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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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this is kind of vague, but what kind of shoes are in right now? not more than $100 plz. also, i would appreciate links or sites. thanks in advance!

As far as I know, flats & wedges are in.

Is it a turn off for guys if a girl has already had sex? I'm not talking about being slutty or anything, I've only been with one person, and lost my virginity to my first true love. I'm just worried now that I won't be able to be in a serious relationship with someone else.

It could be a turn off for some guys because you wouldn't be the only guy she's slept with, but then again, she has experience.

For me, I was the 5th girl my ex boyfriend had slept with. It turned me off enough to wanna dump him.

Hi! I'm sorry if this is kinda long, but please help!

Alright, to start off, my best friend is in major LOVE with the band Relient K. I thought for her birthday it would be intresting to get her tickets to go see them. There are 1 parent going, and 3 other girls, me and her. Tomarrow the 3 other girls are comming over. We are going to figure out a way to present them to her at her party [ since most of the people at her party either wern't a part of it or wern't allowed to go. How should we approach this? Creative ideas wanted!!!

I think your birthday present is amazing, and I would love it if some of my friends did that for me. But I live in the poor part of the suburbs, and I wouldn't be able to afford so many tickets.

Anyways, you could hide in the presents. Or just wait until everyone leaves & then give them to her so the people who can't go don't feel left out or upset about it.

I'm on my period & I'm going to my boyfriends house in a few days. (I'm pretty sure I'll still be on it by that time.) I was wondering, what are the effects of having sex while you're on your period, other than it's messy & dosen't smell too nice? It's safe right? I didn't think it was bad, but my boyfriend is really worried about it, so I just had to ask. Are there any extra precautions I need to take?

Thanks. :)

I would see it was safe, but it's kind of disgusting. Wait until you're off of it. And remember to use protection.

sumtimes i just feel like crying b-cuz i had this bff and she was the coolest but then after waterfront we got n trouble n werent allowed to hang but still saw eachh a lot and hung out at sj=kool but that it and i asked my mo if i could sleepover her house this weekend and she flat out sed no and it makes me really sad to no that i cannt hang out with my best friend and i just cry about it sumthimes and i told me mom but she wont change her mind and i jusy want to run away and please dont answer this DONT RUN AWAY cuz i dont want to her that

Aww, I know how it feels to want to go against your parents wishes, especially when it's not being able to see someone you love such as your best friend or your boyfriend.

What did you do to get yourselves into trouble? If you got in trouble, it had to be something bad, so I'm sure your mother has her reasons for doing what she is.

As much as you want to run away, where are you gonna stay? You could always stay with family, but you'd just get into more trouble. You could stay at your best friend's, but if your mom called her house & found out you were there, your friends parents could get in trouble for harboring a minor. You've got no choice but to stay at your house, and obey your mother and her rules.

Just be on your best behavior for a while. I'm not saying to suck up & kiss your mother's ass, but just be good & maybe she'll allow you to see your best friend again. Until then, be patient. Your time will come.

ok right now me & my bf make out with he feels me up & stuff.
i need more ideas to make it more exciting but i wont go past letting him finger me and i wont give hima handjob.
i need things to spice it up.
thanks a lot.
=)

Try straddling him or whipping his shirt off, haha.

haha ok so i heard this song on the radio but i want to know the name
it goes like..from what i rememeber..

______ make me feel alright thinking of making my move tonight....cause i like the way you make me move

haha something like that

help?

I know that song, but I forgot who sung it.

Go to www.musicmademe.com, and in the left side bar, you'll see a search bar. Click search without entering anything in, and then you'll see a dropdown box. Select "Lyric" and then paste the lyric in, and search through the lyrics you see until you find it. =)

like is there anything to do by yourself to practice???

Not unless you wanna makeout with your dog, or a pillow.

Don't worry about practice hun. Kissing comes naturally, so there's no need to worry about it.

hey im a 13/f and i just got dumped my my boyfriend of a year and a half.he just sadi he did cuz im f-ing ugly and that im not worth anything and that im white trash. what should i do to get rid of this awful feeling??? because i loveeeeee him soooo much and i cant stand it!!! so can you help???

Love,
Crying sooo hard can barely breath

Aww, hun I'm sorry. Don't listen to him though, he's dumb. If you were ugly, not worth anything & trashy, he wouldn't have dated you for so long, right?

Just ignore him. Block him on your sn for a while. Delete his number, and delete his MySpace off of your friends list if you've got one. Do anything you can to make the healing process a little easier.

When I broke up with a boyfriend almost a year ago, he said a lot of really mean things to me too, and yes, they hurt me, but I got over it. Basically because I'm better than that. They're just words, and if you let them break you, you're just giving him the satisfaction he wanted. Don't let him see you hurt because then he'll know he got to you.

Stand strong. And if you'd like to talk, you can always IM me. My screennames for both Yahoo & AIM are on my column. I'm hardly ever on yahoo though.

I went to the doctor the other day, to see if i were a.d.d, and see about getting medicine. i had to pee in a cup and yaddyyaddyyah. im 13. i have giving head, thats it. well yeah thats alot for a 13 year old. anyways. onetime i was maturbating and my dog came, and started licking, it kind of felt pretty nice. so i let him for a litttle while. gross i know. well the doctor called and said she wants to talk, saturday. i know probly something about my a.d.d. but could something come out in the pee resaults?

im worring myself sick and i know what i did was gross and wrong. i regret it.

No. She probably has your results or wants to ask you more questions so she can be sure. Nothing to worry about.

Whats some ways to flirt with a guy more, but like not to obvious.
Likes steps kinda if you want to do that it would help alot.. starting from friends, and then flirting ways not to be like for everyone omg and everything
or just ideas
xoxo thankk you

Laugh at their jokes, or tease him playfully.

jobs . . . . . . . .

yea tomorrow im gonna be with my bf and we are gonna play around haha
its gonna be my 1st time
but i want to know

1-are they fun?
2-how old were you when you 1st gave or recied one ?
3-how long do they last?
4-does it feel weird ?
5-do you enjoy them?

[1] Some people like them, and others don't. So, to some people they are fun, but most people don't really like them and only do them to please their partner.
[2] I've never actually given one. I have my reasons.
[3] You usually go until the guy cums.
[4] I would say it does, but I honestly don't know because I've never given one before. But I would think it would, yeah.
[5] I couldn't say, I've never given one. But I don't think I'd enjoy having a guy's member in my mouth, no.

my boyfriend is friends with this girl i hate. its one of those feelings where when i even hear her name mentioned, i feel sick to my stomach. she did a lot of stupid things and i really dislike her. is this stupid? shes just always there and it drives me crazy. i did mention it but nothing changed. any ideas or was anyone else in this situation?

Just suggest to your boyfriend that she not be around when you're around. You don't like her, so he needs to take that into consideration, but also, you should try & get along with her for your boyfriend's sake. You can't tell him who to hang out with.

what are technical difficulties

Say you're at a concert, and the microphone isn't working, or the sound is coming out wrong. That would be a technical diffuculty.

What do you people think of a psychologist (male) who acts more like a friend than a therapist? Here are examples: (1) he tells you to give up a friend you like because your friend gives you bad advice: (2) you tell him a story about how a customer loved the jacket you wore and the customer told you they know you take a small but the customer wants to know if the jacket comes in an extra large and you tell the male therapist what the customer asked and the male therapist starts to guess your clothing size; (3) you tell the male therapist you had problems with an exboss and the therapist instead of helping you cope with this boss, the male therapist tells you the exboss doesnt like you.

I think they need to be reported because they're not doing their job properly. They're supposed to help you. They're not supposed to be your friend, or your mentor. They're merely there to help you find solutions & to listen to you, not to tell you what to do.

It's okay to have a relationship with them as in you like them because of the way they help, but a personal relationship such as an intimate or a friendly one would be a little weird, and against conduct as I believe.

Find yourself a new pyschologist.

Do any of you know of a program that will let you dowload old tv shows (from the 70's)? My friend is in love with them lol.

There are programs that let you download anything. Music videos, tv shows, movies, & music, even pictures.

I use Limewire.

How do i flirt with this guy in history class in a effective but not so obvious way so the teacher won't notice?

Smile at him & say hi. If he says something funny, laugh at it. =)

i had dry sex with this guy
and i really like him
tomorrow
im giving him a bj
but i know im not skilled at it and he isnt either
what do i do ?
im 18 / f
if that matters !

Any tips on how to improve my serve, backhand, and forehand?

This might make you rate me low, but practice them a ton. The more you practice, the better you get.

For your serve though, just keep your eye on the target. =)

I'm going to my boyfriends grandma's on Sunday (Easter.) & I was wondering what would be a cute outfit to wear? I don't know if I'll be able to go out and buy something, but what's cute to wear?

Thanks. :]

You could wear a nice skirt, or a cute dress. Or just wear some nice jeans, and a nice top. =)

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