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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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I really really really like this guy. I know im a little young but I'm starting to think he could be the one maybe. The only problem is that I'm 13 and hes 19. That is so weird right? Or do people date even though there that far apart? I can't really talk about this with anyone cause his mom is my moms best friend and his sister is one of my friends (not best friend but were defently friends). Our personalitys are like exactly the same. We have know each other for along time. I've liked him since I was like 7. Do you think its weird for me to like a guy that is 6 years older than me? My parents are 8 or 9 years apart but I dont always think that they married eachother for love. I really like this guy. I constantly think about him. So what should I do? Am I too young for him?

You're 13 years old. You don't know what "the one" is.

He's 19 years old meaning he is an adult. He is done with high school & probably in college. You're barely in high school & probably just starting middle school. You're a minor/baby.

Don't get into it with him because he will go to jail & be labeled as a sex offender if he does anything with you. Leave him alone & date a boy your own age.

22/f

this is embarrassing, but every time i masturbate, i need to pee after. what about when i have sex? i'm kinda worried, cos its really cringey

thanx

It's normal. You have to pee right after everytime. You'll get a UTI if you don't.

14/f

so like these shoes are coming into style like MAJORLY and im completely in love with them. but everytime i look for them online i have no idea what to type in. WHAT RARE THEY CALLED?!?!?

http://www.splendicity.com/prettybynature/files/2008/04/gladiatorsandals.jpg thATS the style im talking about

They're called Gladiator Sandals. It's written in the link.

my boyfriend's mother and my boyfriend do not get a long and they do not talk or see each other...Recently my boyfriend had received a bill in the mail from Verizon stating that he owes them over 600 dollars. What happened was his mother had put HIS name on the Verizon bill without his permission...not only am I steaming through the roof over this mess but what could we do to prevent anymore problems. His credit is completely ruined by his mothers lies and we have sent a letter to verizon stating that he does NOT have an account with them. The problem is..How do we know she is not going to do this again

Well, technically his mother has stolen his identity. It is wrong, and illegal to do something like that, especially to her own son. He can more than likely sue his mother alongside Verizon because without someone's permission, they cannot make that account. She has to give his SSN# to get that account, and any unauthorized use of the SSN# is illegal.

I suggest that he not only file for id theft but also that he call Verizon & straighten the whole thing out so that they bill his mother instead of him. He also needs to explain this to the credit people because if he doesn't, this will sit on his credit & ruin it. He can reverse that if he calls them & straightens it out.

Hey, I'm a female, and 17 years old. I have had sex more than 7 times and dont get me wrong it feels really good, but I was just wondering why I haven't gotten off???! the guy does obviously but I dont think I have?? Is there something wrong? or I would know if I did get off right? because i dont think i have. ): Id like to cuz I'm sure id love sex a lot more if i did. am I correct? any advice? thanks

Most girls can't get off from just sex alone & need some other kind of stimulation to orgasm. Try oral.

Ok, I was at my girlfriend's house so we could go out and she had yet to take a shower. She didn't want to go out dirty so, of course, I told her that I would wait for her. Well, while she was showering I walked in because I really had to go (she is always cool with me coming in) and I saw her doing something really strange. She had the shower head (it's one of those handheld ones) shooting water between her legs! I'm talking, legs spread and everything! I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to embarrass her but WHAT WAS SHE DOING?!

There's only 2 things she could've been doing. She was either washing the soap off, or she was masturbating with the shower head.

My friend jacklin said i can use her account. This is her friend Jasmine. Is it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? I mean i love him really much. I dotn want it to be wrong cause i lvoe him so much. IS it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go with a 17 year old?

For me, I would have to say yes. Mainly because he's at a different stage in his life, and he'll be 18 soon. Once he turns 18, it's illegal so it's really kind of a waste. I would stick to someone your own age.

It's also wrong of you to be using your friends account to ask this question. Making an account for this site doesn't take long.

Did the New Moon movie get canceled? You know, the one that is the sequel to Twilight. My Dad said he heard that it was canceled and won't be coming to theatres as planned. I read somewhere online earlier that it was canceled, too! Is it really true? Why would it be canceled though? Why aren't people making a big deal about it?

No, it's not. It's still coming out in November and people aren't making a big deal about it because nobody except twi-hards really give a damn about Twilight & any of it's sequels.

I just watched an episode of Spongebob and it really got me thinking. I am a total fan of Spongebob, but I am now curious if the writers are trying to make him gay. On this particular episode Spongebob is looking for the perfect Valentine's Day gift for Patrick. Normally, on Valentine's Day a guy buys the perfect gift for a girl, not for another guy. Sandy, the female character in the show, isn't treated the same as Patrick. Spongebob doesn't look for the perfect gift for her.
Patrick is suppose to be Spongebob's best friend...not his boyfriend or lover. It's really bugging me. Are they making Spongebob into a gay guy?

I doubt it, but even if they were, would you have a problem with it?

There's nothing wrong with having a homosexual cartoon. It's 2009.

My husband and I are expecting twin girls in two months. It's really exciting and it will be our first children. We already purchased our new family home and are really excited to get to working on it.
We're not sure what colors we should paint the baby room though. I heard that bright colors stimulated a child's mind and may later enhance their creativity. I figured we should color the nursery room fun, bright colors then. We're just not sure what colors. They're girls so I was thinking pink (or various shades of pink) but I'm not sure if that's too plain-jane.

What do you think? What are the best colors to paint a child's room in?

I would try baby pink or baby green. Light yellow also works.

Get some swatches from a paint store & go over colors with your husband. I'm sure you'll find something that you can both agree on. Congratulations on your twins & a new home. :) Good luck!

I am a manager for a retail company and I am required to be on my feet for an entire 9 hour shift (exception of a 1 hour lunch break). As of this past week my ankles and hands have been really swollen, especially after work. I get horrible cramps in my calves at night that wake me from my sleep. It's really irritating and I'm getting worn down. I don't go to see the doctor until the 19th. Do you think it is to early to ask about taking maternity leave?

I have never had any problems with my pregnancy until now. That being said, I am not sure how the doctor would feel about me taking maternity leave now. Thank you for your time and good luck to everyone.

I don't think it would be too early. Some women work right up until their job asks them to leave, and some leave early. I would ask your doctor first what they think. If they give you the OK, then ask your job & take your leave.

What's a good store to shop for pajama pants at? I'm a size 18, so plus size. I'm looking for more plain type pajamas, even pajamas you can wear outside or whatever. I live at college and feel weird in my hello kitty pjs.

All help is appreciated!

Is there a Wal*Mart near by? Go buy some guys pajama bottoms. Their sizes run bigger & they usually just have plaid patterns so they're acceptable to wear out in public.

ok this is what happening

my parents are out with family friends, and they'll be back any minute so I need your help

heres some background

i volunteer on my cousins softball team (im 17, the girls are 15)

and whatever yea i met this girl, her name is Allison, and we're going out for a while. We have a lot in common, sometimes i help her with her homework. I helped her on an english essay and she still got a C. This is because her teacher is a prick... anywayz

So she came over like an hour ago, and i really want to lose my virginity, so I ask her to have sex

"no i cant its not right" she said but i told her "dont worry i know what im doing, ill be done in like 10 seconds, plus ill give you 2 n64 games if you say yes"

So I gave her diddy kong racing and ken griffey jr baseball, and then she goes to my room. shes a bit confused and scared.

Then i think to myself - yo I need lube right? Cuz I hear you guys on TW saying you need to lube up her clit otherwise it wont fit in properly.

Ok so I have no lube, but i really want to lose my virginity - so i grab some butter from the fridge, but its cold, it wont melt - so i microwaved it for 8 minutes, and then i put it in a glass and poured it on her cooter, now shes saying i burned it.

I don't know what to do, my parents are going to be back any minute and shes crying in the bathroom plz help you guys are really smrat and please help me.

Any idea how to shut her up? Should i give her another n64 game?

Are you serious? You wanted to lose your virginity so bad that you were willing to bribe someone into it & then hurt them? And now you want to "shut her up?" You should NEVER have sex!

Send her to the hospital. It may not be a serious burn, but it's still a burn so she needs to be medically treated. And you should foot the bill since it's your fault she needs to see a doctor.

Keep it in your pants. Bribing for sex isn't a good idea. Clearly you don't know what you're doing because if you did, you'd know butter is a food, not a lubrication.

OK so my cuz (lilly) and my older sister (June) just moved into my house and now I have to share everyhitng all over again. My other sis just moved out so its like I lost her and gained two others. My sister (June) spends her money on stupid stuff like ciggerets and then gets money off my parents to get other things. Then my cuz likes to barrow all my stuff with out asking me and now she is waving it in my face that she got a camera and a new dress for homwcoming when I didnt because we cant affored it right now.They both get $130 sum dollars in the mail and I get nothing. Then after I said I got a new camera like she did she went and asked my parents for more money for homecoming and I cant get any she keeps taking the stuff I want and now she is mad because I got the shoes she wants. I hate how they both dont respect the fact that we dont have alot of money and wave what ever they get in my face. How do I keep my cool and how do i confront my parents about this. Should I even confront them?
I am so confused

You're saying that your parents don't have much money, yet they're giving your cousin & sister money for homecoming and other bullshit & they're even buying you new shoes & a camera. How is that even possible? They either have money or they don't.

You can always ask them to stop spoiling your sister & cousin because you're sick of them always waving it in your face but I don't really see much getting done about it. They might do something, but I don't think they will. It'll just make you come off as jealous.

for some reason, i cannot watch rape scenes in movies. i always close my eyes, cover my ears, and turn away even at the ones that aren't very violent. it's completely and utterly disturbing to me. i can handle blood and gore and anything else pretty much but for some reason i just can't watch it, idk how anyone else can.

It's not like you're abnormal. When it comes to movies, I can't watch people getting hurt. Even though I love Home Alone 1 & 2, I can't watch when they get hit with the bricks or the paint cans. I always cringe & close my eyes.

It's normal to do this. If something makes you uncomfortable to watch, then your mind or reflexes does something so that you don't have to.

As far as other people being able to watch it, I'm not sure. Some people realize that even though it's so violent, it's just a movie. Or, they just don't feel bad when they see it.

What does it mean when a person says "Seven Eleven?" // and it doesn't mean the store, or seven minutes in heaven.
For instance... something sexual happens and someone says "seven eleven"
I know it's seven minutes of something, I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT, and i'm not sure what the 11 is for. HELP?! please & thank you!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=seven+eleven

It's a slut.

Where can I get Cafe World Cheats in Facebook?

On Google.

okay first why do guys go for whores? like there can be pretty girl and they are no whores. and it really matters what is in the inside.. (well thats what i thought until i notice mad dope boys go out wit whores or ugly people lik what are they thinkin lol) well can someone tell me why guys mostly go for whores?

You answered your own question. If the girl is a whore, the guy knows she's easy & he'll have a good chance of sleeping with her.

I sent a letter to "Brooke shields" and i was just wondering, how long do you think it will take for her to answer me back? The mail arrived 10/8/09 and this question is being asked at 10/10/09. My dad says 2 weeks but i hope it's quicker. P.S: I live in Florida. (Fort myers.) Thanks!

13/F

Not to crush your dreams of receiving a letter from Brooke Shields or anything, but most celebrities don't have the time to write fans back. It's nothing against the fan, or that they don't want to, just that they're busy & might not have time.

So, the chances of her writing back are slim. If she does, great! If not, it's not the end of the world.

Do you have to be slender to be an actress? I am 13 and weigh 158lbs.

1. Is that FAT?
2. Do you have to be slender?

13/F

thanks!

You didn't give your height so no one can really go by just your weight. I think even if someone was over-weight it would be possible to make it as an actress. Just remember that not everyone gets their big break - despite their looks.

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