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I told you so's.
Okay, so I went out with this guy who my friends all hated. Hate is a strong word, but that's the only way to describe it. At first they stopped talking to me but they were mature about it and decided not to let it get in the way of the friendship.
They warned me he was selfish, and would probably cheat on me because he's selfish and a rumour spread around about it before. But he was into me back then, and yeah rumours aren't real.
Well, turns out he only went out with me because he wanted something from me, and yeah pretty much cheated. My friends don't know yet, and I don't know how to tell them and how to act and react around them when they say the "I told you so's"
Help?
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I completely agree with the previous columnist, they shouldn't say "I told you so." I've been in your friends situation before, and I've NEVER said, "I told you so." Friends shouldn't do that. If they do, I would just let them know that you're sorry and you had to see for yourself. Suprisingly, I bet some of your friends would have done the same exact thing. I would remind them of that, if they tell you, "I told you so."
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well if they are really your friends then they shouldnt say i told you so,,,,,,but if you are really hurt about it then i would say to cry. cliche line but you just need to let it all out...then maybe they will see how much it hurt you...and when you do tell them just say please dont say i told you so..then like hug them...they are your friends and if you do that they might think it but not say it...they should listen...they should get all protective of you...
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