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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.


Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.


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how do i make my freeweb private so only my bf and i can view it? (link)
You need to go in on all of your pages (meaning "Edit" them), and click on "Page Options," then you'll see password protect, click it, and then click, "Members only." Just give your boyfriend the email and password you use for the site and you two will be the only ones who see it.


How do I say hi to a guy and start a conversation?
How do I get a guy to like me even though nobody ever did? How do I say hi to him without him thinking I'm weird???
btw, I'm 13. (link)
Here's all the info you need to know. =]

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294


I am on my school newspaper, and I need help coming up with a title or headline for my column. It's not much, just a random facts section with funny little facts, but I need a title because it's going to become a monthly thing.

Any suggestions? (link)
You could self-title it, or you could title it, "Random Facts of (Your High School Name Here)."


Is someone stalking you when someone tells you that yor picture is on gabnik.com..what is gabnik.com? (link)
Don't worry, it's a scam. It happened to me awhile back, they take you to this site and they want your email and password, basically, it's just a scam for your information - your picture does not actually exist on this website.


I Want Human Hair Extensions.
About 4-6 Inches Long.
Does Anybody know the Cost
and How Long Do They Usually Last?


Thanks :D

(link)
I've gotten them for around $120 and they've lasted over two months.


Are the products from this line good?
I've just using the face wash and it seems good, but I'm wondering about the scrub and also the toner?
I don't have acne, I just get a few spots every now and then. I'm more interested in achieving flawless skin.

Thankyouu! (link)
My best friend uses it and it works great for her, her skin is always clear and looking flawless.


is it possible to see who is checking out your profile on facebook?? (link)
No, you cannot see who's checking your profile. It's the same with myspace.


Hi. I'm 18, and yes, I am an adult living at home with my parents.

I hate being here. My parents try and live for me. I know that while I live under their roof, rules apply, and that I need to respect the rules and my parents. But I think my mom's too controlling. I still have a curfew (usually around midnight. EVERY night). My mom insists on meeting every friend I make before she allows me out of the house with them, and I'm FORBIDDEN to go to dance clubs or even the hookah bar a lot of my friends chill (even though I don't smoke, and she knows that). Everytime we argue, she ends up screaming at me, and when she gets really mad, she'll take my bedroom door away. She has to know where I am at all times, and if I'm not doing something she approved of, she'll take my cell (she pays the bill), my car keys (she pays for my car insurance), and my debit card (she's cosigned on it).

If I had enough money left over from paying for school, I would support myself and move out. But I can't afford anything besides school right now, and that's a priority. But I have NO freedom, and mom and i fight constantly.

tonight she actually wouldnt let me visit my boyfriend because he and I recently fought and mom thought it'd be best if i "didn't forgive him yet".

She's controlling my life completely and I'm on the verge of a breakdown. The very thought of coming home to her after class each day makes me want to cry, and I often do on the way home. She insists all my emotional stuff is "drama" and that she is never wrong.

What do I do to cope?

please help. (link)
I think you need to talk to your mom and let her know how you're feeling. Yes, you are in her house, but you are eighteen and you're free to do what you wish. And if there's anyone else you can live with in your family for free or slim-to-none, then I would consider moving in with them.


Well......my bangs are about passed my cheek kinda long xD well i want to know a way to style them so they wont split in ther middle! I have wavyy hair so i need to straighten my bangs but when do they start splitting... UGHH! (link)
I think you should try sideswept bangs, they're much easier to keep up and always stylish.


Are there any websites that show celebrities that are Christian? I know there are a lot of Christian celebrities that we're not aware of, but I was wondering if there was just a website that listed them.

I'm not talking about strictly Christian stars either (like actors or actresses that ONLY star in Christian films and such) or strictly Christian pop-stars (like artists that ONLY do Christian music). I am looking for a list with people like Miley Cyrus, the Jonas Brothers, Britney Spears, and whoever else is celebrity and Christian. Basically, my goal is to find the popular celebrities that are Christian. Any denomination is fine as long as the celebrity is actually Christian.

Multiple websites would be helpful too if there isn't a website that actually lists all of the Christian celebrities. I am simply doing a project where I will be listing famous people who are Christian to inspire other people to become interested in God.

Thanks in advance! (link)
Here you go. =]

http://www.beliefnet.com/gallery/hollywoodchristians.html


im gonna keep this short and simple.
my boyfriend and i live 200 miles away from each other
we see each other once every 1-2 months
meaning we dont really have sex alot, yaknow?
well okay he wants to talk dirty on the phone
i dont
it makes me really uncomfortable/ awkward
he said he doesnt care, it makes him bored
& im a boring, selfish gf because i wont send pics/talk dirty.
what the fucck is that?
i told him to go find someone who would do that because he obviously doesnt care that i dont feel right doing it
and he was like yeah will do

SO SERIOUSLY wtf, now i feel bad for saying that
but that's wrong of him right? or am i being selfish..

17/f
hes 19 (link)
Don't feel bad, you did the right thing. You were honest and up front about how you felt and instead of him respecting that, he chose to ignore it and be mean to you.

This guy obviously doesn't care about your feelings, he doesn't deserve you, so I would let him go on his own way and find someone else because you deserve better than that jerk.

By the way, you're not being selfish if you're uncomfortable with doing something. You're only being selfish if you are comfortable with something and choose not to do it just to spite the other person.


I been friends with this girl for a little over a year now, and we've become pretty close to best friends since we met.
We tell each other pretty much everything.
I really started liking her after a while, but was always too scared to ask her out or anything.

Then one day, we were asking each other who we both liked, and I told her, and she told me she liked me too.
After that, we started dating, but she broke up with me after just 6 days, saying her mom wouldnt let her date because her grades werent high enough.
After that, we both seriously never talked about it again, at all...
That was last March.

She has now recently become like best friends with my other best friend, who Im really close with, and a few weeks ago, she was telling me that the girl I like, thought we were too good of friends to date.

It killed me inside, but it made sense.
She also told me that she liked another guy, one of my best guy friends. That just killed me even more.

So yesterday I was talking to her, and I told her she was beautiful, and all that stuff...

Today, I was talking to my best friend, and she told me that the girl I like, likes me too, and is waiting for me to ask her out, and that she said she would be happy with either me, or the other guy asking her out, which ever is first.

Now, I need to know..
Should I actually ask her out?
I like her more than Ive ever liked anyone before, and I dont think it would ruin out friendship or anything, because I think we both trust each other to never let anything like that get in the way of out friendship. (link)
Usually, I would say, "Go for it!" However, in this case, I'm a little weary because she likes your best friend, which could potentially get in the way. If you can handle that and know that she could end up leaving you for your best friend, then I do say, "Go for it!" Otherwise, I wouldn't chance it.


When your doctor does a Pelvic Exam (pap smear), can she tell if you have had sex or not? (link)
No, your doctor cannot tell if you've had sex or not.


Does anyone know about how much it would be to rent a Dodge Viper for about 2 or 3 days? ...I need one for homecoming and it's hard to find an actual price anywhere else.

Thanks :] (link)
According to this website, it's between $885-$1,325.

http://www.exoticcarrentalsnj.com/RentalRates.htm


There are some things about my boyfriend of about a month now that i would really like to change... i know thats kind of bad but its not major things, just a few.. like i would really like it if he shaved more often because i really like clean shaven men rather than the stumble.. and he has a bit of a problem with acne and i think a good facewash would help like neutrogena or something... is there a polite way to bring this up? thanks for any advice in advance :) (link)
As far as shaving goes; tell him how much sexier he would look cleanly shaven and I'm sure that he'll do it for you.

As far as the acne goes; this isn't going to be easy, in fact, it'll probably be the hardest thing to bring up. Even I, wouldn't know how to bring this up other than just coming out with it, trying to be as nice as possible, and pay him some compliments and let him know how much better he'd look - however, I'm not sure that this will work as well as it will with shaving. This one he's probably already insecure about, so this may stir up some of those. :/


f/14
im a dancer and latly when i do a high kick with my right leg i get this very painful feeling in my right knee
its in the back of the knee and its hurts really bad, kinda like something is being yanked out of the back of my knee
but the thing is that i get injured a lot since i dance so sometimes my parents will tell me its nothing and i just need to wrap it
so i would like some heads up to what it may be before i even go to them
thank! (link)
You might have pulled a muscle or it could be something more serious, I suggest telling your parents and going to the doctor. The sooner you go and find out what's wrong, the sooner it can be fixed.


anyone that has read the book hoops by walter dean myers,
what would you say the tone and mood is for the book?
and i have tried looking it up
thanks :) (link)
Sorry, I haven't read it, but hopefully, these reviews will help you out. =]

http://www.ucls.uchicago.edu/students/projects/1996-97/Book_Reviews/S96/MarcusWilliams.html

http://www.commonsensemedia.org/book-reviews/Hoops.html

http://www.richland.lib.sc.us/teen/full_review.cfm?review_id=309


This is for girls.
how do you get rid of razor burn in your vagina area?
thanks girl! (link)
Hi!
Try this and see if it works for you. =]

http://www.answerbag.com/articles/How-to-Get-Rid-of-Razor-Bumps-in-the-Bikini-Area/ecf42543-4cd0-49bf-abe3-5e2163fd5748


I was messing with my background colors and now when i put on a new background and turn off my computer or refresh the screen or even play a game thats full screen it goes to the color that it's set on instead of staying as my background. does anybody know what to do? (link)
Go into your control panel and click "Display."
You should see your background colors, or choose the ones you like and then click "Apply."


15/f

i got this dress for homecoming

http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3227253

what color should i paint my nails and toe nails? (link)
*French manicure (for a basic, simple and pretty look!)
*Black (if you want an exact-match)
*Red (if you're bold and daring)




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