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well i moved from georgia to florida about a year ago, and i still have the georgia number. BUT, my cellphone was bought and the service is from florida.
my question is, is it long distance?

If you told your provider or changed them it aint long distance i dont think..but if you didnt do anything about it then im afraid it is long distance!!
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14/f
I have small whiteheads in my cleavage area, that are itchy and unattractive. What causes this and more importantly, how do I get rid of it and keep it away?
(Size B, sweaty person, if that helps)

i say just put some cleanser on it in the morning and before bed,,it might take some time though...and if it itches then put cortosone on it or something like that..
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I've been on Yaz for about 4 months now and yesterday somehow it happened that i took two? i dont know how in the world i did so, but i wasnt obv. paying attention when i thought i didnt take one yet. So today i was missing the one, because i took today ( Sunday ) on saturday along with the one really for saturday. So what i did today was took half of mondays soo my body didnt think i missed one.. was that right to do?

I dont think so.. you probably shouldnt have taken that one that day because If you read the sheet with the information on it you can miss like one day and take two the next, i think if you miss 2 you stop being protected.. you shouldnt have taken that one on sunday...but maybe just take like that half and one more for the next day..
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i met this guy in italy, and i think im falling in love with him. im 13 now, and hes 17, and he said that he likes me and that he wants to have kids with me and wants to marry me and stay with me....but today, i got on the subject of us meeting...and he said that it was almost impossible....so....he loves me, but its " impossible for us to meet"???? i mean, what the hell?! is this just some kind of guy thing that i dont understand or what? because he says that it is impossible, and that it wouldnt be easy. i mean....how hard can it be? all one of us has to do is just buy a plane ticket, and fly over....i dont understand. i really love him alot. and he says he does with me too. but...maybe he dosent...because hes always talking about his ex girlfriend, but he says hes not in love with her...i mean, hes not constantly talking about her, but its like, ill send him a message, and it will sometimes take him a while to reply and then he will say " sorry, i was talking on the phone with my ex "....but now, im starting to think that its her problem that hes always talking to her cause shes still in love with him...but really....i dont even know what the hell im asking....i just need someone to help me. sorry this is long.

-shelby/13/f

okay wait! hold up! did you meet this guy in italy exactly or over the internet..?? if you met him over the internet dont even waste your time...just leave it alone and dont bring it back...but if you met him in italy and you are sure it is completely safe, then maybe go for it..he is probably just saying it could probably never happen because your guys' parents wouldnt let you go and neither of you had the money to buy a ticket...or maybe he is just trying to think of whats in your best intrest?? and tell him how you feel about his ex..just tell him what you told this website...but be calm about it...
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It's the acoustic version on Get Low

Who's it by??

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uv3RoGsPeiE&feature=related

Lil John and the east side boys i think...i know for sure about lil john but the east side boys is a lil foggy...
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im 14 and trying to think of something to get one of my really good friends with only spending 25-30 dollars any ideas? she shops at abercrombie hollister

well you could always go for the giftcards: like maybe put some money on a hollister giftcard or a abercrombie one..one year i got my best friend a necklace that matched one exactly like mine as our best friend symbol, and a singing monkey that sang santa baby....maybe you dont have to spend money on some big clothing store..maybe you could go to walmart or k mart and get her some jewelery...:)
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I've been having this weird problem that I am to embarrassed to discuss with my mom or a doctor. I've been getting so stressed out and crying all the time because I don't know what is wrong with me. How can I get over my fear and talk to a doctor?

if something is seriously wrong then tell your mom, then a doctor..its hard but that is the only way...think of how much better you will feel if you tell your mom...your mom or one of her friends might have been there...maybe even your doctor...they probably understand still however..
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this is probably the weirdest question ever, but i'm hoping maybe ill get an answer. so these past few weeks i really just want to cry, sounds strange but i need to. a lot of things are just going on right now and i really feel that crying would just help me get some of it out. but i can't, no matter how bad i want to or how bad things are going for me, i can't cry. what's wrong with me?

i think its just stress...there are times where you wanna cry and scream and not care, but you cant you wont and do..just try some stress relievers

http://www.wikihow.com/Relieve-Stress

and here are some things about stress you can click on:

http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=relieve+stress

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Ok. I am having a hard time deciding who i should go for.. can you help?

guy 1 - He wants to get back with me we were dating for 1 year we have a lot in common. I broke up with him because he almost cheated on me and i could never get over the trust thing and i met another guy [but that didnt work out]. He really loves me and cares about me but we fight all the time still. I love him but im not sure.

guy 2- He moved to Texas he used to live out here. He is moving back out here he likes me we have a lot in common but he keeps getting arrested for being a dumbass out in texas so the day that he comes back out here keeps getting set back. He talks to a lot of girls though and i kind of have a feeling hes a man hoe but im not sure. he says that if he were out here we would already be dating.

guy 3- He says he likes me and gets pissed when i dont act like i like him back. hes cool and fun to be around but he constantly talks to his ex that he claims he's over. He also has pics of some naked girl on his phone. i dont know if he really likes me or if he just wants to have sex with me because he makes references to it all the time. he says that im hot and that he likes me because we have stuff in common.


who would you choose..or what should i do?

With guy numero uno your gonna have to get over the trust thing...second guy seems like he has lots you need to find out about him and third guy just sounds like a horn dog,,,i say guy number three you just need to get rid of and guy number two you should try and get to know....but i think that you should go for number one...yes he almost cheated, but he didnt..and apparently you like him..but why are you fighting?? is it because of the trust thing?? if it is try to give him some trust, i mean he didnt cheat, yes he almost did but he didnt..
good LUCK!!
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14/f

Okay, I liked this guy, let's call him G, for months and months, I really did love him, but he had a girlfriend. However, I always felt like we had a connection. Then, around three months ago, him and his girlfriend split up. Me and G got together about 2 and a half months ago. I was happy at first but... it just doesn't seem to be working. I can honestly say that I don't love him in that way anymore. I love him as a friend, but not romantically. It's got to the point where I feel as if we hardly speak anymore, but he told one of mine and his friends that he's in love with me.

I don't want to break up with him, because I feel really confused at the moment, and I'm the type of person that always wants what they can't havee. What if I broke up with him and then realised that wasn't what I wanted?

So I've decided to try and make it work, but so far it isn't going very well.

At the same time as this, one of my best friends, let's call her D, was dating a guy named R, who is one of our friends.

I'd always liked R a little bit, but I never thought anything of it because he was my best friend's boyfriend and I'm not single.

D had been unhappy in the relationship for a long time, she wanted to be single and was finding R a little too self-centered. So she started hanging out with him less, and last week R broke up with her. At the time she was happy because she had wanted the relationship to end, but just didn't know how to break up with him.

When D and R were going out, R had told some people he liked someone he shouldn't, and towards the end of their relationship, me and R started talking more.

The day after, I found out, due to a few close friends who speak with R, that R had told them he likes me.

Since they broke up, me and R have been speaking every night, hanging out more and flirting a bit at school. We've got a lot closer.

And I keep having second thoughts about G, because although I wanted it to work, it quite obviously isn't, and now R's in the picture...it's making me realise what I'm missing by staying with G.

However, R is my best friend's ex boyfriend, and recently she's been telling me that she's messed it up with him, she misses him and didn't realise how lucky she was until they broke up. She keeps mentioning certain people that have dated best friends and saying it's stupid, and I can't very well date her ex-boyfriend after she's told me she still has feelings for him and she misses him!

The problem is, every day, things seem to be getting worse between me and G, and better between me and R. I feel like me and R click so well, and I love being with him and talking to him. But at the same time, I'm scared of letting go of G, and I don't want to hurt him.

As far as I know, D doesn't know R likes me, and she doesn't know I like R.

I just don't know what to do.
What do you think I should do about G?
And what about R?
What if R is just a rebound?
And how could be me and R ever be together when him and D used to be an item?

Thanks for any help, I'm so confused at the moment.

xxx

About G...i think that you fall in and out of love easily. And it isnt fair to you or him if both of you are not totally comitted. And if you do break up with him and regret later, it will be okay, you will just learn. You will make mistakes, everyone does. If i was you and i knew for sure that i didnt want to be with G then i would call it off immeadiately.

About R...okay R dated your best friend D. Let me say something real quick ok. I have been on the other side. My best friend likes my all time man. Im not dating him but still with her liking him it hurts-really bad. So if she is like me, with her just liking him it hurts me, so how would she feel if you like dated him?? Just saying if it was me i wouldnt do it. Plus he could just be on the rebound?? like wanting to make her jealous or thinking he likes you but he really dont.

Im not trying to like shoot down everything, im just giving my point of view.
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If I want a new cell phone but my plan isn't up yet, can I buy a phone from the Motorola website & then just go to the verizon store & have them switch it?? The phone I want, it's carrier is already verizon, but I want to buy it off the Motorola website rather than a verizon store. Any ideas?? Thanks!!

sorry but i dont think you can unless you have a SIM card with it...

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An ex friend of mine recently accused my boyfriend of raping her (he wouldnt touch her with a ten foot pole, and she likes him so if he DID try anything it wouldnt be rape.) And she accidentally admitted she lied about it, so I'm wondering if theres any good revenge songs that anyone knows of, because she's still spreading ruomrs about both of us, telling people we broke up and stuff, and I kinda want something that says "haha youre not getting to me" :) lol Thanks in advance.

revenge-plain white t's (my favorite :)
lip gloss-lil mama
Janies Got A Gun - Aerosmith
revenge-papa roach

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I have alot of body odor, I take a shower in the morning, scrub with soap well under my arms, put on gel deadorant or axe, sometimes both before I leave for school, then around the end of first period I can smell my body odor, luckily it's not bad that other people around smell it, just if they hugged me they probably would which is sometimes why I don't hug anyone. And I almost have to reapply every class. Any suggestions?? and I also don't eat that much junk food so any help would be great, thanks.
I'm a guy btw.

well how old are you?? cause like if your in puberity then stinkin is part of it...its your hormones going outta wack...or like if your older you could have an overactive gland..

this could help you
http://www.wikihow.com/Eliminate-Body-Odor

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Okay, so I went out with this guy who my friends all hated. Hate is a strong word, but that's the only way to describe it. At first they stopped talking to me but they were mature about it and decided not to let it get in the way of the friendship.

They warned me he was selfish, and would probably cheat on me because he's selfish and a rumour spread around about it before. But he was into me back then, and yeah rumours aren't real.

Well, turns out he only went out with me because he wanted something from me, and yeah pretty much cheated. My friends don't know yet, and I don't know how to tell them and how to act and react around them when they say the "I told you so's"

Help?

well if they are really your friends then they shouldnt say i told you so,,,,,,but if you are really hurt about it then i would say to cry. cliche line but you just need to let it all out...then maybe they will see how much it hurt you...and when you do tell them just say please dont say i told you so..then like hug them...they are your friends and if you do that they might think it but not say it...they should listen...they should get all protective of you...

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Ok well the boyfriend and i kiss and all but when it comes to pashing french kissing he'll do the whole tounge in and all and so will i but i stop cause i think im gonna do soemthing wrong or im doing something wrong i've never french kised before and people say it comes naturaly but it looks much harder lol

here this could help you!!

http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss

oh and a tip...if he does the whole tounge in then when he does that try puckering your lips,,like think of how you slurp a noodle on a plate of spagetti,,do that with his tounge, but without all of the slurping...

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Okay, on thebus we have assighned seats, and I sit the seat behind Eric and were like bus-buddies. Well he sits next to the kid NO ONE likes what-so-ever. And Eric picks on hm daily.. and I dont like William but I dont pick on him and I don't join in.. well today he wasn't on and Eric was REALLY REALLy happy, so i seriously asked him if He hated William he said Yes. I asked him he had the power of letting him live or die what would he do.. and he said let him die and I almost cried!!!!
i dont know weither to take him seriously.. or not, but. Im going to ask him tomarrow and tell him im not kidding. and see what he says i know im taking this to far but STILL!
Umm anything would be good.
I wanna know what i shold say to Eric, should I tell William.. like errr can u tell me what u would do in this situation.
Anything is helpful =)

I would just wait until he started picking on him then say "hey why are you picking on him? what has he ever done to you? he is just sitting there. and william i apologize for my friends ignorant behavior."...just dont be afraid to speak up...think of something that eric dont like about himself and use it against him...like if he peed his pants in the fourth grade or something like that...just stick up for him...put yourself in williams shoes...all any kid really needs is a friend...
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I like my best friend. i grew up with him and he was my best friend for the last 3 years. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me then everything just stopped for 2 weeks i dono why and we did nothing about it and for a week of that i was in dead hate with him id do anything to piss him off but now were now really close again (cursing him out to telling him I love him(in a friend way). i love him but I treat him like my other best friends. They think that’s wrong. I can say anything to him. Im just very comfortable around him. He knows I cut, rubberband, depressed, and struggling and he is there for me through it. He made it so much better and makes me worry a lot less about it. I love being around him. We used to talk about our crushes of other people and us, but now when it comes to talking about crushing or love we smile and end up flirting like little kids in a way I love it lol. Since everyone stereotypes Im gothic but my clothes and hxc music scares him but he loves it for me somehow. He knows I love him ive told him before and wrote I love him in a note today but I doubt he read it. hes also pretty jelous, over nothing, i have just as much guy friends as girls. he tries to stop the play fights between me and guys or me sittin on their laps or carnival rides, i always go to carnivals. I don’t know If Im making a big deal about this or what it’s tearing me up. This is the only thing I can’t talk to him about. what should I do? I am lost. 13 but 14 next month femalee : )

well darling im not stereotyping so dont worry..i think its great that he sees you for you and not your exterior...and maybe you were angry at him when you would "do anything to make him p.o." because you wanted him to make the move..maybe you thought that you had already done your part, and if he wanted you bad enough he would comply?? am i right??

Maybe he is afraid to fall in love with you...it happens...maybe he doesnt want you to know that he might actually love you too...maybe he is running from his feelings..you could scare him..dont nag him about it though...i have an idea as to how you could bring it up again...

take him somewhere where you and your friends normally go!! just only take him...dont let him think of it as a date or anything, just let you to be alone..wait until the silence is reached then look him in the eyes and say "(insert name her) i love you".....maybe not being around the other friends he will give in to your "seduction"...

matter of fact maybe that is why he hasnt done anything about it...maybe its embarrasement or nervousness or pressure from the peers...??

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Ok, im very freaked out here. i'm 15., I furst got my period when I was 13.
6 days ago, I got my period, everything normal but a little lighter than it usually was and no cramps. Then, it stopped for night ,the next morning i didn't have anything and i took a shower. at 4:30 today I got my period again, but this time the color was redish.
Then, yesterday it came again for one day, and today not here anymore.. but im afraid that it might come tomorrow

I don't know why it went off and then came again, is this normal?
Could stress cause this? because i've been stressing a lot lately

thankss
PLEASE HELP- WHy does this happen? IS IT NORMAL?

well if you are really concerned about it ask your mom or aunt...but mine like sometimes it will go for 3 or 4 days then on the 5th day it will stop for a while then come back like late at night or early the next moring, but it will be like super light...it could be normal if it does wat mine sometimes does...but if your really concerned, close older woman, or doctor, or both??
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How do you crochet a striped scarf? I'm struggling with finding online tutorials because the ones I found are for KNITTING. I don't know how to knit. I would really like to make a *striped scarf* for my boyfriend as an xmas present. I can crochet a scarf pretty well, but I don't know how you attach two different colors of yarn. I tried knitting & it didn't go well. So my question is, Is it possible to crochet a striped scarf? And do you know of any online tutorials ?[with pictures]

I can't buy a book about it because I don't understand the abbreviations. Even if I do, I honestly don't know how to do any of it. I'm more of a visual learner. I don't know what any of the stitches I make are called. I just.. do it, you know? Any help please?
thanks!

here try this...it has like oodles and noodles of things about crocheting

http://www.crochetpatterncentral.com/directory/scarves.php

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teardrops7

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home skillet biscuit mean lol
i hear people saying it i just duno what it means.. lol

its just like whats up homie..something like that..
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