Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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can you get a job if you're 14?
like besides babysitting i mean (link)
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Well, I'm not sure where you live, but here in Pennsylvania as I'm pretty sure of most places, won't hire a person until they're 16, and have a work permit and everything.
There ARE some jobs out there for 14 year olds, you just really have to know where to look and everything, and have someone put in a good word for you.
My friend just works at her mom's place and shreds paper for a couple hours. Not exciting, I know, but her mother pays her alot of money then. So maybe you could work at a friends parents work just doing some litlte jobs here and there, and maybe even at your parents work.
I also know someone who handed out fliers and stuff and stood outside the resturant at the mall and just handed out the samples to people, but I don't think she really made any of the food or anything. But I think she knew someone who worked there, so, like I said, it's really hard to get a job at 14 unless you know somebody who might be able to get you something.
I hope I helped.
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Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)
I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. And lately he's been looking at me more than usual and sparking up more conversation with me. But the thing is, if i try to talk to him online , he just doesnt seem interested. I'll get so far as to ask "whats up" and he wont reply. But he will reply to questions relating to school work etc. Does he like me? thanks for your help (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you, looking at eachother all the time and giving compliments and walking to class and everything are usually signs that a boy is interested in someone - or he's just being really really nice, but I think he likes you.
There are all sorts of different talkers out there. Some prefer the phone, some prefer the internet, some prefer just face to face. I hate talking on the phone myself, whereas he might hate talking on the internet to people, so he tries to veer away from conversation.
Also, he might be afraid to talk to you after school, because during school, whats there to talk about? Of course, school and the classes and wahts going on right then and there, so that already creates immediate conversation. He might not know what to talk to about with anything else, and might be nervous and doesn't want to say anything stupid and come up with some lame conversation.
So during school, don't just talk of school, try and talk of other things like music and everything,and then as the bell rings, tell him you'll talk to him about it later online, and IM him about it and see if he responds. If he does, it may just be because he had nothing to say and was shy, if he doesn't, maybe try and ask him the next day at school why he doesn't talk so much on the internet. He might also be distracted ; he could be doing homework or playing a game or something, also. You never know unless you ask.
And since you like him, try giving him hugs and poke him and just flirt with him in school and everything, even on the internet, and try and hang out with him more outside of school so you can see eachother more in person. Then try and see if he flirts with you even more and shows you more signs of him liking you, cause then you'll definetley know.
I hope I helped.
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well 2 day was different at lunch kevin SAW me but he ignored me he was rite next to me saying hey 2 my clique but not 2 me but on the bus he kept on grabbing my azz and taking off my head band wut does that mean does he like me or not!!!! (link)
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Ack, guys are always so freaking confusing whenever it comes to possibly liking a girl or not, aren't they, haha?
From the way he was acting on the bus, it sounds to me like he does infact like you. But he could just think he's coming off friendly, but most friends don't grab their friends asses and everything. It sounds like flirting to me.
He might've just ignored you at the lunch table because he might be playing hard to get. You know, trying to get you to talk to him more and get attention out of him and everything and make you think he doesn't like you, when indeed, he really does. He might've just not wanted to come off also like he did and make you think he's talking to you like, every 4 seconds or something, haha.
So just try and keep on flirting with him and giving him attention and everything, and see how he reacts. Don't take my word for it though, guys are always tricking girls when it comes to this stuff. One mintue they act liek they like her, the next they don't. They think they're acting friendly, whenever the girl thinks they're flirting. So like I said, just start flirting and see what happens and if he flirts back even more.
I hope I helped.
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ok well i put on blue nailpolish and then i took it off except for 3 nails and they all turned yellow so how do i get rid of the yellow stuff on my nails? (link)
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Gah, sorry, but this happens with everyones nails, and that means your nails are stained, so there's really no way to get rid of it. This always happens with more darker nail polish.
The most you can really do is just let them grow out and let the yellow fade over time.
Also, to try and prevent this from happening in the future, but on a base coat BEFORE you apply the nail polish so it sort of protects your nails. And I've heard that rubbing a lemon wedge over stained nails, helps tone it down.
But most people just paint right over the yellow stained nails to cover it all up.
I hope I helped.
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so my boyfriend of 8 1/2 months frequently makes plans with me, and then blows me off without so much as a call. and were really good besides that one thing. and hes said in the past when we fought about it and broke up that he knows he fucked up. but he did it again last weekend. so i confronted him on it and his reply was :
"you get so pissed off when some little thing doesnt go your way you might want to get use to it cuz its gunna happen all your life your the only person i know that doesnt accept it"
im so mad at him i dont even know what to do. were fighting, not talking, and he's avoiding me. i dont wanna lose him. ive liked him for so long. ive loved him the whole tim ei was with him. but he doenst always do the most resposible things. and he hurt my feelings. im not gettin pissed off over nothing, am i? he repeatedly does it. its not me over reacting, its me wantin a common courtsey he knows id give him! i dont know what i should do, or how to handle this. any suggestions (link)
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I would just message him, call him, talk to him face to face, whatever is going to make you though most comfortable with talking to him about this.
And I would just be like,"Look, I know I messed up, and I'm extremely sorry and I really hope you can forgive me, but you're partially at fault too. I mean, I know you say I get pissed off and everything whenever some little thing might not go my way, but you don't exactly help every now and then. It really hurts me and upsets me whenever we'll make plans together and you'll blow me off without even letting me know. I mean, I might understand more if you just called and let me know, but it just makes me feel unwanted and hurt. So that maybe way you think I'm always getting upset over every little thing not going my way, because if it doesn't go my way, I wind up getting blown off. Now I'm not trying to start a fight or anything, that's the last thing I want to do, I just wanted to let you know my opinions and my feelings on everything, but I really want to talk this out with you, cause we've been dating for so long, and I love you and I love being with you, and I want this to work out." ( or something like that ) and just explain to him all your feelings and let him know you still really care for him and want to work everything and you're not TRYING to arise arguments, which'll show him you really do want to be with him and everything, and that you're handling this in a mature way.
I don't think you're getting pissed over nothing, at all. I would be pissed off too if I were you, especially with such a long relationship as yours. You'd think after all that time he'd want to hang out alot and would have more respect and consideration as to your feelings whenever he decides to suddenly just blow you off.
Just takl to him about it in a calm tone and show him you don't want to fight or anything and you're not trying to be mean, and that you are sorry, but he sound apologize too for his part. And he just needs to try and make more of an effort to hang out with you and everything and be more considerate of your feelings and at least call if he's not able to hang out with you.
I hope I helped.
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Ok I need help deciding something....me and b.f broke up after 6 months well i think we did, and i cant tell who broke up with who...so heres how it went...
the night b4 we had a fight..so the next morning i get a text asking.."so is this is? is it over?" i answered only if you want it to be. and then i called him later and we spoke and i asked him to you want to break up and he was like "i dunno im in the middle" and i was like "you cant be in the middle you either want to or not" and i was like wats wrong? and he said he was bored...so i said well theres ur answer..lets just end it..there was a pause from him and then he said ok. and then we said goodbye...
i have no idea who really broke up with who? wat do you think..? (link)
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It sounds to me like it was a sort of mutual break up. Yes, you firstly suggested breaking up by saying "you either want to or not", and so on, but if he really wanted to be together, he would've been like,"No, I do!" or something. So it basically sounds like you guys mutually decided to break up.
I hope I helped.
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why do guys look at my mouth while i talk to them sometimes??
14/f (link)
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Haha, I've read that before somewhere that whenever guys look at your mouth, that means they want to kiss you. Or maybe they're just looking at your lip gloss if you're wearing any, or just watching you talk, haha. I mean sometimes ( so my friends don't think I'm like, staring at them when they talk ) I'll look at something else like the chair, adn then their lips and then their eyes, etc. But it doesn't mean I want to kiss them!
So it could mean alot, haha.
But usually it's the kissing thing.
I hope I helped. :D
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i think my best friend likes my boyfriend. they are friends but she calls him all the time talks about him comstantly and flirts with him when im not around .. what do i do .. ive confronted her before and she denied it, but my other friends have noticed too. (link)
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I would get your friends and bring your boyfriend with you too, and just all of you and her together privately in a group.
Just let her know you're not like, attacking her or anything, but you've noticed lately and so have your boyfriend and your friends ( they can be there as witnesses ) that she's constantly flirting with your boyfriend and talking about him incessantly and everything, and then have your friends and boyfriend mention all the times she's done it.
Then just be like,"Now I don't know if this really is because you like him, or you're just being a natural flirt or what and not noticing you're doing it, but if you really do like him, then just tell me so I at least know."
Then if she does admit to liking him, then I suggest just accepting it unless you want to lose her as a best friend ( I saw this episode of FRIENDS last night actually lol where Joey liked Rachel and Ross found out or whatever ) and then over time, your best friend obviously if she's going to be a good friend and not act upon it, so slowly just try and forget about him and save herself and everyone else further hurt and drama, and just to move on with her life. Maybe even have hang outs ( without the boyfriend, of course ) and try and push her into meeting some new guys who are single, so she can get a boyfriend herself.
I hope I helped.
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I'm a freshman in highschool, and I've started hearing more and more about people drinking, smoking, doing drugs, etc. I don't know if it's just my school, or if it's normal... but it seems like if you don't drink, people are like, "OMG?! YOU DON'T DRINK?!" Is it like that elsewhere? Or is it just my school? Because I'm hearing a lot about it now. Also, why do so many people do these things to themselves? What to they get out of it? A hangover? They like that? Can't they have fun without getting drunk or high? I don't get it. Sorry so many questions, thanks in advance. (link)
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Believe me, it's like that EVERYWHERE. Teenagers everywhere nowadays are going out, getting laid, drinking, smoking, the works.
I've been hearing alot of it also. Because I haven't had my first kiss yet ( I'm one of those romantical types where I at least want my first kiss to be with a guy I really like or a boyfriend or something, not some stranger over a game of spin the bottle ), and everyone's all treating me like I'm some virginal mary or something.
But anyways, I guess they do like that. They all think alcohol makes them more cool looking and makes them feel accepted, cause they think the alcohol relaxes them more and since everybodys drunk, and practically out of it, anybody could have a fun time then. Even if they're just like, holding a lamp.
Just don't let the fact they're having so much "fun" get to you and make you want to do these thigns also. So many consequences can happen from drinking, and teenagers just seem not to care, but be smart about it and realize what can happen. And if someone ever hands you a drink, just say no thanks, and put it down on the table or give it back to them or something.
If they're going to make such a huge ordeal of you not drinking, they don't seem like very good and understanding friends.
I hope I helped.
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yeah I ihave a new bf!
I love him a lot. and the other day were talking and he brought up the subject of how far have you ever gona with a guy. I told him just making out!
and he is 16.I am 14!
but I would expect him to e more mature but he has had a blow job hand job and been with a girl naked but didnt have sex. I love him like he loves me!
we met at an amusement park[knotts berry farm]
and we hav been going out for a week! but have been friends longer! so i am not a slut!
I felt a little jealous when he tole me that a girl did that and beat me to it!
well the thing that sucks is i am going with him to a party on saturday and his dad heard a rumor of him getting a girl pregnant so he got a pack of condems. and my mom knows we are going out and she wouldnt care if we happened to have sex!
but i am thinking if it is good thing!
so should i have sex??
pleasehelp me!
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I don't think you should. I mean first of all, you are only fourteen, and even though all teenagers sit there thinking,"Oh I got a condom, I'm good to go!" Well, condoms can break. That's half the reason there's so many teenage pregnancies. And then the rest who think they're being smart go,"Oh, well then I'll use two! Double the protection!" Hehe, no. Using two causes friction between the rubber and causes holes in there which sperm'll then leak through and you could wind up with a kid then, too.
And don't forget all the possible diseases and things you can catch, and it's just way too soon. Like I said, you're just fourteen. Kids are way too young to be thinking of this stuff, in my opinion. I would save it for someone who you love, and I mean REALLY love. And I know you say you love him and everything, but even then. Wait for someone you know you're like madly in love with, and is going to be sticking around for a good while. Some guys tell the girl they love them, have sex, and then awhile later they break up, and the girl regrets it.
It sounds to me like he's trying to guilt you into this or something. Like,"Another girl almost beat you to it! Are you going to let that happen?!" As if to convince you to do it and be the first one, which is totally messed up. Plus, you two have only been dating for what, a week, you said? Yes, you've been friends for alot longer, but that was just friends. This is dating, a whole nother game. Whenever two people have sex, they're never usually friends. They're so many more feelings involved and everything. Plus, you must be 100% ready pyshically and mentally, and I bet you aren't. Most fourteens aren't whenever they're thinking about having sex and everything.
I mean, I know you're like "Oh, alrighty!" cause your parents and everything don't care, but I think they'll start to care and you and your boyfriend both whenever you might have a big baby bump growing out of your stomach. If the boyfriend would ever even stick around for that, most don't.
I'm not saying you're definetley going to get pregnant, but it's still a huge possibility, not to mention just one big huge regret.
Like I said, wait for real love, wait for the right time, wait for whenever you're completely and fully ready psyhically and mentally, wait for a lot more years.
I hope I helped.
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how do you put music onto your myspace?
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Whenever you log onto myspace, where it says HOME, BROWSE, SEARCH, and everything, near the end there should be MUSIC. Now you can click on that, and search for the band you like and then just go to their page from there, or just type in their username in the navigation bar.
Like,"www.myspace.com/deathcabforcutie", for example.
Now on their page, you'll notice on the right there's a big greyish sort of looking box, and they'll have about up to four songs, it depends on how many they've uploaded on their. Now, if you want to make one of the songs on there you're song, right underneath the song you want, there'll be a couple little links "Download, rate, comments, lyrics, add". Now just go click "add", and it'll ask you if you want to make this your profile song? Then you just click yes, and there you go!
I hope I helped.
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So there is this guy I know and we both kinda like each other but I don't know what to do. We've hung out a couple times but not much since he doesn't live close to me. We used to talk a lot, like text messages and AIM and stuff but lately we haven't talked much. Just yesterday he brought one of his friends to my friends house so they could see each other and he didn't even say hi to me or anything. We were all hanging outfor an hour or so and he kept saying was he wanted to go outside and he wanted to leave the room, very vague. I guess he wanted me to go with him because later that night, he had asked why I didn't go. I thought it was odd and he didn't like me. But now we're kind of talking again. I really want to be more but I just don't know. What should I do? (link)
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This is really strange. He might like you, maybe not . I'm sure not sure. If he is, he's hiding it really well, and leaving you ( AND me ) very confused, ha.
If he does like you, he's probably just hiding it and very nervous about how to act around you, so he's trying to act all cool and calm and everything and like he doesn't care, when he really does. He might think that if he talks to you too much, he might give off hints he likes you or something.
Or he just might've found it awkward since you two haven't talked in a good while, and he just wasn't really sure how to bring around conversation and get you two talking again like old times.
I would suggest just trying to keep the conversation flowing between the two of you, and make sure that silent break thing doesn't repeat itself all over again. Even though you guys don't live too close to eachother, try and plan some more hang outs at your friends house or wherever you guys were before, or just meet at a place ( the movies, the mall ) somewhere that's halfway for both of you so it's not that great of a drive. And then eventually, just blend in flirting with your conversation and compliment him on how he looks today and let him know he's funny whenever he makes you laugh and just make him feel good about himself. And hug him alot and sit close to him and poke at him and send him subtle hints.
And then just someday whenever you're feeling really good and comfortable enough to, just be like,"Hey, I have a great time hanging out with you today! I got something to tell you, though. I like you alot, ______. I don't know how you feel about me or anything, but I just had to tell you, and if I don't find out how you feel, it'll drive me nuts, lol." And if he feels the same, great! If he doesn't, then just tell him it's alright, adn you two hope you can remain really good friends like you have been, cause better friends then nothing, right?
I hope I helped.
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So I have this friend and we used to be really close over the summer, but we just started high school officially and now she keeps ditching me. I don't get it. We make plans and we say we are gonna hang out but then the day of she makes up this dumb excuse so she can go hang out with someone else, usually my ex-bestfriend. It's getting pretty annoying, what should I do?
O yeah, she's not very good with talking about stuff so there's not much to say to her. (link)
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Sadly, this is usually what tends to happen whenever kids go up to the High School and there's so many new people to meet. The old ones can tend to get the boot.
I would slowly just start to drift off from her. Since she's hanging out with other people, you might as well. Who knows? I might make friendships with others even stronger and closer. And try and make plans with her still every so often and see if she still wants to hang out and everything. Let HER come to YOU for once, and let her make all the calls and everything instead of you having to do it all the time. Then you'll know, if she misses you and wants to be friends, then she can do it.
If she notices you're starting to drift and what's happening, she might want to start making plans with you more and ask you why you're getting so busy all of the sudden and just explain to her,"Well, you were always going out and making excuses with me, so I just decided to go out with other people." I can see why she's making excuses, so you won't get mad she's hanging out with your EX-best friend, but she shouldn't even be ditching you for anybody, period.
She sounds like she might be changing a bit, and her loyalties to her friends aren't becoming so good anymore, and she's moving on. This'll adventually bite her in the butt later whenever she realizes what happened ( her losing you as a friend slowly ) and that she lost a good friend. It's her loss, not yours.
I hope I helped.
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my friend and i both like the same guy. we arent really close or anything. I dont want to "fight over him" but how do I show him i like him without being tooooooooo flirty, before she does? should i talk to his best friend who is also my close friend? i think taht might be messy tho.. (link)
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Well, first of all, even though you're not too close with the girl you're friends with, just consider. Would you rather have the guy, or her? Because if she's not quite too understanding and acceptable of the whole situation, it might be a friendship lost.
Just lightly flirt with him though, whenever she's around, and drop little hints here and there. Maybe just give him hug, but make it big, and don't quickly let go like "oh we're done let go", haha. And just make alot of eye contact with him and smile at him alot, and just hang around him and crack jokes and everything.
And then whenever she's not hanging around you guys, up the anty. Compliment him and tell him he looks really nice today, and sit close to him maybe and just maybe poke him or nudge him ( which may result in a tickle fight ) and everything.
But if you really want to show him you like him before your friend does, why not just let him know how you're feeling? I mean, of course wait awhile, and send him those signals I told you about like hugging him and poking him and everything, but after awhile of hanging out and everything, maybe have a hangout with just the two of you, and just have a blast and everything, and as the day's coming to an end, just be like,"Hey, I want to tell you something that's been on my mind all day. I wanted to tell you, that I really like you, _____. And if you don't feel the same, it's cool. I really hope we can remain friends still, but if I don't tell you and find out at least how you feel, I'm gonna go nuts, hahahaha." ( So you're also lighting the mood by slipping in some humor. ) And if he likes you, great! And if he doesn't, better friends then nothing, right?
I think that might be a good idea to talk to your close friend about it, because for one, since she's his best friend, she can help you out alot by like, putting in a good word to him about you, and you two can hang out and invite him and some others along to give you more opportunities to show him you like him and everything.
I hope I helped.
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ok so i went out with this guy for awhile then we broke up and like stopped talking even though we said we were still gunna b friends and talk afterwards but it didnt happen so the i didnt see him for like 6 months and then my sister started going out with his couzin so we started hanging out and stuff so them we went out for like w week because he broke p with his girlfriend for me then he broke up with me because i wouldnt put out so then we still like saw eachother alot because i became really good friends with his sister and wahtever then his family became like my second family...so then i ended up losing it to him while he was going out to this girl then he broke up with her then he was all over me when it was just the two of us and then whenever he was on the phone with her or saw her he pretended like i didnt exist so now he is all over me but hes going out with this girl again and i think he still likes me but i dont know what to do so can u help me out? (link)
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I would honestly just forget about this guy. Well, maybe be friends with him if you can, but I wouldn't consider dating him.
He just sounds like one big player, and sounds to me like he just wanted one thing from you, and now that he got it, he doesn't care anymore. He just sounds like one humongous jerk, and you can do so much better than that. You should let him know that if he thinks he can have you and then have a girlfriend on the side, he's dead wrong. Most guys like this who cheat on their girlfriends and everything, usually wind up alone cause girls later on smart up to their games.
And just think - even if he DID like you and went back out with you, what's to say he's not just going to dump you again after a week? Or want to want to have sex with another girl like he did with you, while he was dating someone else? I bet you would hate it, and he's already hurt your feelings enough.
I say just back off him for awhile and let him do whatever he wants to do, and just focus on yourself for awhile, go out there, mingle with new guys and have fun, and try your best to not think about him or anything. Then if you feel you can have at least a friendship with him without feelings re-appearing their ugly head again, then by all means, be friends at least.
I hope I helped.
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I'm a cheerleader and I have to participate in these themes that we do at school each week for our footbal team. Well this week it is celebrity day...So me and my friend want to be two celebrities that are friends but we don't now who to be besides Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie but a lot of people were doing them...so does anybody know who we can do? (link)
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Theres:
Hilary & Haylie (sp) Duff.
Mary Kate & Ashley Olsen.
Courtney Cox-Arquette & Jennifer Anniston.
Madonna & Gwenyth Paltrow.
Nicole Kidman & Naomi Watts.
Lindsay Lohan & Kate Moss.
Victoria Beckham ( Posh Spice ) & Katie Holmes.
Winnona Ryder & Kate Moss.
Gwen Stefani & Heidi Klum.
Paris Hilton & Nicky Hilton.
Beyonce Knowles & Kelly Rowland.
Jessica Simpson & Cacee Cob.
I hope I helped!
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okay what is the best hairstyle?I'm going out with a gal next month and I have tried dozens of hairstyles which i liked but which one is the best through a girl's perspective?
i know different hairstyles suits different guys but there are some that suits most guys like either skater shaggy type or spiky mohawk or liberty spikes or emo combover...so what do you suggest?
anyways,here is my appearance first. I have black hair(asian),i have dark eyebrows,oval black eyes which are not typical small chinese,it's average size and curly eyelashes.oval face.i can't describe my lips or nose,but it's nothing special,just average and I just did snakebites,and I have one gauge ear on my right. so what do you girls suggest? (link)
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Hm, with snakebites and a gauge, I'd say an emosih looking hairstyle would probably look really good. Maybe even get some red highlights in it, I always love red highlights with black hair, but that's just me. :]
Here's some pictures of some styles you might like:
http://www.100portraits.co.uk/600x750/086.png
http://img84.imageshack.us/img84/3165/dsc00107yr5.jpg
http://media.urbandictionary.com/image/large/emohair-31616.jpg
http://c.myspace.com/Groups/00007/86/84/7954868_l.jpg
I hope I helped.
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why are people so deathly afriad of rats? like they scream and the rats wont even hurt them! i like rats.
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Some people think that since rats come from the sewers and other types of dirty places, god knows what kind of possible disease or at least unhealthy germs they're carrying on their bodies.
Plus, to some people, they find rats ugly and freaky looking. Like I know plenty of people who hate their eyes and how they always glow and stuff whenever you shine a light on them and like spiders freak me out. I find them horrible and ugly, so to some, that's whats rats are to them.
I hope I helped.
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hey,
this might sound like a weird question but can someone tell me what an SUV (car) is?
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An SUV is a Sports Utility Vehicle.
Alot of people tend to get them because they can be very roomy ( especially if you're a mother with kids and everything ) and they're good for storing shopping bags, luggage, etc.
I hope I helped.
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ok so our homecoming football game is this weekend and i dont know if i really want to go. i'm going to the homecoming dance of course but the game.. 1) i HATE football. 2) there's always going to be some drama there and i DO NOT want to be involved..... but if i don't go i'll feel like i might have missed something really fun or that people might be like "what the heck why didn't she go!" ... instead what i might do is go shopping with my other friend who goes to a different school. it'll be fun, no drama, no awkward moments, and i'll get some shopping done :P i was kind of thinking i could go to the game for a LITTLE BIT with that girl..except that girl doensn't know anyone at my school? but the stadiums kind of far away so i don't know what i should do =/ what would you do if you were me? i know like one person who isn't going and that's because she has some dance thing (link)
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Well, I'm not sure what time your game is and everything, but if I were you? I'd go shopping first so you can still have a blast with your friend from another school and everything and still get your shooping done, but still have time to go to the game and hang out with your other friends and have a blast there too. Like, go to the mall from like, 3-5 ( say the game starts at 7 ) then drop her off, go home, get refreshed, and hop back into the car and go to the game!
Yes, there is drama, but if you don't want to be involved, then don't! Just if you feel you're going to say something you later regret, keep it to yourself. If someone tries starting something with you, just walk away from it. You don't have to make yourself a part of the drama, you can be better than them and ignore them, and still be able to have a great time!
And yes, I don't like football either. I don't HATE it, but I'm not a huge sports person. Neither are all my other friends really, so everyone basically goes to the games to socialize and hear who won and everything, so I don't even pay attention to the game ever when I'm there. I've been going to the games since elementary school ( around 6th grade, now in 10th ) and I've never sat down and actually watched the game. I was in the back socializing the whole time.
So do both, and have a great time! Just avoid all the drama, and you won't be involved.
I hope I helped.
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