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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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what does "playing tonsil hockey" mean? how do you play??

im guessing it means making out with somebody.


jess

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The other day I was thinking, and if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you kiss a friend. Like the person is totally just your friend and nothing more.. is it still cheating ?

Well it kinda depends, if you going out with someone you shouldnt go around kissing your friends. Even if they are just friends its not right. But i mean i guess if it was just a little peck on the cheek becasue of maybe something they did for you to help you it would be okay but your boyfriend would still probabaly get mad becuase its not right and he might assume somthing is happeneing between you and your friend.

Jess

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i have about $50 and 6 people in my family to buy gifts for. what s something i can buy for each of them that isnt food/candy. and please dont suggest for me to make homemade gifts, please. thanks!

hmm? wellyou didnt really say who you were buying for or what they like so im gonna throw out some suggestions.
You could get then movies, jelwelry, clothes if you know thier size, gloves/hats and other stuff for winter, posters for their rooms, picture frames with picture of you and whoever your giving too. anything like that.

Jess

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by friend is mad because i like a boy she doesnt know... she like tells me who i can and cant be friends with... she also buts in with my relationship....she has major jealousy issues. what should i do...help please

confused person

SHes not a very good friend, she shouldnt boss you around and you shouldnt let her. You might wanna think about talking to her or stop talking to her if shes not willing to change.

Jess

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i decided i want to makeout with someone before 8th grade. but i need some pointer on how to. like do you open and close you mouth? and do you put your hands? i am so confusedd. thanks in advance!

First off dont rush into it just because you want to makeout with someone, it should just jappen. Really there is no advice for it though, when it happenens you jut know what to do it will come natural dont worry about it.

Jess

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whats the deal with 11:11?
I dont get it?
Someone please inform me?

11:11 =]
Its just the only time in the day that all of the numbers are the same. Lots of poeple (like myself) make a wish on that time just becasue basically. it just a fun thing to do and you never know it could come true =)

Jess

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"you can be my humming bird and I'll be your polar bear and we'll love each other dearly and live with out a care."


does anybody know what that is?
i think it's a song, I'm not sure though.
I've tried Googling, but nothing really came up.

I think its just a quote. I googling it many times also and got nothing i dont think its a song.

Jess

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how much money do you give for a sweet 16 ?

Well depending on how good you know them i would say 30-50$ i normally give 30ish.

Jess

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I just got an ipod nano about a week ago and it seems like when the volume is all the way up..its not very high. Does anyone know how to make the sound louder? thanks :]

It might be 1 or 2 things.
Either the song, it could be a quite song, i know some of the songs on my iPod are much quieter then others.
or
It could be the head fones. If you usethe iPod head fones they go up wayyy loud if you use other kinds it wont be as much.

Jess

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For Christmas I want an Ipod or mp3 player. But Im not sure which one to get. I understand that an Ipod is the name brand of the mp3 player. I just want a small that could hold about 200 songs. So could someone please let me know what i should get.

Ipod hold muchh more then 200 songs, mine holds 7,500. I would suggest just an mp3 player. They work just as good and cost less. There are also lots of new ones that are really cute!

Jess

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i have to plan two surprise parties in december/january. i don't know if i can have them in my house, because i don't like having guys in my house (they would be guy/girl) with my parents and stuff, i dont know its just annoying. for one, my friend offered to have it at her house (maybe). but is there somewhere we could like go that i could have it? besides a resturant, somewhere where we could like hang out and have music maybe...that wouldn't cost too much money?

you can rent a place, depending on how nice you get itit will cost more but cause its not a real fancy party you chould just get a cheap one. Maybe have all of the people pitch in for some of the money for it.

Jess

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My ipod has been frozen all day now. I've had it since Christmas '04 and this has never happened to it before. It's stuck on a song, and I've tried EVERYTHING. I've tried resetting it, tried all thr buttons, tried plugging it in to my computer, tried charging. Yet its still stuck. Has this ever happened to anyone else before? What can I do?
BTW, it's an iPod mini if that helps. And I've never had problems with it prior to this.

Thanks for your help.

mine use to do that all the time you just have to lt it die and then charge it again. But it might be a bad sig, once mine did it once it kept doig it and then a month later it broke =( and i still have no way of fixing it.

Jess

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ok. can anyone come up with a convincing way to get my mom to let me have a myspace?

ahh myspace. Its really not as bad as people make it seem. If you use it right then you will be fine. You can make your profile private so only your friends can use it, if you dont accept people you dont know, and you dont give out your infromation your fine. Just tell her all that. i hope it helps

Jess

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HEy i have Itunes now and my parents are saying its getting to expensive caus ei download like 10 songs a week....so i was thinking of dowloading Bearshare.. can any1 give me like a reviw of it and tell me if its good or not... does it give me viruses??Does it slow your computer down? Just like any information on it and is it like worth even dowloading it?

Well now bearshare is weird, and most of the songs you download cant be transferred to iTunes pluse it gives tonsss of viruses dso i dont reccomemd it. I have something called morpheus. Its really easy and it hasnt given me any viruses so i like it. you can download it at downloads.com

Jess

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I like painting my nails black or white, but I was thinking of doing black AND white, so I need a list of things that are black and white that would be nice on nails (dominoes, ying yangs, etc)

Stripes or checkerd =]

Jess

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Well, my best friend's mom just died today.
I don't know what to say or do?
I was going to make her a large card [although it might not help] to let her know I'm here.
Is there anything else I can do for her to keep her from falling apart?

Just be there, if she needs to talk then listen, you dont need to give her much advice tward it, just having a friend to be there and listen to her and understand is what se needs.

Jess

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there is a song on the shows: the hills and laguna beach
and it's a woman singing, and the lyrics i know are:

"pray for a rainy day and stay..."

that's all i know, it's kinda a slow song.
does anyone know the name of this song and the artist??

thanks so much

Come Clean by Hilary Duff.

Jess

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Hey!I am from Puerto Rico (talk spanish and English could reply in any both languages) Im Jay and I need some help in memorizing my monologue today is Tuesday and its for Saturday and i Dont know eally well on how to memorize all that stuff its like a page and a half I think its too long for the time they gave us , bubt if you have anby technique for me please help ME@!


Waiting for your advise!

Write it over and over. it may be long and take a while but it really helps. If you dont wanan do that then you can record it and listen to it over and over. Its like a movie, after you have seen a movie so many times you remember the lines, do that for this. Just keep listening to it and repeating it. Hope it helps

Jess

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Well idk why but it seems like I have no guy friends at all. I have a ton of friends who are girls, though. I mean, I have friends that are guys but we never do anything outside of school. Ever. I'm too shy to ask them and they never ask me, either. When I do hang out with a guy it's only because one of my friends invites him. I'm thinking that's probably why I don't have a boyfriend, either and why I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years. Sad, right? And I know I'm worrying way too much but now I'm starting to wonder what would happen next year when I go to prom. I mean, who would I ask? I don't think anyone would ask me, since I have no GUY FRIENDS. If I don't have a boyfriend by then I'll probably just end up going alone or not going at all and that'd be terrible because all of my friends have boyfriends and they all have guy friends and they'd probably have a prom date haha. Okay so my question is, how can I get more guy friends to actually be friends with and hang out with, and therefore, possibly get a boyfriend? Thanks.

Honestly its all up to you, you just need to gain up courage to ask them to hang out. IF you dont wanna do that Then maybe start with a group of people (guys and girls) to all hang out together. then get to know them more so you are comfortable around then and can hang out alone. As for prom next year, i wouldnt worry about that now. you have a whole year to meet new people things could change in one day.


Jess

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i was wondering if anyone had any good song suggestions for me. i want songs that are kind of gangster and punk and slow, so basically a variety. please list the title and artish
thanks

Lips of an angel-hinder
chasing cars-snow patrol
It ends tonight-All-american rejects
Swing life away- rise against
vunerable-secondhand serenade
Hear you me- jimmy eat world
Runaway-cartel
Boston-augustina
theres a few. =]

Jess

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