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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks
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Hmm...just cut him out of your life totally. Block him off of your buddylist. Delete his phone number. If he starts to talk to you, dont talk to him back. It just causes you to go back to him and get upset. It might take a while to do this but it will be worth it to have him out of your life. About the dating other guys, if it helps you get better try, but if it doesnt let dating rest for a little bit. Hmm...this question just reminds me of my best friend...and if I know her she wouldnt take my advice so you probably wont either haha. Just remember the longer you hold onto your hopes the more deeper you'll get in and the longer it will take you to get out of the mess.
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This it the hardest one i have goten to far. Acually i swear to you i have had the same thing. I loved a girl for 3 years yea a long time i know. She used to flirt then go and get a boyfrenid. It hurt me so bad but I couldn't get over her. The truth was I LOVED HER. I think thats whats wrong with you your in to deep. Just give it time don't date him and try to think about other guys get your mind off of him. Its hard Hell I Know. I have cryed for a few nights trying to do it but if u have faith in yourself you can do it. Good Luck. P.S. IM me let me know how your doing.
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well... you need to talk to him.. and tell him that you're the kind of person that takes a relationship slowly and that his "impulsivness" is driving your brain off the scale and that it's making you confused because he is on and off...
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hey babez, come on if you really LOVE him then be with him!! if your really tryna get over him then kinda like forget about him or i mean like try to get away from him for awhile...see what happens then and if u still in love with him then GET WIT HIM!-xoxo
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Wow, I hope I can help you, because I have the same problem with something and someone...let's see...Yeah, it's really hard to read these kind of people, the on-again, off-again kind. I guess what I've been doing is just living my life and trying to figure things out as I go along. I keep on being myself and I don't let anyone change who I am. I write poems when I am in deep passionate thought about this person. Try to do things to keep you busy when you are irritated by the situation. Don't give up just yet on this person, as annoying as it all is, until this person does something to really deceive you. I can tell you there is no "off button" to stop liking this person, your feelings are real and uncontrollable. Only give up if there is intentional pain caused unto you...until then, sigh, and cry, and hope, and imagine all of the possiblities.
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You need to make bounderies with this guy. Tell him "you either like me or not. I can't go on in wonder day after day just wondering when your moods going to change again." Get him to wake up and see the light. One day you might not be their. Just talk.
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Why don't you try going out with some other guys to the movies or something adn see if you are attracted to any of them. I'm sure you'll get your mind off of him if your with some one else. Try it out and see if it works!
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