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well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3
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Well, Okay some of these people are just being very rude. So Screw them right now. You shouldn't go out with someone you don't like but you do have *some* feelings for this guy. I can tell becuase you get jealous when he is near and talks to other girls. But yeah I see where you are coming from. Its ~Not~ just because the sextual intercoarse its becuase you guys have been friends for a long time and really got to know each other very well. Just tell him what you really feel about him that "You just aren't that into him". Hope I Helped Atleast A Lil. :) Good Luck! If you need more advice just ask me I am here to give you more. :)
Shann
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if you dont want to go out with him, dont complain about it he can do what he wants, and stop hooking up with him because its only gonna make you more jealous
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Well, you did a good thing by admitting your feelings for him, that's good. But do you like him for the person he is, or is it just lust? If its just lust, it may pass soon, but if the feelings are true, go for it. From what it sounds like, its lust. You should let your feelings (emotional) mature for a little bit, and hook up with him. Don't just want him because of his body, that may end up hurting the both of you.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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well, if you don't really want to go out with him, then it seems like you have your mind made up. chances are the reason you have feelings for him is because you guys hooked up, and if you don't hook up anymore, they will probably go away. try not hooking up with him again, because that'll just make things harder on you. if you just stay friends with him, and keep it purely friends, things should be good between you two. that should't be too hard considering you said you didn't want to go out with him, so it's not like you're waiting for something else to happen. i hope this helped, and good luck.
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Why...don't...you...stop...making...things...longer...than...they...have...to...be...
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you do like him, because you're jealous when he's around other girls. if you don't want to feel like that, either make it official, or stop being a hypocrite when you use him as your boy toy. you can't expect him to be exclusive if you don't tell him you'd like to be.
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well for one you have nothing to be jealous of. even if he is out screwing around with other girls, you cant be jealous and pissed off about it because you arent going out. there is a name for you two... FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!! thats it.
for two there is no question here to answer but i am, however, going to preced on telling you my thoughts about this.
when you said "i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.."... "but i dont really want to go out with him.." , that there just asnwers your retorical question. Your feelings you are having for him is mainly just becuase you have done sexual things with each other. nothing more. and by this you think that he is obligated to be with you and only you. you think that there should be no other girls involved with him, well thats not going to happen. you have to get over yourself and think if you like him just because you two can get together and "do stuff" then there is no connection between you two. he is aloud to talk to other girls and do whatever he wants with them and to them. nothing you can do about it. nothing you will do will be able to change that.
all it is at the moment is just a way to get some pleasure out of each other. pretty much just a booty call and a way to get a piece of ass.
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