hey im a 13/f and i just got dumped my my boyfriend of a year and a half.he just sadi he did cuz im f-ing ugly and that im not worth anything and that im white trash. what should i do to get rid of this awful feeling??? because i loveeeeee him soooo much and i cant stand it!!! so can you help???
Love,
Crying sooo hard can barely breath
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x0advice4y3w answered Thursday April 5 2007, 10:48 am: Aw. I'm so sorry. Don't let him bother you anymore and make you sad if he said that stuff to you. Obvi. you aren't those things to him and he didn't mean it cause he went out with you? Guys just say the rudest things, and don't care about our feelings. Don't let him see you upset, that's your key. He'll know you let it get to you & he'll just keep going. But i'm sorry.
Alli answered Thursday April 5 2007, 3:23 am: you really need to get over him!!! who cares what he thinks because he is just jealous so move on because he obviously does NOT like you so i think you should forget him and move on with your life!! i don't mean to offend you just i am trying to speak the truth. Move on and get back into the dating game because someone out there might like you but you are too hung up on this guy who does't like you to see the truth! okay so seriously MOVE ON!
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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 8:59 pm: He just did you the biggest favor of your young life and you will come to realize that shortly. Rejection is painful and he was very cruel. It sounds like he is the type who would kick a puppy if he was in a bad mood. You are lucky to be rid of this creep. He is a coward to have to hide behind such bad behavior and act like he is better than you after you went out for so long. The truth is that you are better than him and he probably knows it deep down. Sometimes a frog will appear to be a prince because we want it so badly, but ultimately every frog returns to the swamp and is ungrateful to the princess for seeing more in him...actually he is downright resentful of it. Let him have his swamp, his next kiss will be from a toad. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 8:52 pm: Aww, hun I'm sorry. Don't listen to him though, he's dumb. If you were ugly, not worth anything & trashy, he wouldn't have dated you for so long, right?
Just ignore him. Block him on your sn for a while. Delete his number, and delete his MySpace off of your friends list if you've got one. Do anything you can to make the healing process a little easier.
When I broke up with a boyfriend almost a year ago, he said a lot of really mean things to me too, and yes, they hurt me, but I got over it. Basically because I'm better than that. They're just words, and if you let them break you, you're just giving him the satisfaction he wanted. Don't let him see you hurt because then he'll know he got to you.
Stand strong. And if you'd like to talk, you can always IM me. My screennames for both Yahoo & AIM are on my column. I'm hardly ever on yahoo though. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
MissAnonymous answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 8:50 pm: It is always hard to be dumped. But it hurts the most when [he] says your ugly. The only way to forget him that I reccommend is having a girls night out with a tight group of friends. Watch movies, eat icecream (you get the most of course), have makeovers, and my favorite, frozen bras! Another favorite is to give a clown-makeover to the first who falls alseep. Don't worry, she'll laugh it off. Then think if you really love him. Love him more than spending time with your friends? I didn't think so. Even though you think you love him, you really only love your family, and your soon-to-be husband. Trust me, he isn't part of your family. So try to imagine him as a dust speck, floating away.
xoxo
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looneytune1561 answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 8:48 pm: well obviously your not f-ing ugly and worth nothing because he dated you for a year and a half. just keep telling yourself you will find someone better than him and it wasnt your fault and that hes an ass. you dont need someone like him and i know you still love him but try not to anymore because of what he did. it wasnt your fault. [ looneytune1561's advice column | Ask looneytune1561 A Question ]
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