:10 pm: What makes your friends and family hate him?? Does he respect you? Alot of guys don't understand why us girls have guy friends. I personally have a lot of guy griends because girls can be scandalous and i am not into all the makeup and pretty sundresses. Guys understand me better. And i understand them better. It sounds like your boyfriend has a problem trusting. Have you two broke up before? I am all about 2nd chances but not to fond of 3rd chances. I think giving too many chances shows your weakness. Be strong. Talk to him and let him know that he can trust you and how you feel about the "guy friend" situation. But make sure this guy is treating you right. Sometimes, although hard to admit, your friends and family are right. good luck! [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
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