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my mother is hurting my feelings.
My mother is so hurtful. I think she keeps on criticising me. And the fucking bitch from California that I hate is coming to visit with my other relatives. Made me more annoyed at my family because they are doing the belittleing things she wants done to me. She's like doing it for her reputation that she makes me feel bad. I don't know how to deal because I have no other place to go to. No friends no nothing. Everyone just hates mes. I am sorry to those people that feels that I have offended them. It's their fault anyways of whatever the think.
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I'm really sorry, you deffently shouldn't be treated like this. Talk to her about it. Tell how shes making you feel. Cause she might not know shes making you feel that way. If you have any other questions feel free to leave it in my inboxx =)
♥ Risa
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Well your not supposed to be treated like this. No one is, the best way to handle this situation is these steps:
1) Confront your mother, tell her you need to talk to her.
2) When addressing how she makes you feel, say, "I feel .. this way when you do this, it really hurts me." Always say "I feel" if you say "YOU make me feel" it makes the person feel more defensive.
3) Bring up examples from the day, write them down, of what shes done to hurt you.
4) Use the "I feel.." method and tell her the things on the paper.
5) talk about it, see what she has to say?
I hope that helped, its worked for me.
A lot of people dont realize how much they are hurting someones feelings.
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