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am i being selfish
im gonna keep this short and simple.
my boyfriend and i live 200 miles away from each other
we see each other once every 1-2 months
meaning we dont really have sex alot, yaknow?
well okay he wants to talk dirty on the phone
i dont
it makes me really uncomfortable/ awkward
he said he doesnt care, it makes him bored
& im a boring, selfish gf because i wont send pics/talk dirty.
what the fucck is that?
i told him to go find someone who would do that because he obviously doesnt care that i dont feel right doing it
and he was like yeah will do
SO SERIOUSLY wtf, now i feel bad for saying that
but that's wrong of him right? or am i being selfish..
17/f
hes 19
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Don't feel bad, you did the right thing. You were honest and up front about how you felt and instead of him respecting that, he chose to ignore it and be mean to you.
This guy obviously doesn't care about your feelings, he doesn't deserve you, so I would let him go on his own way and find someone else because you deserve better than that jerk.
By the way, you're not being selfish if you're uncomfortable with doing something. You're only being selfish if you are comfortable with something and choose not to do it just to spite the other person.
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You aren't being selfish at all. In fact it sounds like he is the selfish one. You aren't comfortable doing things he asked. Frankly, I don't blame you. I wouldn't be comfortable doing that either. Honestly, It sounds like he was using you for his personal pleasure. If he tried to talk you into something you didn't/don't want to do then he isn't worth you're time. If he wants to go off and find someone who will "tease" him in such a way then let him do so. You deserve better than that, You don't deserve a guy who will just try to get what he wants out of you and not respect the way you feel.
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He doesn't sound like he cares about you or anything close to, YOU! He just disrespects you, so firstly, don't feel abd for saying that, what you said was the right thing and I couldn't have said it any better. Just go straight to it, he should know that you are being serious, so ask him if he wants to break up, I know this may be a rush, but you will only get hurt more if it stays the way it is. Draw the line and tell him whether he stops disrespecting, you both won't be together anymore. You're not the selfish one, he is! ;D
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Oh my..Oh my i cant beleive your accually asking this question
Ofcourse your not being selfish
hes the one thats being selfish and dumb
Your better off without him
Tell him that he should show you some respect.
Wow.
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