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No guy friends, therefore no boyfriend.
Well idk why but it seems like I have no guy friends at all. I have a ton of friends who are girls, though. I mean, I have friends that are guys but we never do anything outside of school. Ever. I'm too shy to ask them and they never ask me, either. When I do hang out with a guy it's only because one of my friends invites him. I'm thinking that's probably why I don't have a boyfriend, either and why I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years. Sad, right? And I know I'm worrying way too much but now I'm starting to wonder what would happen next year when I go to prom. I mean, who would I ask? I don't think anyone would ask me, since I have no GUY FRIENDS. If I don't have a boyfriend by then I'll probably just end up going alone or not going at all and that'd be terrible because all of my friends have boyfriends and they all have guy friends and they'd probably have a prom date haha. Okay so my question is, how can I get more guy friends to actually be friends with and hang out with, and therefore, possibly get a boyfriend? Thanks.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If the only reason you want a guy friend is so he can become your boyfriend, you don't deserve one.
Guy friends are a special breed. They're friggin' hilarious. They aren't catty bitches. They won't steal your crush, and if you get the right kind, you can talk to them about anything. But you have to deal with some frustrating stuff. They check out other girls, they like boobs, they'll probably try to "get some" from you at one point or another, and some won't stop playing video games. Among other stuff. They're so worth it though. You CAN take guy friends to prom, and it's way better and so much less awkward. You won't be like "OMG i wonder if hes going to kiss me!" (unless you're dumb)
Anyway, just ask the guys that are friends from school if they want to hang out after school. Entice them with something fun, like bowling or touch football or a bike race across town or capture the flag or if you're old enough, a strip club. Or video games. Boys love video games. Just hang out and be one of the guys and laugh and fart and do guy stuff.
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Honestly its all up to you, you just need to gain up courage to ask them to hang out. IF you dont wanna do that Then maybe start with a group of people (guys and girls) to all hang out together. then get to know them more so you are comfortable around then and can hang out alone. As for prom next year, i wouldnt worry about that now. you have a whole year to meet new people things could change in one day.
Jess<3
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