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immaturity :-/
i really like my boyfriend a whole lot. i mean hes great. but alot of people think hes immature and i never really noticed it before but now i do. we're both 13 if that helps. now i know girls mature faster then guys but.iono what to do. i need some help.thx in advance :)
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i might get some nasty feed back for saying this but here it is. does it really bother you that he is not mature...or does it bother you that your friends think he isnt? well, i dont know what it is but i really think you should give him some time to improve.
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Don't worry about it. That's just how 13 year old guys are. It's only natural for them to act like that. If it is really bothering you, then I guess you could bring it up to him and just let him know he's acting like a child. But if I were you I wouldnt worry. He will mature sooner than you think.
Hope I helped :)
~*~*~Lauren~*~*~
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Well can you talk to him about this?? I think you should DEFINITELY try to. I can completely understand how you can grow sick and tired of his immaturity, but maybe he doesn't even know he's BEING immature - that's always a possibilty. Perhaps together the two of you can sit down and come up with a few possible solution. But if not, I don't blame you for dumping him. At least you would have known that you TRIED to make things work by even BRINGING UP the topic. Just make shore you go about it responsibly and politely, as not to offend him. I wish you the best of luck; hopefully things work out for you!! :D
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alot of my homeboys are like that. there's really nothing YOU can do- it's out of your control.but what you can do is think long and hard about it. if it's something that bothers you, or makes u feel unnattracted to him in any way- then bring it up to him. subtly, of course.because many guys who are immature dont think anything of it. if he's not willing to act even just a little more grown-up, at least around you- then break it off. but never worry about what other people think about him. it's not them he's going out with. it's you. hope i helped.
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depends- if they mean immature like..u kno body..i would say ignore it if you still like him. if they mean like annoying immature then u should consider some stuff. does it annoy you? if it doesnt stay with him.
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If you like the way he acts, stay with him. It doesn't matter what your friends think about him if you really like him. It's sometimes good to have an immature boyfriend at times so you can have fun together. Just now you realized he's immature because your friends told you and you're probably embaressed by it, so talk to him about it. If he'll change, then that's good. If he won't change, then you need to make a descicion about if you want to stay with him or not.
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