Question Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 5:28 pm
Ok. I am having a hard time deciding who i should go for.. can you help?
guy 1 - He wants to get back with me we were dating for 1 year we have a lot in common. I broke up with him because he almost cheated on me and i could never get over the trust thing and i met another guy [but that didnt work out]. He really loves me and cares about me but we fight all the time still. I love him but im not sure.
guy 2- He moved to Texas he used to live out here. He is moving back out here he likes me we have a lot in common but he keeps getting arrested for being a dumbass out in texas so the day that he comes back out here keeps getting set back. He talks to a lot of girls though and i kind of have a feeling hes a man hoe but im not sure. he says that if he were out here we would already be dating.
guy 3- He says he likes me and gets pissed when i dont act like i like him back. hes cool and fun to be around but he constantly talks to his ex that he claims he's over. He also has pics of some naked girl on his phone. i dont know if he really likes me or if he just wants to have sex with me because he makes references to it all the time. he says that im hot and that he likes me because we have stuff in common.
brea answered Sunday November 18 2007, 5:47 pm: okay in my own opinion i would stick with guy 1.
He 'almost' cheated on you sure but he 'could' have cheated on you. But he didnt.guy 2 seems nice but....lets be real your looking for commitment right? you need stableism[not sure if thats a word but you know what i mean] in your life. And you don't wanna be worrying all the time because you think he might get locked up.last but not least guy 3, well he claims he's over her? don't fall for it. I fell for it with my ex and hes with her now. He took my virginity and left me please don't make the same mistake i did. and i can assure you he gets pisssed when you act like you dont like him back cause he wants to be assured that he got you like that and he can have you whenever he want you. But you know these guys better than i do. Maybe theyre not like i think they are. So the best peice of advice i can give you is listen to your heart. Do whatever is best for you. I hope this helped and everything works out for the best.
teardrops7 answered Sunday November 18 2007, 5:18 pm: With guy numero uno your gonna have to get over the trust thing...second guy seems like he has lots you need to find out about him and third guy just sounds like a horn dog,,,i say guy number three you just need to get rid of and guy number two you should try and get to know....but i think that you should go for number one...yes he almost cheated, but he didnt..and apparently you like him..but why are you fighting?? is it because of the trust thing?? if it is try to give him some trust, i mean he didnt cheat, yes he almost did but he didnt..
good LUCK!!
xoxo
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Cricket1613 answered Sunday November 18 2007, 3:37 pm: a relationship is all about trust so i think you would have to get over your trust issues to be with number one.guy 2 you need to get to know him more if you want, and guy 3 should totally be out of the picture.you could try to build your trust more with guy1 and understand the fact that he ALMOST cheated, not he did.guys will cheat even when theyre older, its just the way most of them are although they might be nice. i dont want to sound rude, but you dont need a guy. if it was me in that position i would know i have choices and im better than that and try to find some one whos better than them.but its your choice.good luck.
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