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I found something...
I was logging on to my computer and my dad's screenname was on and i found some porn on his recent go-to sites. It made me really really mad. *&& said something about an escort [[yeah I know what that means]] it really hurts me. I want to confront him *&& my mom about it, but I know i'll get yelled at for my parents thinking i just went on his screenname at this time they wont believe me, because they recently grounded me from myspace. Please help me ! thank you
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Tell your mom and show her the proof. This may not be your dad's first time and if he keeps this up, your mom might find out later and it'll hurt way worse.
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Ok it is not normal for a guy to look for an escort when he is married! Tell your mom immediately. I would tell her that it was already up there when i went on the computer. But, if you are not positive if he was doing something bad make sure you tell her that too. Also when your dad gets off the computer the next time...bring up internet explorer and then hit CNTRL + H . This will show you the history. But if he is smart, he might erase it. In that case it will come up empty. Too many families are torn apart from ppl being sickos...
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Giving your Dad the benefit of the doubt, sometimes pop ups create a trail that look like someone actually visited that site. If indeed he was looking, consider this: Some men love to look, and would never act on their fantasy. Men are visual creatures, while it may seem odd, or repulsive to some women, it's quite natural for a healthy male to look at porn.
I learned a lesson long ago, when we put our noses where they don't belong, we find out things that we don't want to know. If you weren't supposed to be there, I wouldn't tell them. You will only cause a lot of heartache for yourself, and your Mom.
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Don't jump to conclusions. Just because your dad is browsing porn sites, even escort sites, it doesn't mean he's hiring escorts; there are lots of men who window-shop without ever intending to buy. It's also entirely possible that what you're seeing is the result of pop-up ads or spam that your dad has no control over.
However, it's certainly within the realm of possibility that he is, in fact, looking through escort sites with the intent to use them. It places you in a difficult position, unfortunately, because all you've seen is circumstancial evidence and you don't really know what's going on. I would suggest speaking to your dad about it first, assuring him that you didn't intend to snoop but that it happened nonetheless. If he reacts calmly, it's probably not something to worry about; if he "blows his top", or tries to sidestep the issue, then I would imagine that he does have something to hide. At that point you should probably go to your mother.
I'd say that probably 98% of men who use the internet eventually go looking for porn. It's a natural human curiousity. Try not to judge your dad too harshly just for looking, if that is indeed all that's going on.
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WOW what a thing to go on and see.. well if i were u i would just tell your dad straight up that u found porn on his screen name, not that you were snooping on is things its was that you were going on the computer and it was on, i know it will be hard to tell him that you know but the thing if you tell your mom your dad might lie about the whole thing saying that your lying.. but if you kinda think of it if you get proof that you can show your mom that he was on it, the next time your dad is mean to you or something or whatever, use that as blackmail..i know that may sound a little harsh but it might work.. but moreover just talk to your mom about and dont be scared just tell her what you saw and how you feel about it..
sorry if that wasnt good help but i hope it was
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I understand that you really want to confront your parents about this, but maybe it's not the best thing. Seeing as you just got grounded from myspace maybe you should let things cool off. I'm going to give some bad advice here... maybe you can email your mom. Tell her about it in an email, and tell her it was a total accident but it really made you mad and hurt your feelings. You might still get grounded but at least it will be in a less confrontational way... Okay, bad advice. Don't listen to that.... *whistles and walks away*..
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i would talk to my parents about it and say you wernt trying to be nosey. and my parents hate myspace and wont let me go on it, but i go anyway :] well. hope i helped <3
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you should tell your mom... because that what i did when i found porn on my computer... it turned out it was my dad because everytime he would get off the computer i would chec kthe history && it would be there... so you should tell your mom that you saw something bad on the computer so shecan confront your dad!!! because what he's doing is wrong!!! well i hope i helped!!!
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Just tell your mom.She may be mad at first because you were on your dad's screename,but if you tell her how you feel about it,she won't be so mad.
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Try to tell your mom, tell her she needs to see something on the computer, if she comes, show her, and be ilke I found it on mistake, but if I didnt tell you it would bug me.
I'm so sorry you had to find this out hun! hope things turn out okay.
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If you and your mom are alone, try to hint to her to go on the computer. Or tell her you want to show her something. Let her see it and then confront your dad and have her tell him she was browsing and found it.
For your dad you can tell him you accidently got logged on his screename and saw weird things. If you weren`t snooping around, then you shouldn`t get in that much trouble. But your mom should know about it because it`s really bad what your dad is doing.
I hope things work out. ♥
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