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Q: i have a crush on a mormon guy
i dont know how religious he is and all
but i know that he doesnt do things on sundays
how far would he go in a relationship?
could we even make out?
this is so confusing.
please help ]:

~CoNfUsEd AnD iN lOvE~
It depends, just because he's a Mormon doesn't mean he wouldn't be into kissing and making out. It all depends on where his levels of comfort are, and if you were to be in a relationship with him, you shouldn't stress it. No one can tell you how far he'd be willing to go, it's his personal priorities that are going to affect his decisions.

Q: What kind of genre would something like rock sound with rap rhyming be? Examples: Hot action cop, aqua teen theme song, all in the family by korn.

Any bands like this? By any bands, any good bands
3OH!3 is a pretty damn amazing band.

Q: Alright, so I'm 16, straight male, and my ex-girlfriend is still my normal friend (it lasted a a little more than a week). The reason we broke up was because she could never talk straight around me, and I wasn't into the relationship in the first place. I was hoping that I could learn to be if we went out for a little while. Before we went out, she introduced me to her best friend, and we became friends. So my ex is still into me and its getting annoying, she is always telling me stuff about how she still wishes we were going out and how much she still likes me. I'm not into it. I'm not sure, but subconsciously I think I like her best friend. I'm not the guy that would go after a relationship like that, but what I need help with is getting the point across, without making her cry or hurting her feelings, that we're over and its not gonna happen again so she'll stop annoying me.
Just tell her that you like her friendship and you don't want anything more from it. Tell her it's too valuable to lose due to wanting to be with one another. It ended for a reason, but did she know the reason? If she did then just remind her and let her know, you're not interested and that you're sorry. DON'T tell her that another girl is an option for you, unless she accepts a friendship and nothing more. But even then, give her some time to really take that in and adjust to that idea before letting her know you're interested in someone, especially her friend that SHE had introduced you to. If she can't accept it, leave her alone. Do your own thing until she understands that it's friendship or nothing.

Q: I'm 16, and I've had a couple bfs but haven't had one in awhile. And I really enjoy being in a relationship more than being single, I feel happier and better about myself. I know it's good to learn how to stand on your own before you get involved with other people, but I think I've done that by now. How do I get the guy's attention? :D
A lot of girls have that problem (feeling better about themselves while in relationships) because it makes us feel wanted or important to someone of the opposite sex. But you say you think you're past that now. If you have a guy in mind then just start talking more. It doesn't necessarily have to be about something you know he is interested in. Just talk. Talking to someone is the best way to get noticed, not dressing up all nice and trying to get them to look at you.

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emilyJAMZnukka
The name is Emily
I mess up, make a ton of mistakes some of which I regret. I can never make up my mind and by the time I have, it's usually far too late to fix. It's hard for me to turn away from people, no matter how much they've hurt me. My family and friends are one of the most important things in my life. They're my key to happiness and survival. Without them, life would be meaningless. I'm book smart but I lack common sense. I hate letting people down. I'm not one of those people who learn from their mistakes, I have to repeat it a few times. I don't like being home alone. I'm terrible with words, and even worse with explaining and expressing myself. Hence the reason this sucks.

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