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im 13/f .. my friend whos 16 has a girlfriend that is 18.. she is cool... i want to go out sometime like to eat or whatever wit her cuz we are friends... but i feel odd callin her.. i sent her 2 txt messages and now i feel like im bein a bother... she told his mom juss to tell me to stop sendnin a lot of messga. to her.... wut should i do?
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Well I agree with Ariel to a certain extent. There ARE many people who wouldn't voluntarily hang out with someone of such a dramatic age gap. HOWEVER, NOT everyone feels that way! Like myself, for example.. I would have nooo problem going out to friendly dinner with someone 12-13. I really don't see it as a big deal. After all, you can NEVER have TOO MANY friends, ya know??? And I guess if she doesn't want to be around you then she DOESN'T WANT TO BE AROUND YOU. It's sad, but it might just be THAT plain and simple, ya know?? Unfortunately, you CAN NOT *MAKE* someone like you, and often times it's very difficult to CHANGE someone's opinion of you. I guess for now I would suggest laying low a bit. I mean you've TRIED being friendly, but she has shown that she simply wants none of it. Perhaps if you leave it be for a bit she will come around. And if not.. HER LOSS. :D
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i cant say that i understand why you sent them to her in the first place- but you cant do anything really. just, next time you see her- let her know what your intentions were:that you just wanted to meet with her.no biggie.
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Ah, leave her alone maybe.
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Well heyyy, maybe it's because you're younger. Lots of older kids don't really wanna hang out with younger ones, no offense. Maybe she has to get to know you better or something, try to go out with your friend and her somewhere. You'll probably become friends, she just might not know you well enough to wanna hang outt.
♥ ariel
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