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this is a big one
Kay well there is this guy.. and we went out for 4 dasy then he COMPLETELY broek my heart.. when he broke up w. me for my BFF and then she was all like chicks b4 dicks.. and I thank ehr fr that! but then she got mad at me for something.. and then went out w. him for pay back.. they broke up in like 2 days and then he started liking me again (thankfully) but i said if you really love me wait until the next day and ask me.. and he did but he didn't like me anymore.. then almost 3 or 4 months later we started talking again me and him (oh and about January me and mah friend started talking again and everything is cool now) and like he and I always play question games.. and he alwasy says that he loves me and everything and like he always jokes around w. me.. and then my friend and him started talking again also.. and they are going out.. btu she cheated on him Friday night.. and they broke up (I think) and trhough all of this I haev always still liked him.. when he and her started going out.. I said.. I thought you didn't like her (becasue that what he said) and he goes well everything I said to you was just a joke.. and I was like WHOAAA! and now he is starting to talk again to me like he did before.. and I have NO IDEA what to do.. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!! pleaseee!
Oh yeah and this was from about late November to Now!
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Tell him to screw himself... you shouldn't be with a guy that can't make up his mind...1 day he loves her than the next he loves you then the next he hates you and starts going out with her and then they brake up and he comes crawling back to you. What kind of bull shit is that. He's an asshole and obviously has alot to think about if he can't make up his mind.
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Two age-old adages come into play here:
"With friends like that, who needs enemies."
and
"Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me."
The boy is playing games with you and your friend. He may not realize it consciously, but he is. And your friend? Is not the most loyal friend in the world.
But that fact is that you both have been tricked by this boy... that is unnacceptable. You need to cut yourself off from him. You can't seem to resist his sweet talking, so don't let him talk to you. Block him on IMs and stop talking to him at school. He's just playing you, and the last thing you need at your age is to be played like that. Also, if you had sex with him, I'd advise getting tested for STDs. Just in case.
As for your friend, I'd recommend keeping her at an arm's length. It's fine to talk to her and hang out with her still, but she's obviously proven herself unworthy of trust. That's just fine; all through your life you will deal with people you can't trust that you can't get away from either. You just have to avoid putting them in situations where you depend on them to keep secrets or do things for you.
But keep away from that boy. He's nothing but trouble.
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ok this is waht i would do and i hope it helps if hes that much of a jerk then maybe you should try to forget about him and find another guy taht will win your heart because obviously he doesnt deserve you if he just jokes around about loving you as for your friend you should try and talk it out with her say that you still like him alott and maybe things will clear up i wish you good luck and hope it helped
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It sounds like you, your friend and him are very, very confused. Not only did you and your friend allow a guy to come between the two of you, but both of you allowed this guy to play each of you more then once. This guy doesn't like you or your friend, he just likes drama. He is playing games with your emotions as well as with your friendship, and you sit back and allow him. He told you that everything he said to was just a joke, so why do you feel the need to be with someone who can play with your emotions and not even care? You need to get over this looser and try to repair your friendship with your friend.
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Hmm. You're stupid to keep falling for him.
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This kid is someone who jacks off with lotion.
He doesnt like you nor love you. You deserve better.
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I'm sorry if what I am about to say is harsh.
This guy does not love you. He may like you, but he doesn't like you enough to respect you or your feelings. He's telling you what you want to hear when he wants your attention, and then running back to your friend whenever he gets bored.
He simply doesn't deserve you. Stop allowing him to play games with your feelings and give someone else your attention. Someone who deserves it.
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Fuck him! Hes a jerk and he doesnt deserve you. Even tho you really like him dont let him play you like that. Forget him. He is so stupid! Gosh l0l! You can be friends with him and all but dont let him say that he loves you. Im sorry but he doesnt. He doesnt know what he wants or who he wants to date. You can do so much better! You really dont need him and his lies because it will make you feel worse. x0
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