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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!!

You need to talk to him about him and his ex girlfriend. You need to ask him straight if he still has feelings for her, and if he says no, then just accept what he says and believe him. There isn't really a way you can get it out of him, and if he really likes you like how he says he does, then that is good for the both of you. He's probably just not ready to get into a relationship yet (because he's upset about his girlfriend), and that is why he's waiting to ask you out. Just wait until he is feeling better, and then ask him out. If you're not ready to do "stuff" with him, then tell him that straight. If he can't accept what you don't want from him, then don't be with him. If you have anymore questions about this subject or something else, please leave another message in my inbox.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?

Thx

Whenever you're NOT busy..go over to his house and make plans in advance. Then ask him for his phone number so you can call a lot and ask him to hang out with you. Plan something with him, and then once you hang out more often, he'll want to be with you more also and call you more. If you have anything in common (I'm sure you do) then do some things with him that you both will like.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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hey today will be my first ever six flags trip, and im just curious what are some really good rides that i should go on? what about kingda kah
? (sp?). thanks a bunch!
~*jaimee*~

Go on Superman! And some Six Flags have a guy who hypmotizes people..I never laughed so hard in my life. You would love that show. There is also a big white wooden roller coatser...that is probably the first ride you should ride on because it gets you ready for the big ones.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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ok, this house has nothing to eat at all. what are some things i could make? we have peanut butter, grape jelly, bread, (im not eating pb&j anymore!!!) and milk. everything else is rotten. and it's 11:53 so i dont think we can order pizza. and we dont have any money....help.

Well if that's the only things you can eat, eat toast with jelly (yum) or toast with peanut butter (YUM) and a glass of milk. You should be able to order pizza from SOMEWHERE lol.

Maybe you should try going grocery shopping tomorrow!

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i am sooooo bored! any ideas for fun?

Well if you're looking for some websites here are some:
http://www.memegen.com
http://www.xanga.com
http://www.i-am-bored.com
http://www.bored.com
http://www.thedollpalace.com
http://www.quizilla.com

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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i really like my boyfriend a whole lot. i mean hes great. but alot of people think hes immature and i never really noticed it before but now i do. we're both 13 if that helps. now i know girls mature faster then guys but.iono what to do. i need some help.thx in advance :)

If you like the way he acts, stay with him. It doesn't matter what your friends think about him if you really like him. It's sometimes good to have an immature boyfriend at times so you can have fun together. Just now you realized he's immature because your friends told you and you're probably embaressed by it, so talk to him about it. If he'll change, then that's good. If he won't change, then you need to make a descicion about if you want to stay with him or not.

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ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute

i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!

Okay, since you weren't satisfied with my other answer, then I'll tell you this: Sometimes it's cute to ask the girl first before doing it. When you do it the first time, it's nice and makes it more of a "sweet" moment. Happy now?

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

I think if it was the first time kissing the guy it would be cute. But if every time he wanted to kiss me and he would ask..it would get kind of annoying. Like what if he kissed me five times a day on the cheek or something and every time he would ask, "Can I kiss you again?" it would get annoying. But the first time would be nice and romantic.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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So theres this guy that was in my class last year and i went to the same camp as him and we would hang out toghter like evryday and people kept saying we liked each other.He flirts with me all the time.Hes older guy friends says he does like me but i dont know if i should belive them.Should we be friends or not?

You need to ask him how he feels about you. If you like him, why just be friends? If you both like eachother and want to go out, do so. It doesn't have anything to do with his friends, it only has to do with you and your guy. If he flirts with you, flirt back and see if he keeps doing it. Once you're more comfortable, ask him out or something.
Fill me in on what happens.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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i realllly like this guy on my swimteam but hes 2 yrs older than me and in a diffrent grade. do i still have a chance with him or do guys only look 4 grls their age??

It really depends on the guy you want to ask out. Some guys don't care about age at all, while others want someone their one age. OR some guys want an older women, but it really depends on who he is. In my opinion, 2 years isn't a big difference. I suggest getting to know him better and try to look for signs if he likes you. If you think he likes you, go for it and ask him out. Tell me later what happens later when you decide to ask him.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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why should you go out iwth a guy?

Um well I think you should go out with a guy because you like the way he acts and you want to get to know him better, alone or with friends. I would like to go out with a guy only if I really got to know him well and then want to be with him out of where I usually see him. I would have to meet up with a guy a few times before we actually go out on a date.

Of course..it is different for everyone. Some girls only wanna go out with guys because they want to say and brag about having a boyfriend. I wouldn't do that though lol..

Much love,
mystical_breeze

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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go?

No. Do not go to the party if your mom said you couldn't. The party will be ONE night of pleasure and fun, but if your mom finds out, it will be a long time of misery and being grounded the rest of the time. Which would you rather do? I would go with not going to the party.

Much love, mystical_breeze

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im sick with a plain cold...what are some good medicines that actually work that ARE NOT pills
ill rate


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Go to your doctor and he'll suggest you some medicine from the store that will work..and ask for either liquid medicine or chewables.

Much love, mystical_breeze

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does anyone know where i can get a dress i have to go to a wedding (i need websites of any stores that have dresses) i rate 5 for any anwser

Um well there are these stores:
David's Bridal (is has dresses for prom dresses and wedding dresses for a good price)
Fashion Bug (Well there aren't a lot of dresses but a lot of REALLY cute fancy skirts)

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Ok. There was this baby i was babysitting and a little kid. i put them to sleep and i was watchin TV. then i heard the baby cry. i ran upstairs and the little kid was ontop of the baby! i do not know hwat to do!! i dont want to tell the parents but the baby might be hurt. HELPP

Tell the parents before the little baby gets hurt by the kid. It's not your fault that the baby was hurt because of their child, so you need to tell them (You won't get in trouble). Every baby-sitter should do that if a child is getting hurt, you can't ignore something like that.

Much love, mystical_breeze

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I have a little brother who is 6 years old. His name is Denis. I love him and all, but.. he's a weirdo. He's overweight.. he's only 6 and hes 114 lbs. I dont know how to tell him he's overweight without hurting his feelings. It's kind of cute though.. I call him my little oompa loompa. Hehe. Well, please give me much advice. Thanks much!

-Cynthia

I wouldn't tell him he's overweight. My sister is also overweight, she is seven years old and 94 pounds so I told her to lose weight and she took it kind of bad. Now we just try to help her eat healthy snacks, such as grapes and apples. My mom won't buy junk food anymore either, since she wants us all to lose weight. Well anyway, just do what my family does. When you go shopping with one of your parents, try to pick out more healthy things. And drink a lot of water. I've lost fifteen pounds since I last went to the doctor, and I think this will help your brother also.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks

YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE ASAP. Rape is a horrible thing, and you need to tell your parents and the police. He WILL deny it no matter what, but honestly, why would you lie? Please, take my advice or talk to the teacher with a tape recorder in your pocket so he'll tell it all on tape. He won't kill you if you tell someone.

Much love,
mystical_breeze

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I have a boyfriend named Banard. He farts.. IN PUBLIC! I love him and his farts, but not in public! I mean, I don't wanna be called names, because of him. And, my parents thinks it's soo unexceptable that he farts in public. How should I talk to him about this? What do I do?!?!? HELLPP MEE! PLEASE!



Signed,
Fartness Confused

Just tell him how you feel. Don't say, "I'm embaressed because of you and your farts," Just tell him that it's kind of rude to do that in public when everyone is having a good time. There isn't a lot you can do about this..but I suggest just telling him how you feel the next time you see him.

Much love,
mystical_breeze

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my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.

If you "hate" having a boyfriend, why are you still with him? If you want to break up (which is fine) you should do it before anything else happens. Tell him how you feel right away (not over the computer or on the phone because it'll be better in person). If you still like him and just want to cool down your relationship, tell him that the next time you talk to him. DON'T be shy, because this is something that deals with his feelings. If he agrees to cool down the relationship with eachother, then you're good. If he doesn't, break up.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Are there any true Christians on here?????? Christians who belive that Christianity isn't a religion, but that it's a relationship between you and Jesus and a lifestyle. Are there any Christians out there that Love Jesus Christ with their whole heart and want to serve him NO MATTER WHAT????

I do believe Christianity is a religion, but I also believe it is a relationship between myself and God. I DO love Jesus Christ with my heart and will try my best to serve him and do what he wants me to. I think that God gave me the message in myself to be a Christain writer for children's books when I'm older. I will do that, because I know it's what he has planned for me to do with my life.

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