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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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okay this probably wont make sense but ill try. I can never get a bf at my school ive only had one bf that actually went to school with me and he was really the only true one i had. Its like guys dont like me at school but guys outside of school are always hittin on me nd stuff.. mainly older guys it annoys me cuz i really want a guy inside skool i like some but they only see me as a friend. whats wrong? i dont think im like hideous or anything im actually pretty cute from wut im told so whats wrong?

There isn`t nothing wrong with you.. I never wanted a guy in school because i didn`t like being around them all the time and i don`t like people gettin in our relationship or anything..I`m not sure if thats why guys at your school are like that but having to see you all the time might have something to do with it.. So then they just want to be friends..Don`t think theres anything wrong with you cuz apparently you are attractive to be gettin hit on hun..I can understand that you do want to meet somebody in school but maybe try going places to meet guys out of school..Try the mall,Skating[Depending on your age],Local teen club,Sports events..♥Dez

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Hey does anyone know if bambi is a girl or a boy?
Just wondering, it has to do with a school thing.

Bambi is a boy.. Don`t like feel stupid cuz actually me and my boyfriend was talking about that...

Remember he had antlers.. Thats how i remembered he was a boy..♥Dez

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Okay im 13
4'11
and i weigh 92 pounds
i want to lose weight but my doctor said it would be unhealthy. so im kind of looking to tone-up my body in a more healthy way. and i'm not aloud to go on a diet
:-/
anything helps!
i rate high!
thanks

Well losing weight for your height and weight wouldn`t be healthy..
So why not working out like..
-Running/Walking
-Swimming
-Lifting weights
-Sit ups
-Push ups
-Crunches
All of those will help you lose weight..♥Dez

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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas?

-Fitted hat
-White tees,black tees [Gangstas can always use those]
-Socks
-birthday card with money
-Colonge shouldn`t be hard to find..You can buy it in plenty of places..Try Dillards they have some nice ones..♥Dez

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Are there any ways to pierce your own bellybutton without it getting infected?

Well i don`t recommend this but here are some tips for doing it yourself..
-burn the needle before piercing and clean off
-clean area real good with alcohol before peircing..
-after piercing clean up to 3 times a day..
Those ideas should help it from not gettin infected..♥Dez

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I need your advice...
Well, my friend(John)is gay and he just found out his bf was cheating on him. So, I invited him to see a movie to get his mind off of the situation. Well, of course he wanted to see Brokeback Mountain. So I went with him and what do you know? His ex bf was there with another guy. He asked me if I could pretend to be with him to make his ex jealous. I didn't know anyone in there so i agreed. I didn't think he would do anything extreme. Well during the movie he held my hand, and i felt akward. He even leaned over to kiss me and we actually started making out. I actually enjoyed it and I invited him over to stay the night. Well while were bed one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. The next day at school his ex started telling everyone that he saw me and john making out. Now everyone thinks i'm gay and they aren't being nice about it. Just because i had sex with a guy does that make me gay? And if i am should i try to have a relationship with him? He wanted me to, but i didn't know if i was ready.
Thanks

Sounds like your gay or maybe bisexual depending on whether you still like females..

Umm Yes hun having sex with a guy and liking it means you are something and straight isn`t it hun..

I think if you aren`t ready for a relationship with a guy you shouldn`t have one.. I think you are confused on what you want with him or with anybody.. So i`d sit down and think about this for a while.. Like think if you want to be with him,Do you like him just a friend or as more..

Think if your ready to hear what people have to say and stuff like that..I`m not sayin don`t be gay or anything i just think you need to think things through..♥Dez

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All i know is that i was watching fat camp on mtv and there was this REALLY REALLY cute guy on it, I Think his name was either matt leiber or something, or petey he made those two kids kiss. Any idea on where i can get some info on the show/or petey/matt?? Dont say MTV cuz they dont have anything

I doubt they`ll put alot of information about him on any site.. but try like www.mtv.com/fatcamp or something..♥Dez

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i have an essay/ report to doo on dieting and im doing crash dieting in a few paragraphs.
what are some foos that people usually mostly focus on when crash dieting?

thanks

Cottage cheese is the big one.. I`m not sure of any others.. ♥DEz

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hey girl i was wanting to know where to get a playboy pic for my advice column..♥ alisha

Hey!
Well i usually got mines from photobucket.com.. Just type in Playboy bunny,or playboy and icons and backgrounds should show up and even some pictures of people but just ignore those..♥Dez

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Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap?

Lotion should help make your skin softer..♥Dez

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female 16

Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.

How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You.

Your going to continue to grow in that area til your bout 18 but really all your life especially if you plan on havin children.. Also gettin implants isn`t smart hun cause its very dangerous and theres horrible side effects.. You should be happy with your body..Also a push up bra would help them appear bigger and maybe get one with padding if you`d like.. You can purchase this at Victoria`s Secret..♥Dez

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I've just started to make love with my boyfriend, and I have a vague recollection from my sex education classes at school that when you become sexually active you should have a check-up, examination etc. Is this the case? Thanks!

Yes!! gettin check to make sure everything is shaped and looks right down in that area is always smart.. so make an appointment at the Gyno.. [always use protection sweetie..] ♥Dez

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Just a random quistion for guys:

Do you prefer girls who are curvacious or girs who are skinny?

I would think guys would like curvacious.. Skinny can just look nasty sometimes ya know?.. Also i know i`m not a guy but i do have brothers and guyfriends..♥Dez

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hey i already have the silver razr cell phone. im going to get the pink one, but im going to have to wait for about a week. it says limited adition for the pink razr. so does that mean that they arent going to get more in. my mom jut called ysterday and they said they had 4 left. i dont want to miss out on the pink razr. i rate 5s for all answers. ♥

Hey well they aren`t going to last so if you want one try getting one soon as possible.. Also i heard that they have no warrently becuz they are so thin but i just thought i`d mention that.. Hope you get your phone ♥Dez

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how many oz of water are we suppost to drink every day

8 to 10 cups of water a day!! ♥Dez

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Mk... so tomorrow I'm going to hang out with a bunch of my friends at one of their houses. Usually I wouldn't really care about what I wear when I'm with them, but tomorrow there's supposed to be a few guys I've had my eyes on coming too. I know when you start liking someone you're supposed to be yourself and just act normal, but I atleast want to make a good impression. Any tips on a few cute things that maybe you guys would wear?

Thanks in advance.
14.F.Tx

Well dress casual and not too dressy you know?
i suggest a cute pair of jeans/skirt and a cute t shirt that`ll match good with the jeans/skirt.. Also i think having your hair down and straight is always cute with anything.. Maybe a little make up if you`d like.. [Up yo you].. Have fun (= ♥DEz

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

Well i don`t think your a loser one bit.. I didn`t have my first boyfriend til i was 15.. And i had plenty of chances as well but i didn`t want alot of guys because they wasn`t what i was lookin for in a boyfriend so they just became friends.. I actually thought the same things you did at the age of 15 but eventually someone came my way that was everything i was lokkin for in a guy.. I don`t know if you have standards or what but if you do then thats very smart and good..Alot of girls that have boyfriends alot are girls that go for anybody who comes their way and gives them a little attention and their the girls that also don`t have a steady relationship and always having a [BROKENHEART]..You don`t want to jump in and out of relationships because i`m sure it gets old.. So i`m going to answer your question now [there is nothing wrong with you just give it time] Also it took a while for me to get my first kiss.. ***YOUR NOT ALONE*** ♥DEz

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how do you get the profile on advicenators to be bold or italizized? thank yuz

type what you want

Type what you want

♥Dez

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my boyfriend and i are both virgins. we have eben together for 7 months and well he wants me to go to a clinc and find out if i am alergic to latex..(spell) (the thing that condoms are made out off) and i am not alergic to anythin so i most likely arent. but idk what to say at the clinic (planned parenthood) and i dont know what they will do to find out if i am or not? can someone tell me? thanks.

Well i`m sure you`ve been touched by a dentist or doctor.. Well you most likely would of broke out then.. also if you`ve used latex gloves for like a science project then you would of figured it out then also.. I wouldn`t go get checked unless you`ve broken out before.. ♥Dez

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i have the infamous "bump" on my nose piercing. is it safe to use witch hazel on it, or is that too harsh?

Try hydrocordazone [Spelling is most likely wrong] When i had like swelling/bump around my nose ring i put that on it and the next day it was cleared.. ♥Dez

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