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About two months ago,I was just looking through my closet (it's a mess :]) and I came across a letter. I assumed it was something for me or from me being in my closet and all. So I opened the letter and I saw that it was adressed to my dad, from my mom (they got divorced when I was about 7. I assumed this letter was from then) My curiosity got the best of me, so I read it. About half-way through the letter, I just wanted to crawl in a hole. My mom said that my dad told her that when they got divorced, that he didnt love her, and that he hadn't for a while. I just thought that all the times I saw them together, hugging and kissing and everything was a lie. I'm still really upset about it, even though the letter got wet, so I can't read it anymore. I was just wondering, how can I help myself to get over it? thank you :]
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People fall out of love as easily as they fall in love. A lot a lot of people's parents get a divorce..and thats because they couldn't work things out or because their love couldn't last. It was probably for the best that your parents divorced. My parents divorced too, but i wouldn't want them together to this day because everyday they'd be fighting. And you don't want that. You just have to know that its for the best!
Try talking with your mom if you still feel horrible about it.
Good luck :)
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Talking to them is a really important part of getting over it. They must have loved eachother at some point to be together for at least 7 years....theres nothing i can really do or say to help you get over this. But as long as they're happy now, you should be happy for them :)
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Talk to your parents about it. I feel so bad. But if you talk to your Mom or Dad about it you will feel better. Maybe not 100% better but still it will help you out. Good Luck =) - Hope you feel better
♥ Risa
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You need some closure on this situation I guess,
go talk to your dad or mom, tell them you found the letter, and how you feel. Tell them everything you wrote up there. :)
I'm sorry you had to find out this way hun.
<3
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