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i am about 105 lbs, 5'1, and 14 yrs old. i wanna lose about 5 lbs before march 15th, but there is one problem: i cant excercise to save my life. i just cant do it. my knees have issues, and i dont have strength..
i basically want to tone myself, so what can i do?
Seriously, you dont need to loose weight. I know you want like a tip to be toned but youve gota excersize. 105 lbs, your freaking tiny already. But if you want to like b more musclar or toned, just write a list of things then put it on your wall. Like, "50 crunches at night, 50 pushups, jog for 10 minutes" and try and dedicate yourself. I wish I was dedicated enough to run eervyday but I just like think, i dont feel like it. But if you have it writen out its easier and if you are like watching tv just lay on your back and do crunches durning comericals or whatever.. Here maybe this can help..
www.am-i-fat.com
http://www.changingshape.com/resources/articles/abdominal-exercises.asp
So everytime i like a guy, and they start to like me, i stop liking them like the second after, and i have no idea why, it makes me mad, and i feel horrible about the boy. I don't have commitment problems, and i know i'm actually a pretty good girlfriend, i just, don't know what to do. And its not because i'm immature or not ready, i've had serious ralationships before. Am i afraid of being hurt, ugh, i don't even know.
I do the same thing. I really don't know whats wrong with me, or you. I think, for myself, that I just keep thinking that the person I like is so perfect and great and excatly like I want but then when they start liking me back and acting all into me I find out they arnt and I dont like that. You probaly just need to find someone that you know you like before they start liking you back enough for you to be like, led off.. if you get what I mean? I dont know, maybe you can i.m me sometime and we can like try to figure this out haha.
Hey Kaite
well evry firday my friends and i have a movie night and they invite like evryone to hangout and i was always invited, but latley i havent been getting invited and i fell really left out even in school i get left out. I fell like i have no fireds besides some people that dont even go to my school,but that is only like 2 people , i dont know what to do sometimes i just kinda want to cry becuase i dont know what i am doing wrong or if i am doing anything wrong.
please help ='[
thanks
Ask someone. Thats the only way you'll know for sure. If they were friends with you before, and just stopped, you probaly made them mad or something else. Think about anything you did, and think if things you did in the past were what you would like done to you (the golden rule). Asking would give you a define answer probably, unless they cover up and act gay.
Hey katie
well my swimming season is pretty much over so my mom said i can dye my hair soon,i want to die my hair really bad but the problem is i have NO CLUE what color i should do i was thinking maybe a redish but i dont know if that would look good,so maybe you can help,i have burnett hair and it is VERY curly , i am kind of chunky (fat), so what do you think
PLEASE HELP
Red hair isnt always nice looking. Personally I hate when hair is like super red and looks fake, it can be pulled off by some people but it just looks weird to me. I think if you dye the underneith black, that'd be really cute.Ive been walking to do thta wiht my hair for a long time. Or try highlights too. If you have curly brunetter hair its probably already really pretty.
Ok. I was getting really good at gymnastics about a year and a half ago, and I was starting on fulls. I could never get courage to do the backwards twist. I had already been learning how to do an ariel and a branny. And got those down fine. But when it comes to flipping backwards + twists, I fall apart. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get me used to doing the backwards twists?
Thankyou =]
Fulls are really easy when you get them. I got mine in 6th grade, then never did it, then took tumbling and now i have it better than ever. You need good layouts, ones that are high enough to twist from and ones that are hollow because you dont really want to twist when you've got a piked layout. Go on the trampoline and just do some halfs, like.. fulls are weird when you think about them. I can't ever do one in the water, but tumbling they are easy. Before I do my full I stand with my legs together and arms up next to my ears and just stay hollow and twist in my spot, like jump in one spot if you get what I mean. If I were you, I'd be on the trampoline trying halfs then fulls and just geting used to twisting on a tramp before you do it on spring or hard floor. If you need more explanation for tumbling you can i.m me at Skkatanic
Hope this helped,
Katie
I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
Don't go on the computer so much.
Hang out wiht the friends youve got more.
Go walk around
Get in some sports or activities
Go to highschool or whichever school you attened's activites or sport games (football games, basketball games)
Have your friends introduce you into people they know
okay so there is this guy. and uhh we havnt done naything eyt but i have liked him for almost a year and a half. and like i'm going over to his house this weekend and we can do what ever we want.... so what should i do to him. i need somthing interesting that will for sure turn him on....
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This site is pretty nifty for whatever you need..
www.sextutor.com
or,
http://kissingbooth.com/how_to_kiss.htm
ok well i no i am going through puberty i dont have my period yet , but for some reason latley my breast have been hurting really bad and it feels tender and sore everytime i run in to something or touch it,and i constintally run in to things or bang my elbows on things for some reason.
please help
thanks so much you give the most greatest advice
=]
Thanks =)
Try a heating pad on your boobs. It might work and make them a little less sore or tender. Hah, for bumping into things, wear a hoodie for a little so you've got more coushin. Ive never heard of someone being really clumslys when they are going threw puberty. Just don't be hiting your boobs or touching them or puting pressure on them so they can get space and they are probably sore from growing. Don't wear tight bras, and dont wear a bra to bed untill it stops hurting as much (ps your boobs grow when you sleep I heard). Hope this helped
Katie
My two best friends just started going out. Me and the guy used to kind of flirt like crazy, and we would just be pervy around eachother, but we both new we were kidding. I dont think i ever even considered liking him. But we were really close, just like I was with the girl. I never really saw the relationship coming, and I'm so upset! Its hard to talk to the guy now, because i have to be careful about what i say. And Im jealous of the girl. I dont know why, because I dont think i like him. But I hate that theyre going out. I really loved him, just as a friend, but i really did. And now its too confusing.
You probably feel like now he has her, he won't need you, right? My good guy friend, when he has another girl I get jealous cause I dont want things to change, but I just usually overreact. If he is your friend, he shouldn't just do that to you, and if he does he is obsouvly not a good friend because he is puting relationship infront of friendships. If you think your really really good friends, try telling him. He might say that he though you were mad at him, or he might say "id never do that to you". You never know unless you talk to him. I hope this helped.
Kate
I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.
"Find a good book. I hated reading untill i found a book I loved and i relized that i love reading when theres something good to read. Maybe go outside and just walk around, jog, go on a trampoling if you have one, even a swing set. Take your ipod or mp3 player, cd player, and just sit outside and look at a veiw. I do that all the time cause I just sit on my swings and look at the pond in my backyard. I always say I will, but one of these days Im going to lay on my trampoline and just look at the stars with my ipod on. Maybe work out, like do sit ups or go on a tredmil. If you have a pet play with them, like throw the ball around with your dog if you have one. Invite people over and if they say your house is so fun then they can pick something out to do. Try cooking, its really fun and you can always eat what you just made. "
I already told someone else that. You might not have the same problem, but the solution is near the same. Go for walks with friends, hang out with people. I think how you do art work is awesome. Get together with a friend and just walk to like your nearest grocery store, but some kind of dessert, then bake it. Sure you end up eating it all, but its fun and a snack. Theres a whole bunch you can do, even if some other people think its lame. As long as it keeps you occupied.
Katie
We are doing these things in school where you have to write something and memorize it about someone who has passed away.
So I am doing Steve Irwin [ the croc hunter].. my question was, what were some of the things he'd always say while wrestling the crocs?
THanks
Watch Discovery Channel or Animal Planet. Lately they had alotttt about him on, it was touching.
http://new.savannahnow.com/node/131835
That site has stuff on it.
So i like this guy and he is like my best friend. we tell tell him like everything and i would trust him with my life, but i am afraid to tell him that i like him because i think he might freak out or not like me in return. I'm scared that he will not feel the same about me. He has been singal and i dont think i will lose my chance but i dont really want to ruin a good friend ship. No one in the world knows i like him and if they did they would probably not aprove of us going out, and i have always lied and told him that we are just friend and that it would not be right if we went out, if people had ever said anything about us going out, and he has always agreed. He is not the hottest boy and he can be quiet a nerd. But he is so sweet and just an asome friend. Do you think i should tell him, and if so how?
You should try to flirt and see if he will go along with it. If he does, and seems to kind of flirt back, maybe he does kind of like you some. This is a quote I love... "I'd rather regret something I said, then something I never did". I mean, people have to take chances sometimes. You can try and find out, which would help, then if you feel he might like you, tell him. If you never do, you might miss you chance. He could be feeling the same way as you and just not showing it. Promise each other that you'll always be friends. If he does really care about you, and you tell him how you feel and he just doesnt like like you, he'd care enough about you to still be your friend. I hope this helped
Katie
does sex feel better for a guy w/o a condom or w/ one?
I'm pretty sure it feels better without one on.
my dog buster is anything but mean, he would never hurt a fly!! and we have had him for 3 years and he is part of the family. we have gotten an invisible fence and he was perfect with it!! but we found out when our neghibor next door came over yesterday and yelled at us that our dog buster attacked their dog which they might sue us for and the dog buster attacked isn't doin well. and we tried leaving him in the garage or in the house but he went insane and chewed up everything and in his cage he broke out. the last thing i would do is sell him or put him down. do you have any suggestions?
Try taking him to a dog trainer. You can tell your mom and maybe she can help look one up. My aunt took her dog there and he was trained so when they had a live duck the dog just sat there and did nothing. Or you can train your dog and take him for walks and play with him more, so when you do keep an eye on him hes playing with you not hurting or riping things up.
so i love LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE ok im just obsessed with air force one (shoes) but all of my friends think i am an idiot for likeing guy shoes idk wether i shuold keep wearing them or just try and get over the obsesion and start wearin high heels ((EWWWWWWWW))... what should i do????
FIRE!!!! no body listens to you when you scream help anymore.... so i sceam fire!!!!! lol
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Okay? Just get what you want, who cares if no other girl has them. Then you won't be like everyone else, personally that is something good. Highheals hurt when you arnt used to walking in them. Just get your shoes and eventually youre friends will stop making fun of you.
Sweet. I'm on your favortie columnists. I'll add you to mine, yo.
Tara(fying)♥
Thanks, your column is great.
i love you katie.
and i miss you.
we need to hang out.
guess who :D
ps. i saw you at the basketball game =] =].
Hahah, I love you too, and missyou a bucnhess =D
poopy, hehe guess who?
hahaha, weirdo!
ok well i have allways been fat asnd it is REALLY hard for me to lose wieght my grandmother is fat and people say i am her clone and she says she has always been fat and i am afriad that i will be fat like her(i love my grandma dont worrie) but i didnt get my period yet do you think that will change anythin 12/f
Your period will change stuff. My mom told me that girls stop growning 2 years after they get their period. Some girls get chunkier after going threw puberty, some loose weight. I got taller and bigger (not nessicarly fatter), basically just grew. Just work out and don't over eat. Sometimes you can't help geting big if it runs in the family. You can look at it kind of like an esclator, if you do nothing your going to keep on going, but if you work then you should stay were you are, get what i mean? Im not sure if that works all that well, but theres no harm in trying and working out.
hey people, i bought 3 frames to put pictures of me and my best friend in them for her bday (tomorrow) but i cant get ANY pictures of us! Not here, not at her place, no where! So the question is, WHAT CAN I DO WITH THREE FRAMES when there's no picture?
It'd be super cute if you wrote little poems that could fit into the frames. Maybe something from a quote site (http://www.xanga.com/x0o_ad0rkabLe_qu0tes). I think that'd be great, and if my friend did that for me i would love that.