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Well i was born with Classic CAH
and i was wondering if there were any nurses on here on anyone on here with this condition that would be able to answer some questions for me or just simply had any advice for me
anything is appriciated
There is information on it on some of these websites:
http://www.caresfoundation.org/news_letter/spring05_page_4.htm
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=12679470&dopt=Abstract
http://www.firstconsult.com/?action=view_article&id=1011039&type=101&bref=1
i have a t-mobile phone and i want to have ringtones. people buy them online but i don't know where. also whenever i see it on tv its like oh and be charged 4.99 monthly. so is there somewhere tht i could get just one ringtone for a flat rate..
thanxx
When you buy your ringtones online, you usually have to have mobile web on your phone.
And try googling for ringtones.
okay. sunday im going to my first overnight camp. it will be until wednesday. how many shirts/shorts? any other tips? should i bring my new razr? PLEASE HELP
I RATE !!!!!!
please do this ASAP
Bring atleast 4 pairs of shirts and shorts, and maybe some jeans or sweatpants if its cold at night, pj pants, a sweatshirt in case it gets cold, swimsuits if you need any? A flashlight, dont bring your new phone, things tend to get stolen at camp.
im really mad. lately ive been missing my clothes. i went to my BEST friends cabin with her last weekend and when we got back i realized that i was missing a pair of my pants and then today i go to wear one of my newer tank tops and thats missing and then one of my cami's are missing. i brought all these to the cabin and now theyre gone when i get home? im positive that i didnt leave it at her cabin because we were in the tent together the whole time and i would of seen that i left it in the tent. i kind of think that my friend took it or something because what else could of happened to it? i go to her cabin with all my clothes and now when i come back theyre all missing?..i asked her about my jeans and im like did you take them on accident or something and shes like noo i didnt see them when im unpacking. this is REALLY making me mad actually i started crying because also before that i lost one of my brown tank tops. theye all missing all my clothes. also i went swimming with her yesterday and she doesnt have a swimsuit so she had to borrow mine but she never gave it back she just went home with it on so how do i get that back too now? what should i do? when i asked my mom about my tank tops and if she washed them shes like no..maybe your friends arent that trustworthy? i cant go to my friends apartment because her mom is weird and she doesnt like people going in there..i havent even been in there once so there is no way i could actually go look myself. what if my friend is lying to me and has all my clothes? what should i do. because its making me really mad..and also my parents too we dont have the money to go replace all my clothes. and my friend is also suppose to go on vacation with us in like a couple weeks but now im kinda pissed at her but i cant accuse her because i cant prove she took them but where else could they have gone??
well thanks for taking your time...
Well it sounds like your friend took your clothes, especially because she went home with your bathing suit and didnt mention anything to you. Call her up, and tell her that you cant take a friend on your vacation anymore, seriously take someone else and if yoru clothes dont go missing, you'll know. But dont tell her your taking someone else. But i mean I know this sounds sneaky and all, but she shouldnt be taking your clothes in the first placec. I ve never had any of my clothes stolen but I've had money stolen by friends an I dont have a lot of money, so it pissed me off. And I was frantic. Just dont take her on the trip, and if she wont give your bathing sui tback, have your mom call her mom and tell her that she has one of your bathing suits and you would like it back.. for like saying your going to the beach or etc.. you know? Hope I helped.
15 / Female
Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.
This is beneficial, right?
Its not healthy at all.. and not beneficial.
Depriving your body of its nutrients even for one day isnt good. Water is good it does flush your body out, but dont skip meals. Even for a day.
What is the best foundation to use?
I agree with the columnist below l'oreal true match. But I dont agree with the bare essentials thats for more older people, so all it really does is make your face look brighter, not really cover things, and it goes bad quickly,and rather expensive.
well my boyfriend wants the metal tag that say like age sex name, that sort of stuff. i know that there are alot online but i want to go to a store and buy it. the thing is i dont know where they have any.
so thanxx
http://www.dogtagsonline.com/
http://www.militarydogtagsusa.com/
http://www.id-ideas.com/
My mother is so hurtful. I think she keeps on criticising me. And the fucking bitch from California that I hate is coming to visit with my other relatives. Made me more annoyed at my family because they are doing the belittleing things she wants done to me. She's like doing it for her reputation that she makes me feel bad. I don't know how to deal because I have no other place to go to. No friends no nothing. Everyone just hates mes. I am sorry to those people that feels that I have offended them. It's their fault anyways of whatever the think.
Well your not supposed to be treated like this. No one is, the best way to handle this situation is these steps:
1) Confront your mother, tell her you need to talk to her.
2) When addressing how she makes you feel, say, "I feel .. this way when you do this, it really hurts me." Always say "I feel" if you say "YOU make me feel" it makes the person feel more defensive.
3) Bring up examples from the day, write them down, of what shes done to hurt you.
4) Use the "I feel.." method and tell her the things on the paper.
5) talk about it, see what she has to say?
I hope that helped, its worked for me.
A lot of people dont realize how much they are hurting someones feelings.
About two months ago,I was just looking through my closet (it's a mess :]) and I came across a letter. I assumed it was something for me or from me being in my closet and all. So I opened the letter and I saw that it was adressed to my dad, from my mom (they got divorced when I was about 7. I assumed this letter was from then) My curiosity got the best of me, so I read it. About half-way through the letter, I just wanted to crawl in a hole. My mom said that my dad told her that when they got divorced, that he didnt love her, and that he hadn't for a while. I just thought that all the times I saw them together, hugging and kissing and everything was a lie. I'm still really upset about it, even though the letter got wet, so I can't read it anymore. I was just wondering, how can I help myself to get over it? thank you :]
You need some closure on this situation I guess,
go talk to your dad or mom, tell them you found the letter, and how you feel. Tell them everything you wrote up there. :)
I'm sorry you had to find out this way hun.
hey well last night i installed the sims 2 along with the sims 2 nightlife. my computer has a big memory so i guess i could put lots of stuff in it. the thing is when i started to play the neighboorhoods were loading so slow .. actually EVERYTHING was loading slow .. i'm not sure why this happens because when i use the internet my computer loads fast. I have limewire and have about 400+ songs in it so i was wondering maybe that's one of the problems that my sims game is loading so slow? please help .. i rate 5's. Thank You
Most likely your computer is out of memory space, or has some viruses that is making it run so slow!
Sorry if this is long..
Ok, well I'm going on vacation the 8th till the 19th and usually I'm totally excited and wanna go and just have an awesome time, but its weird ever since like the 5th I just havn't been myself. I don't wanna go on vacation and I dont know why. But the guy I reallly like left the 4th and won't come back the 8th, but I'l have a computer so I can still talk to him. But still I don't get why I feel almost sad and I don't wanna go on vacation, what person doesn't wanna go on vacation..well thanks for reading and if ya can please help!
Its probably because of this guy? Dont let him wreck your vacation, I'm sure when the day comes to go you'll be more than excited. You could just be tired too, make sure your getting enough sleep, and that you are eating healthy, sometime our bodys just get alittle down, when theres not enough energy or sun (seritonin) the happy gene, be in the sun, drink orange juice, or pop with sqiggly straws, whatever makes you feel better :)
hey everyone... well the other day i got in trouble... well it all started a yr ago... i met this guy named ryan gellar...he was a lifeguard at this pool... well i was at the pool with my friend milan... and he told me that he had a sister named hannah.. and when me and my friend went back to her house we found his sister in our yearbook because she went to the same junior high as us... we loke her up in the directory and then i called ryan... i told him that i was the girl he met at the pool...he strated talking to me... and he said all these weird things to me.. and then he told me that he was ohorny and wanted to leave me vociemails for him and moan...so i did.. and then in november i told him i would do stuff with him when we met up at the park... but instead we just ended up making out at the park... and so my friend rachel knows him and what happened.. and her parents and ryan's parents are really good friends... so rachel's mom knew what happened.. and i didn't know that.. soo the summer came and i would go to the pool and stallk ryan and this black guy... and they got mad at me because i would go over there and stare at them and stuff.. and that was really stupid.. i knew i shouldn't have done that so i told them i would leave them alone... and me and rachel wer there.. and then i left and that same day ryan, the balck guy, and this other kid who i didn't know came to my house and paintballed it... it was one of their ideads ... but the black guy told that kid who was with them not to do it.. because my friend rachel and her relatives would see threm since they were sitting outside.. and he did anyways and then thats when my parents found out that i was stalkning ryan and the black guy and they were mad at me.. and said all these things to me.. likke how im always staring at people, and how i alwways run after i boys (which i do) but i shouldn't have and i feel really really stupid for what i did!!!! so what should i do now? summer is almost over... and i want to cange but how?
** hmm! you can always do other stuff like.. volunteering, that always feels good to help someone, or convinve your parents you need a job, to learn responsibilty!
I was logging on to my computer and my dad's screenname was on and i found some porn on his recent go-to sites. It made me really really mad. *&& said something about an escort [[yeah I know what that means]] it really hurts me. I want to confront him *&& my mom about it, but I know i'll get yelled at for my parents thinking i just went on his screenname at this time they wont believe me, because they recently grounded me from myspace. Please help me ! thank you
Try to tell your mom, tell her she needs to see something on the computer, if she comes, show her, and be ilke I found it on mistake, but if I didnt tell you it would bug me.
I'm so sorry you had to find this out hun! hope things turn out okay.
I write songs. And recently I've been going through a difficult time. My ex said he still loved me... he wouldn't say that if he didn't mean it...it took me a year to get over him...i was wrong...blah blah blah...so I'm in love and my mom says I'm not allowed to love him I'm only allowed to like him...but I love him and he loves me but she thinks I'm too young to date or something...i dont know anymore. So I'm writting a song about how I dont want to be told I'm too young and I don't want to be told how to feel, or think, etc. but I want it not only to be about love...like it can have more than one meaning...so if you know of a bible verse that relates to what I'm trying to say please let me know...example: 1 Timothy 4:12 Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.
THANKYOU
-Lauren
Well I dont exactly know how old you are, but I'm pretty sure parents arent allowed to tell you who you can love and not love, thats so wrong! Okay, let me look for some bible verses..
1 Samuel 17:42
He looked David over and saw that he was only a boy, ruddy and handsome, and he despised him.
1 Samuel 17:45
David said to the Philistine, "You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.
1 Samuel 17:50
So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone; without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him.
1 corinithians 13
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
What would you do to feel better about your body?
I look in the mirror, and say all the good things about myself. I dont say all the bad things, because they dont matter. I mentally and physically can accept myself.
I would exercise, eat healthy, and be happy with myself. :)
Ok. For around two weeks EVERY night I've been having bad dreams. And it sucks.
It'll either be a new dream, a dream I've had before, or a combination of a couple dreams.
I've had this one for 3 nights in a row, seriously. I walk into a room, and look in this mirror. And there is this half-dead ten-ish year old girl with a bloody KNIFE standing behind me. But when I look behind me she's not there, she's only in the mirror. Then there is this other one where I get put into a coffin and I'm buried alive.
So...
Would there be a reason that this is happening ??
What can I do ? I HATE it....
It could be your subconcious on what your scared of, like a lot of people have fears of being murdered or stabbed, or burried alive.
but I'm also so so sorry your having these haunted nightmares, I hate them. They scare the living daylights out of me. So I feel your pain.
And you have my sympathy.
The only other reasons I think this could be happening is your imagination is running wild? And your still thinking whenyou go to sleep, try to clear your mind before you go to bed.
Or try thinking about what the girl and knife and coffin all mean to you, if they all connect to something thats happened inyour life, or mean anything?
I hope I helped sweetie, and that your nightmares go away!
Right after I met Kate she was my very best friend. Now, Kate is moving. When I asked her parents why they had to leave, they had such stupid answers, and I'm going to miss her like crazy! I'm so upset that she's leaving me, it feels like the whole world is crashing down. Now what? How will I deal without her?
Oh I'm so sorry that your best friend is moving away, I've never had a bestfriend leave me like that. I'm also sorry her parents didnt give you legit answers, maybe have your mom or dad ask them, so atleast you can have some closure. I hope you had more friends, other than her, if not, try making more, I know thats easier said than done for some people, but its the best I can offer you. Try to stay in touch, write her, phone her, do what you can. Just cause shes moving doesnt mean you still cant communicate.
My cousin is a big person, she's fat and big chested. Some of the clothes she wears are really inappropriate. Yesterday she had on something that looked like her boobs were going to fall out. What should I say to her about the way she dresses? At school she's just a big joke with all the boys. They called he Double D Lottay and stuff. So what should I do?
Well you cant change her body, but you can try to tell her that you care about her, and what people are saying. And how this all makes you feel. She may get offended but, subconsiously I know shes feeling really insecure because of her size, and that shes denying it and trying to flaunt it but its not working out to well.
Just be honest with her.
mkay. i'm trying to lose weight over the summer. like 10-15 pounds. and what im trying to do everydayis eat a salad for lunch not too much crap for dinner and a 90 calorie chewy bar for breakfast or 100calorie yogurt for breakfast. and then everyday im trying to do a lot of situps and 50 pushups and im trying to go for a bike ride everyday. now its rly hard for me to do all this. the situps/pushups i can do; the bike ride i cant do a lot because i travel so much in the summer and the eating right is SO hard for me because i love to eat but im rly trying..is there anything else you can suggest for me to do to lose weight this summer and it has to be something i can do anywhere (even out of the country; however when i go to spain there is a gym in at least one of the hotels so i'm good there ill just go to the gym) please and thanks.
Okay well to lose weight it takes a lot of time and hard work. If you are movitaved you can do it, dont starve yourself, and breakfast is the main meal of the day, and the most important. You need to eat a well balanced breakfast, eggs, bananas, you know whole wheat toast, dont just eat a 90 calorie chewy bar. Just try eating more protein and greens. But make sure you give yourself a pat on the back by eating something you really want, dont become obsessive by looking at labels and counting calories all the time, because that wont help. And exercising a lot doesnt neccasarily mean you'll be more fit, dont do them to quickly, because you get better results doing them slow and breathing correctly.
I hope things go well:) be safe, eat healthy :]
Alright. So i think i might sort of have a problem. A while ago (this year though) I started kind of cutting myself, but i didnt think of it as cutting. I didnt actually use a knife so i didnt think it was cutting. I just scratched my self w/ something sort of sharp, until i started bleeding. I did it twice the first time, and then the next time three smaller ones, and then the third time one small & one normal one. But their on my arm where a cutter would cut. And i think people think i'm trying to look like i cut, so i havent yet, and even though i'm not planning on doing it again, if i do i'm just gonna do it on my ankles.. But is that really considering cutting anyways? i mean its not like w/ a knife. When i told one of my like good guy friends about it i was bawling, i felt like a disappointment to him (hes sort of like a brother) and i didnt know what to do, i felt like it was a mistake to tell him But he said its better then lying to him. now we like barly talk & our relationship has started to become distant, but i dont know if its all for that reason. i feel stupid for doing it & i feel like the few people that know, judge me because of it. it really is stupid and i know it, and i really dont even know why i do it. Its not like i do it b/c i cant control my anger, but it does help, like instead of freaking out its easier for me to just do this, and then as i do it i think about what happens. But now i have scars, and seriously i'm embarrassed by them. A few people can tell that i cut myself, other people like my sister fool around & like joke & say that it looks like i did, but i just say that i like fell into a fence, and stupid stuff like that. PLEASE HELP ME. i seriously dont know what to do.
Thats still hurting yourself, so it may not be considered "cutting" to that harsh extent. But its still you hurting so bad that you think you have no other options but to someway torture yourself. I mean if you consider cutting or scratching yourself anytime soon, get help. Talk to a counsular, I know that sounds silly and maybe out of the question, but I talk to a cousnular and I get great advice and just sometimes to vent about things that are bothering me. If you need to talk to someone though and cant afford to see a counsular you can IM me @ kaylehMae on aim. :)