about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza


advice

Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do??

No thats fucked up. Dont stop liking it but maybe you shouldnt listen to it by her. x0

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I have a BFF. We are really close. Whenever she's gone, Im so used to seeing her every day. I get sick and mope. I can't help it. i feel sick and mopey. Then when she coems home my sickness is gone and I'm happy again. When she's gone I still do stuff with friends and have a fun time. But I really miss her.

Thats fine. It just shows that you and her have a strong friendship. x0

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is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year?

No.

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hey i was wondering if there is any way that you guys know of to make a pimple go away in a very very short amount of time, like overnight. not acne, but just one pimple. please. i will rate.

Toothpaste!! Wash your face before then put toothpaste on it. It works trust me! x0

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When I'm on my advice column, and I click on "feedback" it says that it can't find that columnist. But it lets me do everything else. How can I view my feedback?

Are you new to the site? If you are it might take a lil. Just do it again. Go to your colum and then try again. It will fine in a lil bit. x0

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Hey this is TR0PiCALX3 and on my advice column (I just got it today) I uploaded a picture but it won't let me change it! It says Settings Change Successgully! or whatever it says when its done but when I look at the column it's the same picture! Help! ♥

I hate when that happens. Usually all you have to do it delete the link of the other picture and then upload the new one. It also might be that the picture is too big so try a different one. x0

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Ok on AIM I just downloaded Applesauce and everything was working great until I hit the button that says Update Aim. Then a window pop up saying that it couldn't find my buddylist window? I don't get it!

I had it a while ago and it did the same thing. Just get off and back on. Or just restart your computer. If it still does it them delete it from My Computer and then re download it! x0

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I hate my column colors, their getting old. Anyone have any cute colors that go good together? Other than Pink/black. Right now its pink/black/baby blue and I want something different. I rate 5's if you try! =)

White background, light blue font or maybe light pink and lime green links. x0

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Ok...I've never met this kid in person but I talk to him online all the time. He's lets call him J's friend, and lets call him B. Well J told me that B likes me...I want to know if it's possible to like someone that you never met in person? I think I like him.

Yea it is. He probablly really likes your personalty and if he knows how you look like then yea. x0

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hey ok heres my problem. my boyfriend thinks im too shy too kiss or do anything!!! im not evenshy in the least bit! is there anyway i can tell him im not too shy to do that kind of stuff without sounding slutty?

If you arent shy then prove it. Kiss him on the cheek or something or just hug him all the time. Hold hands with him and stuff like that! x0

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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do?

Shave it. I dont know l0l. But if you dont like it and if you arnt comftrable with it then dont. Do what ever you want. Who cares if it dosent make him happy. As long as it makes you happy. x0

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how can you find your bra size? like is there a way to measure yourself? maybe with a tape measurer or something?

Go to the store and try all the bras until you find your size. Make sure that it doesnt look too small or else it wont fit! Duh! l0l x0

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Ok i know this will sound stupid but i dont know maybe it means nothing but when someone types

Its okay if you dont know. Its just a heart! Look at it sideways! Its also the same thing as x3! x0

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Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??

If I dont help much Im sorry because I never been in a situation like that. Tell him you hate fighting with him. I think that you still love him but Im not so sure. I think that you and your boyfriends should try to get back together because you guys have been together for a looong time and I know you both love each other so try to make it work. You know he loves you and sometimes not all guys really know how to show it. But he does love you. Sry if I didnt help much! x0

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BASiCS

001.Name:
002.D.O.B.:
003.Location:
004.Religion:
005.Occupation:


APPEARANCE

001.Hair:
002.Eyes:
003.Height:

STYLE

001.Clothing:
002.Music:
003.Make-up:
004.Body art:

RIGHT NOW

001.Wearing:
002.Listening to:
003.Thinking of:


LAST THING YOU...

001.Bought:
002.Ate and drank:
003.Read:
004.Watched on TV:


EITHER / OR

001.Club or houseparty:
002.Tea or coffee:
003.Achiever or slacker:
004.Beer or cider:
005.Drinks or shots:
006.Cats or dogs:
007.Single or taken:
008.Pen or pencil:
009.Gloves or mittens:
010.Food or candy:
011.Cassette or cd:
012.Coke or Pepsi:
013.Hard or mild alcohol:
014.Matches or a lighter:
015.Sunset beach or the bold and the beautiful:
016.Ricki Lake or Oprah Winfrey:


WHO DO YOU WANT TO...

001.Kill:
002.Hear from:
003.Get really wasted with:
004.Look like:
005.Be like:
006.Avoid:


LAST PERSON YOU... AND WHEN?

001.Touched:
002.Talked to:
003.Hugged:
004.Instant messaged:
005.Kissed:
006.Who broke your heart:


WHERE DO YOU...

001.Eat:
002.Dance:
003.Cry:
004.Wish you were:


HAVE YOU EVER...

001.Dated one of your best friends?
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry?
003.Drank alcohol?
004.Done drugs:
005.Broken the law:
006.Ran away from home:
007.Broken a bone:
008.Cheated on a test:
009.Skinny dipped:
010.Played truth or dare:
011.Flashed someone:
012.Mooned someone:
013.Kissed someone you didn't know:
014.Been on a talk/game show:
015.Been in a fight:
016.Ridden in a fire truck:
017.Been on a plane:
018.Come close to dying:
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend:
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride:
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie?
022.Swam in the ocean:
023.Had a nightmare/dream that made you wake up:


WHAT IS...

001.The most embarrassing CD in your collection?
002.Your bedroom like?
003.Your favorite thing for breakfast?
004.Your favorite thing for lunch?
005.Your favorite thing for dinner?
006.Your favorite Restaurant?


ARE YOU...

001.A Vegetarian?:
002.A Good Student?:
003.Good At Sports?:
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding:
005.A Good Singer?:
006.A good Actor/Actress?:
007.A deep sleeper?:
008.A Good Dancer?:
009.Shy?:
010.Outgoing?:
011.A good storyteller?:




01. I have a cell phone
02. I'm obsessed with new things.
03. I'm the youngest child.
04. I am a shopoholic.
05. I love my gauged ears.
06. I love wearing a lot of black eyeliner
07. I love Daquiris.
08. I love the weekends.
09. I can't live without lipgloss.
10. I can't live without music.
11. I lived in Tahoe.
12. I spend money I have.
13. I'll be in college for over 4 years.
14. I love designer handbags (Coach, Burberry, Louis Vuitton)
15. I get annoyed easily.
16. I eventually want kids.
17. I like the Backsreet Boys.
18. I have more than a couple horrible memories.
19. I'm addicted to Degrassi.
20. I am a person.
21. My first kiss was unexpected.
22. I start school on Jan 4th or 5th
23. I love taking pictures.
24. I hate girls who are fake.
25. I can be mean when I want to.
26. My dreams are bizzare.
27. I am bisexual.
28. I have way too many pairs of shoes.
29. I've seen "She's All That" at least 50 times.
30. I dress how I feel that day.
31. I love Charmed.
32. Sometimes I cry for almost no reason.
33. I hate when people are ridiculously late.
34. I procrastinate.
35. Winter is my least favorite season.
36. I have too many clothes for my closet/dresser.
37. I love to sleep.
38. I wish I were smarter.
39. I am the hottest guy
40. I have a lot of drama
41. No one knows my full story of my life.
42. I love my hair.
43. I sometimes fight with my parents.
44. I love the beach!!!
45. I have had the chicken pox.
46. I'm excited for the future.
47. I can't control my emotions.
48. I can't wait till New Year's.
49. I love the show 'Rich Girls'
50. I love my friends.
51. Christmas is my favorite holiday
52. I can be very insecure sometimes.
53. I have had a broken bone.
54. I hate ignorant people.
55. I love my laptop.
56. I love guys that play the guitar.
57. I state the obvious.
58. I'm a happy person.
59. I love to dance.
60. I love to sing.
61. I hate cleaning my room.
62. I tend to get jealous very easily.
63. I like to play video games.
64. I love John Mayer
65. I hate when I see animals/people getting hurt/abused.
66. I'm a vegetarian/vegan/don't eat beef.
67. I don't like to study for tests.
68. I love Play-Doh.
69. I am too forgiving.
70. I have a good sense of direction.
71. I like high school.
72. I have a talent of sweet talking my way out of things.
73. I don't drink enough to get drunk.
74. I love kisses on the forehead.
75. I love the color blue
76. I don't sew.
77. I am not addicted to drugs.
78. I love the Olsen twins.
79. I'm gonna try out for the softball team.
80. I become stressed easily.
81. I hate liars.
82. I like comfy sweatpants.
83. Bam Margera is AWESOME!!!!!!
84. I love the smell of fresh laundry.
85. I love my family.
86. I don't mind getting shots.
87. I am a perfectionist when it comes to certain things.
88. I always wanted to learn to play the drums.
89. I hate the feeling of failure.
90. I am still a virgin.
91. I would love to have my own fashion line.
92. I can be quite selfish.
93. I still act like a little kid.
94. Above all, I despise dishonesty.
95. I can stay on the computer forever
96. I loVe music.
97. I wish I was more motivated when it comes to school.
98. I love getting stuff in the mail.
99. I have problems letting go of people.
100. I hate the feeling of being alone.

If you wanted to know more about me you could of just IMed me but here it took me forevr !

BASiCS

001.Name: Teza
002.D.O.B.: nov3mb3r 9
003.Location: st.lOuiiS
004.Religion: CaThoLiiC
005.Occupation: stUd3nt


APPEARANCE

001.Hair: bRown
002.Eyes: brOwn
003.Height: 5 ` 2 ?

STYLE

001.Clothing: pRepPy ... hOlList3r
002.Music: aLl kinDs
003.Make-up: ey3liiN3r & liP gloSs


RIGHT NOW

001.Wearing: PJ' paNts
002.Listening to: ov3r by liinDsey lOhan
003.Thinking of: ii d K


LAST THING YOU...

001.Bought: hOlList3r pUrs3
002.Ate and drank: Orang3 juiiCe
003.Read: sex magaziin3 haha !
004.Watched on TV: nothiing


EITHER / OR

001.Club or houseparty: cLub
002.Tea or coffee: cOff3 !
003.Achiever or slacker: hUh
004.Beer or cider: be3r ?
005.Drinks or shots: driiNks
006.Cats or dogs: dOgs
007.Single or taken: tak3n
008.Pen or pencil: p3nciiL
009.Gloves or mittens: n3thEr
010.Food or candy: ugh !
011.Cassette or cd: CD
012.Coke or Pepsi: ii d0nt like sOda
013.Hard or mild alcohol: haRd
014.Matches or a lighter: liight3r
015.Sunset beach or the bold and the beautiful: sUns3t beaCh
016.Ricki Lake or Oprah Winfrey: wtf ! l0l OPRAH alL th3 waY !


WHO DO YOU WANT TO...

001.Kill: NO ONE !
002.Hear from: bRad
003.Get really wasted with: kOrtn3y , k3nzii3 , s3Lma , TiFf cuz iit wulD be fuN !
004.Look like: a lOt of PpL
005.Be like: no 1
006.Avoid: hat3rs and faGs !


LAST PERSON YOU... AND WHEN?

001.Touched: liike ii m3mbEr
002.Talked to: daN
003.Hugged: s3Lma
004.Instant messaged: MaJa
005.Kissed: no 1
006.Who broke your heart: no One y3t !


WHERE DO YOU...

001.Eat: my rOom
002.Dance: ii d K
003.Cry: my rOom
004.Wish you were: caLifOrniiA


HAVE YOU EVER...

001.Dated one of your best friends? nO
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry? y3s
003.Drank alcohol? yup
004.Done drugs: does ciGgar3ts coUnt ?
005.Broken the law: sUre
006.Ran away from home: n0
007.Broken a bone: no
008.Cheated on a test: haha ya !
009.Skinny dipped: n0
010.Played truth or dare: yep!
011.Flashed someone: l0l nO
012.Mooned someone: nope
013.Kissed someone you didn't know:n0
014.Been on a talk/game show: N0p3
015.Been in a fight: sUre
016.Ridden in a fire truck: no
017.Been on a plane: ya
018.Come close to dying: n0
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend: never
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride: YesM
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie? fuCk no!
022.Swam in the ocean: y3s
023.Had a nightmare/dream that made you wake up: ya !


WHAT IS...

001.The most embarrassing CD in your collection? dOnt have 1
002.Your bedroom like? briiGHt oRang3 n giiRly
003.Your favorite thing for breakfast? ii dont eat br3aKfast
004.Your favorite thing for lunch? gaitOrade ..
005.Your favorite thing for dinner? saLad
006.Your favorite Restaurant? hmm..


ARE YOU...

001.A Vegetarian?: no
002.A Good Student?: dUh
003.Good At Sports?: sOm3
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding: nO
005.A Good Singer?: haha ii dont thiiNk so
006.A good Actor/Actress?: ii wuLdnt kno
007.A deep sleeper?: no
008.A Good Dancer?: ii d k
009.Shy?: nOt r3aLly
010.Outgoing?: ya
011.A good storyteller?: ii d k




01. I have a cell phone` noPe grr
02. I'm obsessed with new things. sUre
03. I'm the youngest child. yeS
04. I am a shopoholic. YuP
05. I love ears. wTf ?
06. I love wearing a lot of black eyeliner noT a LoT
07. I love Daquiris. ?
08. I love the weekends. y3s
09. I can't live without lipgloss. trUe
10. I can't live without music. trUe
11. I lived in Tahoe. nO
12. I spend money I have. hehe y3s
13. I'll be in college for over 4 years. who kNows
14. I love designer handbags (Coach, Burberry, Louis Vuitton) fuCK yea !
15. I get annoyed easily. yea!
16. I eventually want kids. yup
17. I like the Backsreet Boys. nO
18. I have more than a couple horrible memories. yeS
19. I'm addicted to Degrassi. not addiiCted
20. I am a person. duH
21. My first kiss was unexpected. ya
22. I start school on Jan 4th or 5th .nO
23. I love taking pictures. YeS
24. I hate girls who are fake. So TrUE !
25. I can be mean when I want to. YEsM
26. My dreams are bizzare. sOmetiiMes
27. I am bisexual. nO
28. I have way too many pairs of shoes. ya
29. I've seen "She's All That" at least 50 times. n0
30. I dress how I feel that day. not reLe
31. I love Charmed. nO
32. Sometimes I cry for almost no reason. nop3
33. I hate when people are ridiculously late. no
34. I procrastinate. ?
35. Winter is my least favorite season. no
36. I have too many clothes for my closet/dresser. Y3s
37. I love to sleep. n0
38. I wish I were smarter. y3s
39. I am the hottest guy. sUre yu R
40. I have a lot of drama . s0metiim3s
41. No one knows my full story of my life. tru3
42. I love my hair. s0metiim3s
43. I sometimes fight with my parents. yEs !
44. I love the beach!!! YeS
45. I have had the chicken pox. ya
46. I'm excited for the future. sur3
47. I can't control my emotions. yes ii caN
48. I can't wait till New Year's. true
49. I love the show 'Rich Girls' noT reLe
50. I love my friends. YeS
51. Christmas is my favorite holiday kiiNda
52. I can be very insecure sometimes. mayBe
53. I have had a broken bone. no
54. I hate ignorant people. TRUE
55. I love my laptop. doNt have 1
56. I love guys that play the guitar. yes
57. I state the obvious. riight ..
58. I'm a happy person. yEs
59. I love to dance. hmm
60. I love to sing. yes! l0l
61. I hate cleaning my room. trUE
62. I tend to get jealous very easily. n0
63. I like to play video games. no
64. I love John Mayer noPe
65. I hate when I see animals/people getting hurt/abused. YeS
66. I'm a vegetarian/vegan/don't eat beef. No
67. I don't like to study for tests. TrUe
68. I love Play-Doh. n0
69. I am too forgiving. sOmetiim3s
70. I have a good sense of direction. ?
71. I like high school. not th3re yet
72. I have a talent of sweet talking my way out of things. ya !
73. I don't drink enough to get drunk. trUe
74. I love kisses on the forehead. suRe
75. I love the color blue nO
76. I don't sew. ii d0
77. I am not addicted to drugs. trUe
78. I love the Olsen twins. no
79. I'm gonna try out for the softball team. nOO
80. I become stressed easily. yEs
81. I hate liars. tru3
82. I like comfy sweatpants. kiinda
83. Bam Margera is AWESOME!!!!!! nO
84. I love the smell of fresh laundry. l0l no
85. I love my family. yEs
86. I don't mind getting shots. ii Do miiND
87. I am a perfectionist when it comes to certain things. no
88. I always wanted to learn to play the drums. nop3
89. I hate the feeling of failure. noT reLe
90. I am still a virgin. y3s
91. I would love to have my own fashion line. fuCK yea
92. I can be quite selfish. yes
93. I still act like a little kid. soMEtiim3s
94. Above all, I despise dishonesty. ...
95. I can stay on the computer forever . n0
96. I loVe music. y3s
97. I wish I was more motivated when it comes to school. no
98. I love getting stuff in the mail. y3s
99. I have problems letting go of people. yes
100. I hate the feeling of being alone. true

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Hey well i am like having all these problems with my mom and i love her very much but she just yells at me sometimes for like nothing and im really freaked out because she gets me mad and depressed i feel like killing myself or like cutting myself!

signed
Depressed little gurl

Dont ever think about doing that!! Your mom is probablly under some stress and maybe she just takes it out on you sometimes. Dont worry about it because she loves you and its normal for moms to do that! x0

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My eye makeup seems to get all greasy and crappy looking after a while. Is my face oily? What do I do to prevent this?

Your skin probablly is oily so start using the face washes for it. It helps! x0

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Kay well there is this guy.. and we went out for 4 dasy then he COMPLETELY broek my heart.. when he broke up w. me for my BFF and then she was all like chicks b4 dicks.. and I thank ehr fr that! but then she got mad at me for something.. and then went out w. him for pay back.. they broke up in like 2 days and then he started liking me again (thankfully) but i said if you really love me wait until the next day and ask me.. and he did but he didn't like me anymore.. then almost 3 or 4 months later we started talking again me and him (oh and about January me and mah friend started talking again and everything is cool now) and like he and I always play question games.. and he alwasy says that he loves me and everything and like he always jokes around w. me.. and then my friend and him started talking again also.. and they are going out.. btu she cheated on him Friday night.. and they broke up (I think) and trhough all of this I haev always still liked him.. when he and her started going out.. I said.. I thought you didn't like her (becasue that what he said) and he goes well everything I said to you was just a joke.. and I was like WHOAAA! and now he is starting to talk again to me like he did before.. and I have NO IDEA what to do.. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!! pleaseee!



Oh yeah and this was from about late November to Now!

Fuck him! Hes a jerk and he doesnt deserve you. Even tho you really like him dont let him play you like that. Forget him. He is so stupid! Gosh l0l! You can be friends with him and all but dont let him say that he loves you. Im sorry but he doesnt. He doesnt know what he wants or who he wants to date. You can do so much better! You really dont need him and his lies because it will make you feel worse. x0

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what r your 3 favorite stores ? I have to go shopping soon and you seem lik eyou kno a lot about clothes n make up n stuf!

I guess everyone by now should know my favorite stores. Abercrombie Hollister and American Eagle! L0L thanks! x0

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hi what type of guys do you really like? do yew like punk prep goth wigger ? what do preps usually wear?

I like preppy guys! They gotta have cute hair! l0l Preps usually wear Hollister , A&F and American Eagle clothes! Stuff like that! x0

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