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break up
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?
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You need to talk to him. It is not fair for him to be in a relationship when you are not fully commmitted. It's going to go down the drain no matter what eventually so you might as well let him know. Explain to him all of your feelings and how you feel. It might be turn out better than before. People might call you a whore and get mad, but then atleast you'll know who your real friends are. In the end, these people won't matter anyways so just be fair to him. Sorry, if this isn't what you wanted to hear and if this didn't help.
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Don't do this to yourself and think you can make yourself happy if youre not happy with the situation you are in. You are young and if he doesn't make you happy then you shouldn't go out with him. There is obviously no chemistry betwenn you and him on your side and the longer you last in the relationship the more upset you will become. No body will call you a whore and the best thing to do would be to talk to a friend about it and say you feel guilty about being with him as you don't think you can make him happy and that you see him as more of a friend than a boyfriend. I'm sure she will understand and if anyone tries to be mean to you then she will stick up for you. Don't worry
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Dump Him. Don't live a unhappy life and your freinds will have you back if u dump him. Good Luck.
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The only person you have to please is yourself so i think that you need to break it off. By staying with him longer you are just leading him on and making him like you more so it will just be harder for you and him later. You need to tell him you just want to be friends and thats all you want to be ever again.. you may break his heart but it will only make him stronger right? And as for the people who will be mad at you it is none of their business so who cares about them .. of they are mad at you for something that little then they are not worth being friends with
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Dont keep it going unless YOU want to and it seems like you dont want to. Just tell him what you just said. I dont think people would call you a whore if you broke up with him. And if they do, screw them.
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hey. just tell him that you are just not really happy with the way he has been treating you. then just talk it out and see what happens. maybe even give him a few days after you talk to him and see what happens.
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Well, I don't think that it was a smart decision to go back out with him in the first place, BUT if you really want to break it off, I think that you should because if you don't now...it will only get worse. And for all of the people who will call you a whore...they are stupid and immature because obviously you are NOT a whore(unless you have done something bad in the past). But anyways, you probably won't even care about their opinions in a couple of years anyway...and everything eventually blows over. Just be honest with everybody and tell them(including your "unsupportive" boyfriend) the truth. it will all turn out ok in the end!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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* You can't make yourself like someone. People won't call you anything - they have no reason to. Just say that you thought you liked him and wanted to try again, but it just didn't work out ..
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You should try to get over him and find a better guy that is more supportive. ALso you shouldn't feel bad breaking up with him becasue it's your life and you should be able to live it to the fullest and you don't want to be misreble!
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~!LITTLE HELPER!~
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One of MY biggest regrets in life has been to stay in a relationship out of pity. Don't do it!! It would be completely unfair to yourself, and yourself and your happiness is what comes first!! Don't be afraid of breaking any hearts! If I could give advice to my younger self, I would say the same. Easier said than done, but in the end you will see that this decision has the best outcome. As for the other person hurting, you are not responsible even if you made this decision. Afterwards you will be highly respected and envey'd. Believe me. If I could tell my past self this, I would be greatful for this advice. Good luck, sweetie!!
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Do what makes yourself happy! Never be in a relationship that you feel uncomfortable in.
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you should break up with him because it is your choice and don't care what people say.
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no you shouldnt stay with him if you dont like him. you should break up with him. and when you do you should let him know that you dont have those type of feelings for him and you thought it would be best to break it off before he got really into and had really strong feelings about you. so basically you did it now instead of later because you didnt want to lead him on and hurt him.
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The last thing you want to do is be in a relationship where your unhappy it's not fair to you and it's not fair to him. Who cares what other poeple think, let them them think your a whore if they want to think that just remember that your not.
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Yes, if you are not happy no matter how long you have been going out, it is not worth keeping the relationship going. Break it off, and move on to someone else.
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