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Are you sure that chicken doesn't make your boobs grow bc mine are like DD and i eat chicken all the time.I love you! I will see you tomorrow at school!
~KeLlY~ (link)
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HAHA!!! Well, I guess for you they do work that way--and Clare too, I bet that's why she's really on that diet so she can get boobs as big as yours. I wish they did that for me but I'm stuck with my baby B's. Oh well. I'm so jealous of you and your hot DD's. Gosh and I wish I had hips like yours..I heard those black boys love it. I love you Kelly!!! Have fun at work! :)
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hey i am the one who asked about panty liners because i have alot of discharge.. but i have had discharge for over a year ithink is that asign my period should come soon ? also i want to start wearing panty liners because lately i have so much discharde and it is ruining my undies.. well not ruining but kind of staining you could say.. i dont think im ready to talk to my mom its embarresing for me.. but i dont want to wait much longer to start using them if i should start. i dont know what too do just not use them or wait out for my period.. if its coming soon. if it isnt i dont know what too do.. by the way i rated u a 5 on your advice before.. and i bet i will this time to you give amazing advice! (link)
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Hey there. Often times girls start getting discharge (yes sometimes a lot) rigth before their period. I had discharge for about a year before my period as well. So, don't worry about the amount you are having. It vasries from girl to girl, but it's still completely normal to have. If I were in your postion I would go ahead and start wearing the panty liners now. That way, your panties will stay dry, and stain free. Plus, it will be like practice for when you start to have your period. I guess it's okay for you not to tell your mom. It's really your choice. I am super close to my mom, so I told her. But I have a few friends that have been on their period for a few years and have never told their mom anything about it. It's really what you are comforable with. Once you start reguary having your period you can then use tampons,pads, and/or pantyliners. Whatever suits you best. You may end up needing to tell your mom in case she needs to go buy that stuff for you. In the mean time, get you some pantyliners and/or thong liners and every thing will be just fine. But again, there really is nothing at all to be embarassed about, but at the same time I totally see where you are coming from. It may help for you to first talk to your friends or something. Just remember, we are all girls! Good luck! :)
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I have this odor to my vigina and it's not a smelly smelly odor, but if it ever came to me having sex I wouldn't want to be smelling like raw fish what could I do, any home remdies?
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Well, for starters, it is completely natural for there to be a distinct odor down there. It's not bad at all. Now, if the odor was very smelly or strong, then you could possibly have some kind of infection. But, you said that it wasn't so it sounds like you are okay in that department. Here are osme key things to remember for hygene: Make sure when you use the restroom you are wiping completely. When in the bath or shower make sure to clean down there. And, if you really are that consious about it, you may want to try Douching a few times. It's basically this stuff in a bottle that you squirt up there to cleanse. A good brand to use is Summer's Eve. You can get it at your local drugstore. Just make sure not to do this too often. You're gunna be just fine. :)
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I have alot of dicharge but I dont have my period yet, and i think I want to wear panty liners but im embarressed to talk to my mom abuot it please help! would panty liners be the right way too go ? how could i talk to my mom.. or do i have to talk to my mom about it ? (link)
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Hey there. Well, don't worry! What's happening to you happens to all girls. It's not abig deal at all. There is really nothing to be embarassed about either. Discharge just simply means you are a healthy, young, and maturing young lady. Sometimes it is also an indication that your period it about to come. But also, once you start havign your period regulary you may have discharge everyday. Wearing a panty line would be a very good idea. It will kepp ya dry. There are panty liners for both regular underwear and thongs. The thong ones are called thong liners. I think you talk to your mom about this. I mean, she's a girl-she goes through the same thing. But if you don't think you are quite ready you could wait until you actually start having your period. Your growing up though, and that's an awesome thing that I am sure your mom wants to be a part of. :)
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ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what
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Hey there, well don't totatlly freak out. That happens to a lot of girls. Even though a tampon may not be full it can still leak for a couple of reasons: you may not have pushed it up far enough, or you may need a bigger size. Or sometimes you can just leak because of the shape. I think you should stick to the same size tampon you are using right now but maybe wear panty liner or thin maxi pad along with the tampon to keep yourself protected. If you still leak, but don't mind, stick with that. If you think you need to go up a size, go ahead. Just play around with it. It's not a big deal. :)
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heyy .. well i need help * this kid says he likes me alot but i dont believe him nd like on the phone wen he had to go he said i love you ...
nd i said i love you to ..... but it seems like he really dont like me (link)
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Well, love is a really really strong word. Saying "I love you" to someone is not something that is meant to be thrown around lightly. It may very well be that this guy does like you a lot and is interested in you. But, I don't think he LOVES you. He may think he does..but I doubt it. Also, another thing to keep in mind is the fact that he may be just telling you he loves you to get something out of you. So, please be careful. Don't get yourself hurt. Someone should only say i love you to you and you back to them when you are 100% sure of it. It's suppose to be something special. Try having a talk with this guy-maybe ask him why he thinks he loves you? That will provide better insight on his true feelings. If you feel like he's not sincere, stop saying it to him, and move on. If you think he is just confuised and just likes you, work from there. Good luck! :)
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My parents keep fighting all the time... i cried my eyes out ..my stepdad actualyl hit ma mom and brused her... i dont want to move to another house and leave ma skool but i dont wanna see him anymore wut should we DO!!! HELP ASAP thx by (link)
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Well, this is a huge huge deal. First off, don't feel alone. There are tons of people out there that have to go through this very same thing. It's okay to cry too; it's a very upsetting matter. I think you should try talking to your mom and see what she says about all of this. Abuse is never okay. Noone should ever have to endure that. Safety comes first. There is a hotline you can call and just talk to people about what you are going through right now. 1800-799-SAFE. Maybe you could go through family counseling. MAKE A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. I know you don't want to have to move or change schools or anything, but what matters before any of that is your safety and your and your mom's happiness. Best of luck, if you need anything else, don't hesistate to ask. :)
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I am pretty sure I am the first guy to e evr poston this site, but... Whatever. Anyways. Let's go ahead and get on with it... I'm 15 and I like this girl. And I don't know if she likes me or not. But you know, I'm hoping she does... We don't hang out all that much, and I really don't know her all that well... But, I'm wiling to chance it... And seeing how you are apparently a girl, I thought I might ask what is like the best way I should tell her.. (link)
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Okay, well first I want to thank you for writing me! Okay so now on to the adivce giving: I think you pretty much already have the right mind set. Life is about living and taking chances. Sometimes it's hard to tell when a girl likes you back for a few reasons. They could be shy, or maybe they don't think you like them in return, or they just don't know the right way to show it. I think the best thing to do in your case would be to talk to the girl more. Takethe time to get to know her. This will show her that you are interested. Ask her to hang out sometime. It wouldb e something simple, like getting something to eat at Taco Bell, or studying together. The more attempts you make the more she'll realize you are trying to get to know her. She'll like that. If you don't quite feel good about being alone with her just yet you could invite her out to the movies with a group of people of something, but then talk to her a lot. Some other good things to show her you notice her: compliment her, tease her (but in a flirty way), ask her questions. You could also ask her for her screen name so y'all can chat. Sometimes it's easier to talk to people over the internet. Anyway you go thing will work out for the best. Just remember to be sincere and to be yourself. And if in the end it turns out you two don't end up together, remember, you are still young and there are lots and lots of girls out there. Good luck! :)
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for your own page for advice how do u decorate it? like how do other people have theirs decorated and stuff? (link)
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You can decorate YOUR page any way you desire. That's why it's YOURS. Although, you can only choose the formats given by the site unless you have a paid account (which you could purchase for 10 dollars) Otherwise, just look through the color schemes (Found Under the "Column Settings") and play around and see hat you like. You can upload a picture of you or something you like. You can also upsload a picture as your page background. Just be creative. Possibilities are endless. Under "Profile Settings", you can add info about yourself as well. Have fun. :)
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i had surgery the date waz 01-28-05 and my leg is in a brace. i can walk on it with no problem or pain. but my doctor says i have to use crutches. my valentines day dance is coming up and i dont know how im gunna dance with my b/f at the dance.? what should i do should i tell him. or should i stay on that crutches until that day and not use them that day? help me! soon! (link)
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Okay well I think you should for sure listen to what your doctor tells you. He/She knows best. You don't wnat to stray from orders when dealing with injuries and you don't want to force the healing process cause that can just mess things up for the future. I think you should use your crutches, but go seeyour doctor and ask if it would be okay with them if you just didn't use it for tha dance, but at all other times. If your doctor is okay with that, then YAY! If not, just tell your boyfriend. Y'all could like go out to eat and take pictures and see a movie or just have a nice night. Or, you could try dancing with the crutches. Either way, I am sure you will have fun! :)
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i wAaz wondering on this whole advice thing on your own page.when it it says visitors..is that on your actual page or the website? (link)
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Okay, on each individual users column where it says "Vistors" the number that is poster is JUST for your personal page, not for the whole site. The whole site number would be A LOT more than an individuals. :)
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my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.
P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol. (link)
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I so know how you feel. Don't feel alone. There are people that suffer from acne all over. Here are some medications for you to suggest to yor dermatoligist if you haven't already tried them:
-Differin (cream or pill)
-Aveeta
-Phinacea
-An Amoxcycillin pill
-Sulfer pills
You may want to use a combination of them like cream and pills. These things take time. I know it sucks, but it will phase out eventually.
If none of hat works, Proactive may work for you. You have probably seen it on the infomercials. See proactive.com for more info.
Make sure you always wash your face after your day is doneto get all make up off. Try using a cleanser like SeaBreeze too.
If none of those work, let me know, I know some other medications too.
Stay hopeful! :)
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hey theres this guy @ my school who i like. i don't know if he likes me. sometimes i get signs that he does and others that he doesn't. so today he came over and we hung out. and he tried to give him a h@nd job but i didn't because ive never done that befor and we was also trying to f!nger me but i wouldnt let he do that either. even though u would say ya he likes you im not sure. he has never kissed me or hugged me or anything like that. so i don't know if he just wants to get some or if he really does like me?
thanks~
Jessica (link)
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Well, you may not like what I have to say-but it's the truth. I think that he could have some kind of feelings and interest for you but it really really sounds like he is trying to get some from you. If he jumps right to hand jobs and fingering before any kisses or hugs, his intentions are not just. You need to be really careful. You don't want to get hurt or ruin your reputation. You need to find a guy that is going to respect you. Now, if when you didn't do any stuff with him today he acted totally fine and backed off, then I would POSSIBLY givehim a chance if you think he is worth it. If he acted rudely or bad, then you know he's totally not worth it. Try talking to him and saying something alone the lines of : I like you, but I am not ready to do stuff with you, I need you to respect that and me: If he can do that, then YAY. If he can't, move on. It may be tough, but that's what you deserve! :)
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hey..ok, this is akward but i need sum adivice lol. lets just say im not that big in the boob department. im 13 and most of my friends are like really big, i used 2 be bigger and now i have like shrunk or something! i got a paded bra, but now in the summer guys will see that im way way smaller in my bathing suit!! i heard chicken makes them grow...? :S
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Well, the best advice I can give you is to really not worry about it. Everyone is made different. And besides, you so so have no stopped developing. Sometimes for some girls, your breasts don't fully mature until you are like 20! So you have plenty of time. It's okay if you want to wear a padded bra; I know some girls do so it won't show in case of some nippage, but it really isn't necesary. That's like false advertising. Besudes, if a guy is going to decide whether or not he wants to be with you based on the size of your chest, he's so not the guy for you. And I'm pretty much 100% sure chicken doesn't make your boobs grow. Just be happy with what you have for now. And also, you might have a small body type and huge boobs would look awful! And another thing, some guys like small breasts and even more guys don't like paddedness. Wait a while, you'll get there eventually. :)
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i need an answer with in 25-30 mintues
alright so theres a guy basketball game at 6..my best friend wants me to go and she just called the thing is my boyfriend is over protective like that so he mite care if i went to a guys basketball game but..hes playing football sot heres no way i can call him and ask him or w.e for a while..should i just go and tel him and tkae the chance or should i go and say i went shopping with ym mom or should i just stay home? (link)
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Hmm ,well I can definetely relate to that. I would say you should do whatever makes you happiest. If you are in the mood to shop, do that. If you want to hang out with your best friend, support your school, and watch some basketball, then go to the game. The choice is ultimately yours and noone elses. Personally, I'd go shopping, but not because I wouldn't want to upset my boyfriend; I just like to shop. If you decide to go to the game, drop your boyfriend an email or leave am essage on your phone. If you go and when you get back he's all mad y'all should talk about his over protectiveness. A relationship must have trust from both parties in order to work. Best of luck!! :)
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whats ISS?? (link)
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Hmm, well I know the acronym ISS to stand for In School Suspension. Like as in when you do something bad in school you are put in ISS which is bacially a room that you sit there without talking and do school work. I am sure there are other ISS's that relate to something different. If that wasn't what you were talking about, search google for more info. :)
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i know i'd be perfect for/with her...but how do i get to meet her...how do i email her...i've been doing searches for days and can't get any closer then the tv...please help (link)
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Hmm, well it cool that you like her. It is often that we get crushes on celeberties or people we see in the media. With the said, you may not like what I am about to say but I really think you should take this into consideration: while it's okay and often natural to have crushes or infatuations such as these, it it not healthy to desire it to an extent of obsessiveness. Don't get me wrong, I mean I love Tim McGraw-I have all his cd's,co to all his concerts, go to his websites, etc..but it kind of stops there. I mena sure we all wish we could get with our crushes, but sometimes that's just not possible. Now, it's okay if you are a huge fan of hers. I think she'd like that. You could maybe write her a fan email or make a fan website. I'm sure she's appreciate that. Basically though, please try notto get your hopes up too high about being with her because it's not a sure thing. But keep somme hope alive. Good luck! :)
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I want to throw my friend a 16th birthday party surprise or not who knows yet. but my question is what are some things we could do at the party to make it fun and where are some ideas of places we could have it thanks i rate (link)
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Hey, well first of all I just want to say that it's a really nice thing that you want to throw her a party! Here are a few suggestions for you:
-Have it at someone's house (or even the birthday person, but be sure to talk to their parents)
-Have it at a fun resturant like Joe's Crab Shack or Hooters. Pick the place that will make you friend do the most embarassing thing for their birthday
-Have it at a fancy resturant
-Havei t at a dorky place like Chuckee Cheese or Celebration Station
Make sure to remember these things: plan ahead, ask everyone to chip in, get decorations, take lots of pictures, play dorky games like twister and hide and go seek, make invitations, and have fun!
For my friend's surprise birthday everyone dressed up and we went to Joe's then we went to her house and then we went to the playground!!
Just have fun. I think the dorkier, the more fun! :)
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I am really depressed. I just feel like every one thing that is good in my life, there are three bad things. In other words, the pros outweigh the cons. I really need help, but don't want to ask my mom to go to a shrink. So, I'm waiting for someone to notice. I don't want to cut myself, but it's the only way for people to notice. So, I just take a pin and scratch myself so that it will make slight cut marks on my wrists. I know it's stupid, but I just need help beyond my stupid friends' advice.
I hate these bribe things, but I do rate high, if that will help you to answer me. (link)
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Well, I just would like to start off by saying, don't feel alone. We all have been there at some point or another. Or at least, I know that I have. The tough stuff in life can be a really hard thign to deal with. But whether we like it or not, you have to deal with it. Cutting yourself isn't the healthiest way of going about it though. I think you already know that though. Think back to when you were really happy..what was going on in your life then? Can you get back to the way things were? I think if you try hard enough you cna pull yourslef through this. I know cutting makes you feel like you can have some control in a society that often makes us feel like we have none at all. You need to get your mind off being upset and start living your life. You only get one. Don't take that for granted. Get some faith, pick up a new hobby, do a good deed, write, express yourself in other forms other than hurting yourself. You have to take one day at a time, and love yoursef. Don't be depressed about having to face tomorrow; be eager to conquer it. You need to talk about your problems or write about them in a journal or something. I know it may be hard, but really try going to your mom about this or another adult you can trust. Find support. I'd be more than happy to help you whenever you need someone to talk to of listen. Pull yourself out of this, you have so much to look forward to. Discover yourself. Best of luck. God bless. :)
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My name is Kayla and I'm 13 years old. I started my period not too long ago. But I have skipped about 3. Is this normal for me? I don't want to be able to not have children or anything? Is it serious? Please help. (link)
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Hey there. I wouldn't worry about this at all. What is happening is absolutely completely natural. Your period can often skips a couple months and be really irregular for the first 3 years or so of having a period. Another thing is, if you are really athletic, sometimes that can cause you to skip. I wouldn't worry about not being able to have kids. You are gunna be just fine! :)
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