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Okay so help please. My White African Cichlid that I got Monday is laying on its side on the bottom of the tank. I had him in a 2 1/2 gallon tank with my gold fish. The Cichlid didnt swim around much except to chase my goldfish, and he ate some of my gold fish's tail so i put a divider that i made from a plastic bag and carboard. There was some plastic that was loose and tonight my cichlid got stuck in it and was laying on its side. My mom moved the divider and told me so i took the divider out. Then the cichlid swam to the corner of the tank, in his favorite spot. Then he chased my gold fish. So I decided to put him in a different tank that is a 1 gallon tank. The second I put him in there, he layed on his side on the bottom. My mom said he is going to die. Whats wrong with him and what can I do to save him? (link)
chichlids are a more aggressive fish. if you are going to keep them in a fish tank, you should have 2, because thye pick on each other.
this happened to me, but with guppies. so when i seperated them, he just say on his side on the bottem too.
i asked the guy at the petstore and he said i shouldve bought two.
i think that might help you and if you need more just ask me a question


hey i have the razor v3xx
and everytime i am on the phone and i use speakerphone i want to close the phone but it just ends the calll is there any way i can close it and stay on the phone ?
thanks (link)
there is a way
i can do it on my phone but im not sure how you set it up
but i know theres a way
maybe google or going to your service provider would help


wahts sexual tension (link)
tension that is sexual


so my boyfriends turning 16 on the 25th, and i have no idea what to get him. It's a big birthday that he's been looking forward to, since he can now drive legally :D
i just want to get something he'll really like.


thank youu :]
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well since he can drive now how about you get him something for his car

like something to personalize it with yanno??

=]


my friend who is like a brother to me (also way older) left like 2 years ago for the marines, but ive just started getting back in touch with him online and stuff, but we never saw eachother in FOREVER.
but he is coming home for 4th of july, what can i do to tell him that i so0o missed him without being corny? (link)
make him a cake that says "i missed you"
orr a card.
ok well those are a little corny,
but he'll prolly laugh.
so that's good?


what is first second and third base?? (link)
first is makin' out
second is feelin' up and fingering / handjobs
third is oral
home base is all out sex


So me and my boyfriend have almost been going out for two months and all we have done was kissed and it was peck
we act really sexual on the internet i guess but in person we act way diffrent tomorrow i am hanging out with him and i told him i was going to bite him like his hand cause i guess we are pretty weird.. haha and he doesnt want to be the sexual couple.. should i act the way i act on the internet really flirtatious?? (link)
just find a time where you two can be alone and make out for hours.

i do it all the time.


dry humping is also fun. it's just sex with clothes on.


I'm going out with a guy right now. he's a good guy and would never do anything to hurt me, at least not on purpose. we get in wrestling matches sometimes. most times i start it, and we're just tickling each other or something. it usually ends with me pinned but he gets off when i tell him enough. the only issue i have is that usually when i get home i see that i have bruises on my arms. i've gotten quite a few. i've shown him and he's apoligized, yet it keeps happening. i'm just not sure if that's abuse. my moms seen them and my friends and they're all suspicious of him. i tell them it's just accidents, but i can see they don't believe me. i'm wondering if i'm rationalzing it too much or if it is nothing like i keep telling people (link)
i dont really think its abuse
especially if your starting the matches
maybe you should just stop wrestling each other
or tell him to kind of be gentler
but you might just bruise easily
because it seems like he doesnt mean it or anything



my razr just died and i'm not sure if i want to get another. Any other good cellphones out there right now that are around the same price as the razr?? (link)
cell phones cause brain tumors. don't get one.


okayy so me and my bf are now on a break during the summer. andd i really really like this guy named justin and ive liked him for atleast two years. well justin has a gf (justin and i are in 8th grade and his gf's in 10th) soo yeah a bunch of girls like him. but anywayss. we've been planning to hang out a lot this summer (even tho he has a gf) and ive given hand jobs before soo im pretty sure ill give him one but he wants to finger me. i think i want him to but im not sure if im too young (14). soo i was wondering what the normal age is to have a guy finger you?? andd i was also wondering if its possible that he would "pop my cherry" while fingering me. thanks soo much in advance (link)
I know thirteen year olds that are having sex. If you think you're ready and comfortable with this guy I don't think you're too young to be fingered. I was 14 when I was. There really isn't a normal age though. "Popping the cherry", it's when you're hymen breaks but you don't bleed a lot as I'm sure you've heard. I doubt he'll break the hymen when he's fingering you.


SO. I have this mom. shes one of many. but shes turning psychotic! like shes doing crazy things, from yelling, to smashing things, to just being nuts, and I don't know wht to do (link)
You need to talk to her, when she's calm and ask why she's acting like that. Recommend that she should exercise, clean, or just take a walk when she's that angry. but if she gets too out of control, call the police.


i have softball playday tuesaday and i need a team name. i need some ideas. we are purple so if it could incorporate purple and an alliteration that would be kool. (link)
purple parrots. purple piranhas. peppy purple penguins. piping purple piranhas. purple painters.
those are awful. sorryyy. i tried lol. =)


sorry if this is long, you might have seen me ask a similar question before, but stick with me:
so this guy, Jamie, and I used to like each other. but we've never actually "gone out". i mean we haven't been boyfriend/girlfriend. but in 6th grade we liked each other openly, and last summer (i just graduated from 8th grade) we played tennis and went to a movie together. so i think at least then he liked me. but the twist is that he lives in hong kong, and he has since half way through 6th grade. so i only get to see him over the summer. so i will be seeing him at tennis and stuff but i really want to have a relationship with him. last time he said i asked stupid questions because i asked how he liked hong kong and stuff....but what should i talk to him about because i still really like him and want to know if he has feelings for me...and if he doesn't, how can i encourage those feelings. (link)
it won't work out.
don't even try.
because long distance relationships SUCK.

hong kong? where in the states do you live? even if you live in california it's like 2000 miles

forget him.


but maybe friends w/ benefits over the summers. just because you can't go out w/ him doesn't mean you can't hook up with him!


I'm going out with a guy right now. he's a good guy and would never do anything to hurt me, at least not on purpose. we get in wrestling matches sometimes. most times i start it, and we're just tickling each other or something. it usually ends with me pinned but he gets off when i tell him enough. the only issue i have is that usually when i get home i see that i have bruises on my arms. i've gotten quite a few. i've shown him and he's apoligized, yet it keeps happening. i'm just not sure if that's abuse. my moms seen them and my friends and they're all suspicious of him. i tell them it's just accidents, but i can see they don't believe me. i'm wondering if i'm rationalzing it too much or if it is nothing like i keep telling people (link)
Well if he's really aggressive when you're wrestling and doesn't listen to you when you say "stop" it is abuse. Me and my boyfriend wrestled around once, he was pinching me and stuff, there were over 20 bruises, that wasn't abuse because we were doing it to each other and laughing. Who knows, you may just bruise like a peach like i do. You should tell your boyfriend to lay off the wrestling for a while. But if he's really hurting you on purpose you need to get help.


okay so this guy i really really like wants me to give him a hand job..i def am and ive given handjobs before but i want it to be really good..please give me some tips. (link)
use a really good lube and both hands! that way, he doesn't get chafed, and it goes quicker!


ok i have a friend (lets call her jace) and shes really sweet to me and we've been really good friends since we were about 10. thing is when i get close to her i feel like ...wow and when she hugs me i feel like im holding the world. also, i wouldnt mind kissing her. i deff dont want to tell her this cause im afraid she'll get freaked out. is that the right thing to do not to tell her? i want to know if you think im bi too. thanks lotss.

P.S. ive NEVER EVER EVER liked another girl before and never can picture myself with one (except jace) cause im the preppy type and 15/f (link)
eh teenage girls get like that sometimes with their best friends. just ask her, "hey, do you like me in a sexual way?"

sure it might ruin your relationship with her, but hey, at least you'll find out.



ok i have a friend (lets call her jace) and shes really sweet to me and we've been really good friends since we were about 10. thing is when i get close to her i feel like ...wow and when she hugs me i feel like im holding the world. also, i wouldnt mind kissing her. i deff dont want to tell her this cause im afraid she'll get freaked out. is that the right thing to do not to tell her? i want to know if you think im bi too. thanks lotss.

P.S. ive NEVER EVER EVER liked another girl before and never can picture myself with one (except jace) cause im the preppy type and 15/f (link)
I do think you should let her know, unless you're way too afraid she'll be freaked out. You should probably get her opinion on homosexuals and bisexuals first and see what she thinks of them. You could also just mess around and ask silly questions and slip in a question "would you ever kiss a girl?" to find out if she thinks it's gross or whatever. You probably are bi, maybe you just like her so much you don't even bother to look at other girls.


is my dick big enough for female liking?
i got hard and measured and its a little less than 6 inches
is that good? (link)
well it depends on the female. some girls prefer bigger and others may like smaller. you're average so you don't have much to worry about. but if you want to pleasure a girl like A LOT. i'd recommend finding a position that allows deep penetration. sexinfo101.com has positions and shows which positions are better for deeper penetration.


i'm not sure why, but i just so happen to be a girl that moans and breaths heavy a ton during anything sexual with my boyfriend... should i try to contain myself, or do you think my boyfriend enjoys it? (link)
Do not contain yourself at all. If you're boyfriend didn't like it, he would have said something by now. When a guy hears you moaning and breathing heavy it lets them know they're giving you pleasure and that they're doing a good job. =)


okay so this guy i really really like wants me to give him a hand job..i def am and ive given handjobs before but i want it to be really good..please give me some tips. (link)
Well you obviously go up and down in a nice steady motion. I recommend having your index finger and thumb at the top and each time your hand goes up force the head of the penis through the index and thumb. Also, with your free hand squeeze his testicles, GENTLY. =)




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