Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
well it will be hard to get over him and it will take time. you cant really do anything to make yourelf get over him. just move on with your life and go about doing what you need to do. it sounds to me like you really dont need him in your life. you dont deserve someone who will treat you as he did. ppl dnt usually tell their significant other that they are going to break up with them just for the sick joy that they get of hurting you and making you cry. dont worry about him, things will get better and you will find someoneout there who is right for you. your young there will be other. trust me. they come and go.
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I'e been going out with this guy for about 1 month. My best friend and 2 guy friends say i should break up with him because he treats me like crap. He is always on other girls and every now and then he cusses me out for stupid reasons. What should I do??
if you like him and you like how he treats you then stay with him. if you dont think he treats you like shit then stay with him. and dont let other people tell you what to do and how to feel. if YOU agree with your friends, and think he treats you like shit then dump his ass.
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What color eyeshadow would compliment someone with light blue eyes? (I normally wear pink eyeshadow.) Does eyeliner look good? I have light tan skin and light brown hair with highlights if that helps. THANKS!
wear black eyeliner. it will help bring out the color. i think that white, pink, purple or a metallic color like gold or silver will bring the color out. just experiment with different shades and pick th ones that you like most.
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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?
no you shouldnt stay with him if you dont like him. you should break up with him. and when you do you should let him know that you dont have those type of feelings for him and you thought it would be best to break it off before he got really into and had really strong feelings about you. so basically you did it now instead of later because you didnt want to lead him on and hurt him.
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Ok, well, my guy friend's dad just past away a few days ago. My friend is really hurt and it's weird cuz usually he comes to me to comfort him when he needs it, but he doesnt wanna talk about his dad. Doesnt wanna talk period. He wasnt close with his dad, they didnt live together and didnt see eachother for the longest time. I know he's hurt becuz at his grad (a few months ago) he told me how he was jealous that all his friends dads were there except his. I just dont know how to be there for him, what should i do? I wanna be there for him, Ive always have and now something like that happens, I just really dont kno what to do..HELP!
the loss of a parent is a really hard thing for someone to go through. you should understand that he just needs time and space. he may not have been really close to him which is why it prolly hurts him more. but he was still his dad and he stilled loved him. believe me i know, i am not close with my dad at all. we are constantly fighting when we are around each other. and i know if something happened to him i would fell bad and regret saying some of the things i have said to him and some of the fights we have had. he is going through a really hard time right now so dont bug him about talking to you, just give your condolences and let him know that if he needs anything that you are there for him and always will be. other than that there isnt much you can do, sweetie. when he is ready to talk to someone he will. it may be sometime soon or it may take a very long time before he wants to talk about it. and you must respect that for him. just him knowing that you will be there if he needs anything will help out a little. it may not show but deep down it will count to him.
i am sorry for his loss.
i hope this helps.
xoxo
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I am 13 and my brother is 17 and he hits me and I dont know what to do I love him and he cane be nice he just gets mad really mad some times I dont know what to do
well when he gets angry just stay your distance. if you are out of his way then he wont hit you.
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what would u do if your girlfriend got u A)boxers b) shirt c) cologne or however spell it d) bear e) nothing
umm... if i were a guy and she got me them i would prolly wear the boxers, shirt, and/or cologne (if i liked the smell), a bear who knows, and nothing...well i cant do anything with nothing so i wouldnt do anything.
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Hello Darling! I was wondering if you knew some good songs to put on a cd for Christmas for one of my really good guy friends. He's into like Zed Zeplin and stuff like that and modern rock like Sum 41 and Coheed and Cambia. Thanx!
x0x Krissy
i was never really into led zeplin so i dont know very many songs. the only one i can think of right now is "Stairway to heaven"
Sum 41
Below are the songs on most if not all of the albums.
No Reason, We're All To Blame, Angels With Dirty Faces, Some Say, The Bitter End, Open Your Eyes, Slipping Away, I'm Not The One, Welcome To Hell, Pieces, There's No Solution, 88, The Hell Song, Over My Head (Better Off Dead), My Direction, Still Waiting, A.N.I.C., No Brains, All Messed Up, Mr. Amsterdam, Thanks for Nothing, Hyper-insomnia-para-condrioid, Billy Spleen, Hooch, Nothing On My Back, Never Wake Up, Fat Lip, Rhythms, Motivation, In Too Deep, Summer, Handle This, Crazy Amanda, All She's Got, Heart Attack, Pain For Pleasure, Motivation, All She's Got, Crazy Amanda Bunkface, What We're All About, Grab The Devil By The Horns And **** Him Up The ***, Machine Gun, What I Believe, T.H.T, Makes No Difference, Summer, 32 Ways To Die, Second Chance For Max Headroom , Dave's Possessed Hair / It's What We're All About, Ride The Chariot To The Devil, Another Time Around.
This way you can go through them and pick which ones that you think sound good. sum 41 has a few good songs out there so i dont know which ones to tell you. this is the reason for the albums.
hope this helps. have fun and hope he likes it
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i cant stop cracking my nuckles and their already all swollen and stuff and i know theyll hurt alot when im older if i dont stop but i dont know how. does anyone know how to stop cracking nuckles? ill rate! please help!
nope, i crack mine all the time and i am not to worried about it. but mine arent huge either. anyways... if you fond something that works the let me know.
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Lately I've noticed that my feet are very calloused and dry. I took a pumice stone to the callouses and it worked pretty good. However, the wrinkles on my heels are white...like they are cracking. If you feel them, they are smooth. Any idea what this is? I've soaked and scrubbed and as far as I know it's dry skin. Any ideas on how to make it go away?
to help with dry skin on your feet at night when you are sleeping put some lotion or vaseline on them and put socks. this helps to moisturize. ans when you get out of the shower try using some baby oil.
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ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them??
just tell them you started going out with this guy and giv his name and what he is like.
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16/f/Ca
I'm going to be a Senior next year, which means I need to start thinking about colleges, majors and such. Even though I've only done 1 play in my life, I was in show choir for one year, and when I was little I was always in chorus in church musicals, I really want to study theatre. When I was little I hated performing, but as I got older, I've just been more interested in the whole acting thing. I've taken an acting class (for television, not for theatre) and even though it was two hours of notes and some acting, I LOVED it. I loved learning the techniques and its something I'm interested in. I'm a shy person when you first get to know me. The second day of class we had to cry in front of the class and I was able to do it, and I loved it. That was probably one of the best moments of my life. The whole class was silent (I was the youngest one. Second to the youngest, was probably a 20 year old), watching me and when I was done, the teacher said I was the best one.
The problem is, is that I'm never in the school plays, or musicals (even though i was in show choir--singing and dancing--musicals aren't my thing, I'm more into acting) because the director picks and already has his favorites and he is so wierd in a freaky way... Anyways, even though I LOVE acting, going to movie sets (I was an extra in a movie) I haven't used my talent at all except for the little things I listed above. If I want to major in theatre, is it bad that I haven't done much yet? If I study it in college, I know that I'll most likely be very active in it (I'm a good liar--which is like acting...so I kind of have a little natural talent). I mainly want to do television/commercial. I've been to plays as well as numerous of movie/tv sets and I think I would love commercial acting better. Is it something I should go for?
if you want to study theatre then more power to you. you should take drama if your school offers it. that way you will learn all about theatre.
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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?
no. i dont see anything wrong for it. it is a paying job so what difference does it make to you. if you are comfortable with babysitting and you want to do it then go ahead, there is nothing wrong with that.
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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?
it shouldnt be. i do it all the time. i watch 3 kids, 1 yr old boy, 3 yr old girl and a 7yr old boy. just make sure that you are the one in control not them. dont let them walk all over you and everything should be fine.
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Ok i need a lot of help. My parents think i am a complete lunatic. They know i am better then average and so do i. My grades in school suck cuz i just dont get geometry, IPC or English and i dont know Wat the hell to do!! please help me cuz i wanna go to a real good college!!!
study more... dont worry about it.. geometry is one of the worst subjects to take for a lot of people. i had troubles in that class, but then again i am not the smartest person in the world either. i am just an average person.
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Ok so my friends all think i need a girlfriend but i really dont want at the moment but on the other hand, i really do. My parents think i should be focused on school and not dating but, i dont know wat to do. Please help
if you dont want to date any one then you dont have to. if your not ready for a girlfriend at the moment then that is your choice.
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well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3
well for one you have nothing to be jealous of. even if he is out screwing around with other girls, you cant be jealous and pissed off about it because you arent going out. there is a name for you two... FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!! thats it.
for two there is no question here to answer but i am, however, going to preced on telling you my thoughts about this.
when you said "i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.."... "but i dont really want to go out with him.." , that there just asnwers your retorical question. Your feelings you are having for him is mainly just becuase you have done sexual things with each other. nothing more. and by this you think that he is obligated to be with you and only you. you think that there should be no other girls involved with him, well thats not going to happen. you have to get over yourself and think if you like him just because you two can get together and "do stuff" then there is no connection between you two. he is aloud to talk to other girls and do whatever he wants with them and to them. nothing you can do about it. nothing you will do will be able to change that.
all it is at the moment is just a way to get some pleasure out of each other. pretty much just a booty call and a way to get a piece of ass.
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I'm making a Cd for one of my good guy friends for Christmas, and I was wondering if anyone knew some good songs that I could put on it. Please no rap! Thanx!
x0x
-Krissy*
you should drop one by in my inbox and let me know what kind of music he is into so i can give you some songs. Does he like country, punk, r&b, hip hop, metal, rock, classic rock, oldies, classical, etc... i could keep going on and on so let me know. i will be more than glad to help ya.
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with an average income, how much would you spend on your 15 year old child?
thanks
depending on what you are considering an average income. if the 15 year old was an only child or not? if he/she was an only child then about 200$ or so... i dont know, i dont ahve kids so i couldnt tell ya. and like i said b4 it all depends on what you are considering an average income.
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Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her.
since you know nothing about her, why not try something like bath and body works set or something from there. ummm... or you could just get her a card and give her a gift card from the mall or some money and let her know you had no clue what to get her because you didnt know her all that well and the things she was into. that way she can go to the mall with her gift card or money and get something for herself that she wants.
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