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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

advice

My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....

I'm so confused. Should I call him?

You ever every single right to be mad. Besides, you only told ur true friends about it right? Your friends are people you can tell stuff too, and he shouldnt be mad about that at all. His secret should be exposed because, now other girls will know how he is. Call him up, and apologize that his feelings got hurt, but that you dont apologize for telling your friends,because your friends should be there for you. Good Luck.
~Brina

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i like my ex-boyfriend again and we been hanging out alot and he likes me...and i dont know if i should be with him again or not because he messed up me and my best friends relationship..because he thought it would be cool 2 go out with her so he can be close 2 me but at the same time make me real mad...and i also have a boyfriend...and my boyfriend now got in a fight with my ex-boyfriend because my ex-boyfriend said he was going 2 hurt my boyfriend because he took me away from him...which is kinda true but at the same time my ex was messing with my best friend....im 16 and im a female

I suggest not to go out with your ex boyfriend. You never know if he'll do the same thing as he did before. Yes, sometimes boyfriends and ex boyfriends do fight. So, just continue going out iwth your current boyfriend, and if you think you should go out with ur ex then go for it, but make sure you brake up with your bf first. Good Luck!
~Brina

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Ok, my name is Adrianna and i'm fifteen. And I (Obviously) need some help. See, people at my school think i'm a poser. And it really pisses me off. Because I have NEVER talked to any of the people that call me it. So they base it all on the way I dress. Call me crazy but, I have always bought things based on if I liked them or not. So I shop everywhere. Hot topic, Abercrombie and Fitch, JCPennys, hell even the thrift store if I really like it. So like, I want people to understand that i'm not trying to be something, i'm not trying to be a "Punk" or a "Prep" I could honestly give a shit less. I understand that not everyone is going to like you but, it really upsets me that people don't like me based on the clothes I wear. I don't know what to do. I want these people to just stop.


Ugh, I know this is stupid and cliched. So bear with me.

People are so dumb when they do that. In my school they call people who begin to like skateboarding posers, when they really just like skateboarding. In any school you will probably find assholes that say stupid stuff about other people because of how they dress. Most likely, the people who make fun of you are probably jelous of the clothes you wear because, there probably nicer, and make them look bad lol.There are always going to be people out there that just like bugging people for popularity or because they are bored. If someone bothers you again about it just be like, you can think what you want to but, i really couldnt care. Good Luck.
~Brina

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I want to decorate my myspace like have some stuff going up the screen and stuff and stuff going across the screen and things like that and just make it cool. Does anybody know how to do that?

This is my myspace thing :


http://www.myspace.com/23211699

Thanks!

oooo, very pretty myspace sit, I have one also. the url for it is http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=22634269&Mytoken=20050907131201

if you wanna check it out, but its crummy lol. Ok, so i know of a site thats totally awesome, and it has picture codes and all different marquees you can put in, and then just put it into your profile and click submit and it shall work! lol. the webiste is

http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true3star

Hope i helped!
~Brina

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tomorrows the first day of school *sadness majolry* and i HAVE to wear jeans cause thats like all i have that looks good on me, lol. but if im gonna be to hot or wutever it will be ok to change. will it be to hot? im too lazy to answer this myself

Hey lol. Just wear the jeans...you'll probably still be hot even if you wear something else.
~Brina

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There's this girl who's my friend. I have this really big crush on her but i don't want to tell her how i feel because it might ruin the friendship that we have right now. then i went to Summer School and i met this other girl that i also really like, but i don't like her as much as i like my friend. but i'm starting to get the feeling that this girl i met at Summer School likes me, too. Should i tell my friend that i like her and forget about the girl i just met, or should i go with the new girl and forget about my feelings for my friend?

Dont change your feelings for your friend. The girl at summer school probably reminds you of your friend and thats why you have feelings for her. I'm sure it wouldnt ruin your friendship if you told the girl you had feelings for her, just, say little stuff to your friend like, oh, you look nice today, that type of stuff, and maybe she'll get the hint you kind of like her. Good Luck!
~Brina

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Yesterday was my birthday, and i went over my boyfriend's house. He gave me a card and a braclet that i loved. Everything was going great until we started to get into a little fight about something stupid. I didn't know he would get so upset over it. He acted like everything was fine for the rest of the night. He told me that since i wasn't leaving for a while, he was going to pretend that everything was fine. We've been going out for almost 5 months now, and we broke up a few times during that. We get into the stupidest fights, say mean things to eachother, then come running back to eachother eventually. I hate breaking up, and i always get to upset over it. But i love when we get back together. I really love him more than basically anything. We both go threw stages of breaking up. I know all of his stages, he gets mad then breaks up with me, and then later on he calls acting like a moron saying all of these hateful words and things he doesn't mean. Pretending that he doesn't like me anymore. But then either a few hours, or days later, he calls me and says that he loves me and that hes sorry and stuff like that. Then we tell eachother nice things, and he wants to go back out with me. Right now, i am really upset over this and i was crying alot before. I talk to my mom about everything, she helps me through it all. But sometimes i just like to talk to people and get their advice. I hope everything works out. But i get so attatched to certain people. And it's so hard for me to get over them. So whoever is reading this, please help me with what i should do. Thank you so much.


Brooke
AGE - 15

Aww. Ok, my opinion, is that he is a bit immature if he calls and says stuff like that. Why would you want to go out with someone that you get into stupid fights with all the time. Breaking up a lot of times isnt good in a relationship. And yes, you probably do love him, but in my opinion the way you described your relationship with him, that you would be better off as friends. It will be hard to get over someone who you had good times with, but there are other fish in the sea.Take a long brake, like, more then a week, i suggest about 4 months, you know, meet new people, and then if you still cant stand to be without him, then talk to him and tell him you dont want to fight anymore and that you like it when you are happy together. Go on some dates with different guys if you decide to brake up with your boyfriend. Good Luck!
~Brina

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I need to know the lyrics for because you loved me by celion dion Iam trying to learn it

signed
Kayla Michel

Hey, sorry this took so long to answer! Ok...they are

For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'cause you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'cause you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'cause you believed


I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'cause you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


~Brina

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I'm 13 female and i haven't kissed anyone yet...is this normal? Most of my friends have kissed someone but i want to wait until i find someone special. Most girls though have their first kiss when they are 12...am I abnormal? Or just plain 'ol me?

Hey. Its deffinitly normal. I'm 14 and i've only/have been kissed on the cheek. Dont worry about friends of yours. Its good that you want to wait for someone speacial. I'm doing the same thing, cept, i cant date or like...kiss a guy until i'm 16 so yea. But, once again,its totally normal for a 13 year old not to have kissed anyone yet.
~Brina

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How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.

Thank you.

5's I guess

When everything they say brings a smile to your face. You get a weird feeling whenever the person is by you.You like the person based on more of there personality and not there looks. You get really jelous when you find out that someone likes the person. You cant wait for the next day to start, because you'll know that you'll see that person.
~Brina

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what are some good ways to gt a guy to notice you? He's sorta popular and i'm kinda in the midle not a geek but not really popular and i'm not really thin i don't have like a hawt body..well i don't think i do lol yea oh btw i'm 14/f

Talk to some of his friends, and see what you two have in common. Also, for him to notice you, you could "accidently" bang into him in the hall. Get one of your closest friends, who you can trust and have him/her, push you gently into him, and then be like, oops sorry. And tell him your name if he doesnt know ur name. And, like, ask him if he's heard... so and so band and if he likes them. Just,casual talk, like, you could go up to him and be like, wow, i really like your shirt. And, that will get him to know that you like his style. Good Luck! Hope I helped!
~Brina

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My little brother can be extremely annoying. I dont want to tell him to go away, but somtimes i lose my temper. I hate yelling but he just deserves it so much!!!! How do i get my mom to relize that he's the monstor not me and to start dishing out the punishment to the right person????

He has chased me around with knives, hit me, refused to let me eat, and done countless other things! He really hurts my feelings.

What do i do?

I rate 5's!

~Melissa~

Aww, that totally sucks.I dont have younger siblings, but i think I can help you out. Ok, I suggest sit your parents down and tell them how he is acting. Maybe, your brother just ilkes attention, and let him know, that you will make a time during the day to hang out with him in a calm fashion, such as playing a board game or something. If he doesnt stop...start chasing him around iwth a knife! lol, na, just kidding. But, deffinitly try making your mom realize how he's acting. Go out and by a camera and the next time he chases you with a knife and hits you take a picture of it, and then show it to your mom. Good Luck!!!
~Brina


P.S- How old is your little brother anyways? like 6 or somethin?

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i would really like to become a fashion designer

ive already made some clothes... i just need a way to advertise them.. like get people to know my clothes are out there

for the school talent show i wanted to do a mini fashion show but we have a time limit... 2 minutes

if someone has any ideas please tell me!
i rate 5s!

Hey, you should make a power point of all of your designs, and have them show it at the talent show on a screen. Good Luck!!!
~Brina

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Im 13 and I really want a boyfriend...so to all of you guys...what do you find attractive in a girl..13/f

I'm not a guy. But you should know that 13 is a wayyy young age to have a boyfriend...Do you even know why you want a boyfriend? 13 year old guys are so immature and stupid at this age. You need to figure out more about yourself and what you want. Good Luck, and sorry if i wasnt a big help.
~Brina

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well i've had this cold for a week it's geting worse. i want to feel better by next week, any help
i will rate high
striperella

striperella? lol. Ok, go to the doctor!!! duh! lol. He will tell you what medicine to take.
~Brina

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ok so at my highschool we got a pool and have to go swimming. the problem is i dont feel comfrontable taking off ALL my clothes to wear my bathing suit infront of everyone.. they think just because we are all girls and have the same body parents that it is ok but i personaly dont think that is right.. and another thing is we cant use the "girl problem" to stop us from swimming" but i have NEVER used a tampon and i have heared from my friends that the doctor has told them it is bad for you and can mess up soemthing down there?? what can i do??

p.s

i dont start PE until next term

You should take this to the board of education, if you have one. Noone should be forced to do something were they feel uncomfortable. And, they have to understand that not all girls use tampons! Oh, but, you can wear pads in the pool and you wont bleed, so if it does come down to you have to swim, then you can use a pad. Ok, but ne ways, deffinlty talk to either your principal or the board. And, dont be afraid to speak your mind, because this is something that they have to understand. And, dont be afraid to talking about your "girl problems" because it is a natural thing. Good Luck!!!
~Brina

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in ancient greek stories, the people sacrifised(sp) things to the gods. how did they do that?

thanks!

They chose something they wanted to sacrifice, lets say...i a goblet of red wine for example. They set it down someweres, maybe a church or a holy place, and they prayed to the gods, or they sang, or did many other types of rituals to tell god to come and take there sacrifice. Hope I helped!
~Brina

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hi im a 13/m and im 5'1" and im 99lbs, and im pretty fit, but i noticed that over this summer i was really lazy, and im starting to lose my six pack. does any1 have any tips of the fastest way to get it back by the time school starts? (sept 4.)

Whelp, I dont think your going to be able to gain back all of your six pack in that time limit, but you'll come very close to it. Just, do a bunch of crunches, like 59 in one time... then take about a 1 hour break... go jogging or something...and then do 50 more. I suggest, dont do them the day before school...because, your abs will hurt..and you dont want to be hurting for school. Good Luck!
~Brina

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We've been together with my bf for 1 yr and 1 month and recently we had a fight(a big fight) two days ago.And in the next day, he wont call me,text me or even visit me at my house...i miss him so much because everyday he wud visit me in my house...and that night i texted him that are we still together? and he doesnt text back...today i texted him that im home now, will u visit me and he didn't...i really really miss him...i cry a lot bcoz i totally miss him...what should i do?forget him?or should i stay in this realtionship?

i will rate 5...promiz

jean

You should go visit him, and stop waiting for him to reply. You need to take charge of this situation, and go to his house and tell him how you feel.Dont be scared, because he still is your boyfriend, and you should be able to discuss things with him. Good Luck!!!
~Brina

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i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green

what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks

14/girl

Ok, have the lime green run across the middle of your wall, in like a zig zag way, going up and down and up and down... then have purple on the top and blue on the bottom. Thats how mine is except, its different colors. It looks awesome... the zig zag line is sorta like one of those heartbeat lines. Hope I helped!
~Brina~

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