Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
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ok i have seen the cursor where its the hand and the pointer is the middle finger on someones sight and i want to put it on my site but i cant remember where i saw it to ask them where they got it...does anyone know a site that may have it i already tried that one starlight site if anyones know where it is please tell me if u help me find it ill rate high!
Signed:Ithought it was a cool cursor. (link)
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maybe www.soupfarie.com may help
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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Tell her, but if she doesn't let you out of the house, I would totally confront her. She has no rights to tell you who you should date. If she is so protective not to let you out of the house, stay after school, or plan to go to a place where your family already goes, like if your parents are going to the mall, tell him to meet you at the mall. Find some way to see him, even if it means disobeying your parents.
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ok last night me and my friend was up stairs in my room wachin a movie and then we start to make out and i want us to do more than make out but he is too shy how can i make him make me happy (link)
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Wait. It is so much easier when you wait for when you're both happy, because he may be feeling rushed. So I would suggest you wait, even if it means untill marrige.
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ok my boobs arent likke porn star boobs and i get kind of weird about it if a guy wants to touch them or suck them..do guys care? also when they go to finger a girl do they care if there is hair there? (link)
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Usually they like down there shaved brazzilian style, all hair is gone exsept with a fine strip of hair where your lips first open, and no. guys don't care that you may not want your boobs touched. Im only 5'3 and 130 lbs and i've had a c cup even before I started my period. Guys just like boobs.
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Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.
He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.
ill rate ya if the advice is good. (link)
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You can ask his friends what his email or IM is, so you don't have to have them ask him, or if you bump into him you can ask him. But if you DO decide to call him, you can just ask casually, "do you have im?" or "do you have an email address?" and then say, "can i have it? I'm asking a lot of ppl for theirs so we can all keep in touch." He won't think think your an idiot because guys aren't insensitive jerks. It's alot easier to ask if you know him previously, or if he has other connections that you could find out easily, like xanga and myspace.
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ok well i posted this yesterday and i got 15 answers ..but my stupid computer wouldnt let me see them so im gonna post it again and see if it will let me read them this time. everyone please answer exatly what you did before! here it is:
ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?
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As I said yesterday, guys arent incensitive jerks, so they wouldn't respond badly if you try to start conversation. Just go for it! Flirting will also help him fall in love with you. Ignoring him THEN flirting will get him hooked on you because guys love what they can't have.
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So,my dad going to give me 600 for shopping this,NEVER happens anyways.I wear more of the punk/gothic syle.I need some stores to go shopping at!Could you help me with that?And i wanted to change my hair like something different.Any one know some cool hair cuts.And i have medium hair it goes past my shoulders alittle.Its a dark brown i was thinking about puting red streaks that blend good.
If you would like to see what my hair kinda looks like send me a message. Becasue i need help!
please i could use all the help and please do not delete (link)
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Ok, hot topic is always good, and thrift stores work. For your hair, I would dye it black THEN add the read straks, trust me. My cousin has super dark brown hair, and it still wasn't dark enough for the red to show up well, and it looked really bad. In the front you could put a blonde streak, and it looks really cool. Low side ponytails look really good when you have dark hair, and you wear black, like a dominatrix, with the boots and fishnets, etc.
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my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat. (link)
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Send him to the vet. If they have no solutions besides putting him to sleep, you may want to keep him in a cool area, play with him often, and feed it healthy food.
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ok, every time i sit in front of the AC, im cold. but i step 2 steps away from it, im automatically hot. can i make it so im just fine? its 114 degrees in here. what do i do? (link)
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The ac upstairs in mi house is bad too. Walking upstars for 2 seconds makes me sweat like crazy. Call someone to fix it. Don't call BGE though, because they fix it temporarily. Get a Profesional.
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i kno my cat is really hot beause its 114 degrees in here and hes kinda panting..so what could i do to cool him down? do i fill up the bathtub with some cool water and put him in it or something? he's really hot (link)
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Send him to the vet. He may have a fever. If not, then get sack of ice and dump it in freezing water from the bathtub, (if your cat likes water.)
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I have an interview tomorrow afternoon at United Colors of Benneton. I was wondering if anyone could provide some quick guidelines for what to wear. I do not own a suit. Tips regarding hair and makeup would also be appreciated. (I am female, by the way.) (link)
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White button up blouse with a coller,
Black pants or skirt (no pinstripes)
Hair in a bun, if it's long enough, or if its short pull it back with a barrete to the side,
black hosery,black socks, or black knee highs (no fishnets)
black shoes like heels. 1 1/2 in. or 2 1/2 in.(no stelletoes or loafers)
pressed powder, concealer, lipstic (in a non-dramatic color like purple, crimson, brown and so on) mascara matching your hair color, glasses over contacts if you have them, and a french manicure may be best for nails, and if you have open toed heels, get a pedicure. Rings are ok, NO TOERINGS, a simple neclace if you want one, and bracelets are ok if you don't wear too many, and NO RUBBER BRACELETS.
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Hi, I was wondering if it was safe to blow-dry your hair during a storm. My hair gets really frizzy if I don't blow-dry it as soon as possible, but I don't want to get electricuted! It's not exactly here, but to the east of me, but there's still lightning and everything. Please help, I want to make sure if it's ok or not. Thank you!!! (link)
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I would stay away from electronics, metal, and water during a storm, so I would say no.
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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You may not like this but I really think your boyfriend is right. I wouldn't waste my virginity to someone I'm not completely sure I'll be spending my life with. You will never regret waiting untill you're married, because you know you will be spending your life with the person you lost your virginity to.
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ok.......... i finger myself all the time.. and i h8 it.... it like bcame a habit.. i dun no ho to stop... also.. i really like this guy.. alot.. ut i dun no if he likes me... well anywayz...im 13.. is this normal to be fingerin??? also... alot of times.. i pik myself down there and discharge comes out but so much that like its just alot... and i feel it coming out.. is that normal?? sorry im asking such strange questions.....also.. im just starting to get boobs... they look pointy wen i wear tite clothes.. and those are all th clothes i have.. i h8 it.. how can i deal with it.. and if i don't wear tite clothes i look fat and pointy.. help..
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Don't worry, discarge is normal when your masturbating. Your boobs get pointy as they mature so you're normal. And 93% of all people have masturbated. If you desperatly want to stop, try not to be alone a lot, because you would be more tempted to masturbate that way.
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What do i do when im 14 and already fingering my self, i get soo horny all the time i dont know what to do i cant find any guy whos my age and will have sex wit me, i just wanna know how it feels, i dont care I need a girl or a boy just help! (link)
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Well, you could get a sex toy and masturbate while watching porno. Just don't have sex, because as much as you would like to, later you will regret just having sex because you were horny, and remember, you would never regret waiting.
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okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,
my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??
x0o
brok3n (link)
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Sears has a huge section all about redecorating. You could also go to Bed Bath & Beyond.
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my friend is giving me a really hard time, because i didn't go somewhere with her, she makes fun of me and my myspace http://www.myspace.com/x333333
and she makes fun of me because she really doesn't know me... like she makes fun of that i don't have a bf at the moment, she acts like my time keeper, she schedules things for me, she hurts me, and she gets me in trouble, ALOT.. so how can i make her calm down and stay the way we were or not? help mee!!
o and yeah, she really REALLY needs some help, i didnt go somewhere with her and she is like "you know what? im never talking to you, dont call me, dont im me anymore, and dont even think about me, or visit my myspace, or even look at my things, i sware to god, if you do, you won't be alive by the next day" so she really needs help, badlyy, MENTLE PROBLEMS? maybey?
x0o PLEASE HELP MEEE PLEASE!!!
form - - being bullied (link)
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What kind of friend is this? She isn't your friend. She doesn't know you, she makes fun of you, she gets inraged when you don't go somewere with her, and she threates your life? Get as far away from this girl as possible, then get her some help by telling somone, like and adult or counselor about her.
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ok, i relly like this guy and i'v liked him for a bout a year. we are really good friends adn i have told him i liked him a few times in the past, but he never really liked me (exept he did otehr times, but i didn't really like him) So in other words our relationshipp never really panned out. But recentally we have become really good friends and i get the feeling he kind of likes me.
but there is a really hot guy who wants to get into my pants. He is acctually really sweat and irrisitable. And i really want a first kiss soon and i knid of want to make the guy i have liked for a long time jelouse. plus he is against this guy who wants to ge in my pants.
Should i try to make my crush jelous? and make out w/ another guy? (link)
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If the guy you like finally likes you whats the need to make him jealous??? Seriously you need to think about the past a little bit more. You have liked him on and off and when he likes you you want payback? If you fall for him after you get revenge then never expect him to come back to you. Thats why I wouldn't dop that if I were you.
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this guy i met a while ago who lives like 30mins away from me really liked me. like alot. he told me he loved me and stuff. we were always texting, IMing, talking on the phone 24/7. we live 30mins away and cant drive yet. but we happen to be going camping with are families the same exact days. last time we went we hooked up. and weve been so excited to see eachother again. last nite he tells me he likes someone from his area. and that he didnt wanna hook up with me at camping. and on his myspace he took pix of us down. and changed his blog that used to say he loves me to he loves nichole now. i havent talked to him since =[. im really upset cause he totally lead me on. and now i have to see him monday for a week..help? (link)
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As I said to Confused,(above) there comes a time where people just get bored with each other. That's usually when it's time to break up. The simple way to get over this is to get another man. Somebody in your school, so he won't get interested in someone else without you knowing.The only way to cure a broken heart is to love again.
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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
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Sadly, there comes a time where things just fizzle out. For him it was just a crush, beczuse he wouldn't be over you so fast if he was truly into you. What I suggest is that you find someone else, because the only way to cure a broken heart is to love again! Btw, maybe look for somone in your school, because you would see each other every day, and that would reduce the chances that he would be into someone else without you knowing.
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