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best friend likes my boyfriend
i think my best friend likes my boyfriend. they are friends but she calls him all the time talks about him comstantly and flirts with him when im not around .. what do i do .. ive confronted her before and she denied it, but my other friends have noticed too.
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I suggest talking to your boyfriend. You can't change how she acts and if she likes him that's not going to change even if you talk to her. You need to find out how your boyfriend is reacting. If he doesn't notice, or blows her off then obviously he's only into you. If he's flirting back and giving her a reason to flirt more then maybe you need to move on.
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I think that you should comfront your friend again and tell her straight up and if she still denies it ask your boyfriend if he thinks she is flirting and if he says no then just stop hanging out with your friend until she come to her senses. She wont pick a boy over you. hope this helps
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I would get your friends and bring your boyfriend with you too, and just all of you and her together privately in a group.
Just let her know you're not like, attacking her or anything, but you've noticed lately and so have your boyfriend and your friends ( they can be there as witnesses ) that she's constantly flirting with your boyfriend and talking about him incessantly and everything, and then have your friends and boyfriend mention all the times she's done it.
Then just be like,"Now I don't know if this really is because you like him, or you're just being a natural flirt or what and not noticing you're doing it, but if you really do like him, then just tell me so I at least know."
Then if she does admit to liking him, then I suggest just accepting it unless you want to lose her as a best friend ( I saw this episode of FRIENDS last night actually lol where Joey liked Rachel and Ross found out or whatever ) and then over time, your best friend obviously if she's going to be a good friend and not act upon it, so slowly just try and forget about him and save herself and everyone else further hurt and drama, and just to move on with her life. Maybe even have hang outs ( without the boyfriend, of course ) and try and push her into meeting some new guys who are single, so she can get a boyfriend herself.
I hope I helped.
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it's time to talk to your bf. make him tell the truth. bring your friends that also noticed the new relationship of the two. also be with your bestfriend in the talk. it'll sure be prevailed what's the truth among them.
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