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my clothes are missing...i think my friend took them?..
im really mad. lately ive been missing my clothes. i went to my BEST friends cabin with her last weekend and when we got back i realized that i was missing a pair of my pants and then today i go to wear one of my newer tank tops and thats missing and then one of my cami's are missing. i brought all these to the cabin and now theyre gone when i get home? im positive that i didnt leave it at her cabin because we were in the tent together the whole time and i would of seen that i left it in the tent. i kind of think that my friend took it or something because what else could of happened to it? i go to her cabin with all my clothes and now when i come back theyre all missing?..i asked her about my jeans and im like did you take them on accident or something and shes like noo i didnt see them when im unpacking. this is REALLY making me mad actually i started crying because also before that i lost one of my brown tank tops. theye all missing all my clothes. also i went swimming with her yesterday and she doesnt have a swimsuit so she had to borrow mine but she never gave it back she just went home with it on so how do i get that back too now? what should i do? when i asked my mom about my tank tops and if she washed them shes like no..maybe your friends arent that trustworthy? i cant go to my friends apartment because her mom is weird and she doesnt like people going in there..i havent even been in there once so there is no way i could actually go look myself. what if my friend is lying to me and has all my clothes? what should i do. because its making me really mad..and also my parents too we dont have the money to go replace all my clothes. and my friend is also suppose to go on vacation with us in like a couple weeks but now im kinda pissed at her but i cant accuse her because i cant prove she took them but where else could they have gone??
well thanks for taking your time...<3
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Just ask her straight out if she stole them.Yeah I know that might sound obvious,but that's what you have to do.Just be like,"Hey,did you take my (insert clothing item here)?If you did,can I have it back?".If she says she didn't take it just say,"Well,I've looked everywhere,so you must have them!".If she still denies it,she doesn't have them.
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Well it sounds like your friend took your clothes, especially because she went home with your bathing suit and didnt mention anything to you. Call her up, and tell her that you cant take a friend on your vacation anymore, seriously take someone else and if yoru clothes dont go missing, you'll know. But dont tell her your taking someone else. But i mean I know this sounds sneaky and all, but she shouldnt be taking your clothes in the first placec. I ve never had any of my clothes stolen but I've had money stolen by friends an I dont have a lot of money, so it pissed me off. And I was frantic. Just dont take her on the trip, and if she wont give your bathing sui tback, have your mom call her mom and tell her that she has one of your bathing suits and you would like it back.. for like saying your going to the beach or etc.. you know? Hope I helped.
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hmmmm. well take a week to observe your friend. see if she ends up wearing them somewhere with you by accident. also are you and your friend the same clothing size? so if she is taking them, would she be able to wear them? well if you see her wearing them then you have the right to get mad at her and acuse her of stealing your stuff. but if you never see her wearing them, maybe you could call her house and ask her mom if she has seen them? you could tell her that you think your friend borrowed them and you need them back to wear that night. and if that doesn't work, then i would just talk to your friend about it. tell her that you know she took them and you would like to know why. maybe you could suggest taking her on a shopping trip to help her find some cute clothes for herself.
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