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Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?
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Neither is better than the other. It would be wise for the guy to wear a condom during oral because he may have an STD that isn't clearly visible to the naked eye such as herpes or syphillis. But the girl needs to be protected as well. Dental dams work well for oral sex. It's like a condom but fits the labia. If neither wants to wear these, as they do in fact hinder pleasure, make sure for both of you to get checked out by a doctor before engaging.
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me and my boyfriend have sex alot and it seems like every time we do i get so tired and my legs get stiff so eventually it gets boring. What can i do to not be so tired, and have it boring lol to spice it up or something (link)
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Well, to not make it so boring, try a new position every week or something. That may also help with the stiff leg problem. Your legs get stiff because you're essentially holding them in the same place for long periods of time. About being tired, there's not much you could do there. You're tired because sex is a form of exercise and you get tired with basically any form of exercise eventually.
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im a girl age 14 turning 15 and well all the guys say i play hard to get and everytime i hang out with guys theres always at least one guy thats like lets do stuff or something and i wont do it and untill maybee laterr and i was wondering do guys like when girls play hard to get? please tell me.
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Guys do like a bit of mystery. They want to be in suspense with where your relationship may lead but they don't want to be lead on then dumped on then flirted with then totally stopped talked to then fooled around with at your leisure. A little hard to get isn't so bad because guys want to have to try a little but if you're jumping around with his head, he's going to lose interest fast.
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okay well i really like this kid whos in 11th grade..and im in 9th..whatever thats besides the point. we talk on the phone and stuff and he seems really nice & everythingg. but then everyone is like don't get involved with him, stop talking to him now and stuff but like i dont want to. if the rumors are true..i'd rather find out myself bc i know rumors aren't always true..what should i do (link)
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You should go straight to the source of all the rumors. Remember, rumors usually start with some shred of truth. They may be a little exaggerated but some of them could be true. If this guy really likes you he'll tell you the truth. Besides, even if the rumors are true, people CAN change.
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15/f.
is it fair to tell the guy i like that i like him even though he has a girlfriend? because i feel like he has the right to know since we are also good friends. but then i don't want to be mean to him and ruin his relationship.
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Yes it is fair. If this guy that you like and his girlfriend are meant to be together, your confession won't harm their relationship. They'll just accept it and move on. You have nothing to lose by telling him.
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ok so iam a 16/f and i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he couldn't believe that i trusted him... so i told him its over.. and then i told one of our friends that i wanted to go back out with him and she told me that he said he doesn't date his exes... o yah and also he started being mean t o me in class and like he was calling me stupid and i was like your just saying that because i broke up with you.. well why is he mean to me now? and i still like him and he doesn't want me back so what should i do? (link)
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Well, being mean to you just because you broke up is extremely juvenile so personally I'm not sure why you would like to date someone so immature. But you can't help how your heart feels I guess. To make him realize how stupid he's being, let all his stunts roll right off your back. Act happy even if you're not. When he sees that you can be happy without him, he'll want you to be happy with him.
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Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.
The problem is next week he's goig away to europ and i wont see him for a month and a half... tomorows the last day i will see him until he comes back, and i would realy like to keep in contact with him.
should i ask him for his e-mail? If so how could i bring it up?... thanks (link)
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Go up and tell him that you're really gonna miss talking to him for six weeks. Then tell him that you'd like to keep in touch while he's away. He'll probably offer to get your email address then but if he doesn't just write it on a napkin and give it to him and say to write you sometime. Or you could say that you always wanted to go to Europe and ask him if he can take some pictures and send them to you. You can email him a thank you when you get them and if he likes you he'll most likely write back.
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I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on? (link)
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Well first of all, don't just let it go because you deserve to know the truth. Take him aside and tell him there's a rumor going around about him and this girl and you just want to know if it's true. Don't attack him or he'll just deny it. Or if talking to him doesn't work, talk to this girl. She'll most likely tell you the truth before your boyfriend would. And chances are, he is either cheating on you or he's having problems he can't talk about.
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In school theres this guy and we have known each other since december. but everytime i see him we ususally stare @ each other and then he waves to me and says hi. and i always do the same like whenever i see him. its all we do basically. but i wish it was more he tried talking to me and i did too but it didnt work out. he flirts with most of my friends. but i never got the chance to actually know him. hes popular im not. but i would like to know what to do because alls we do is say HI (name) its just i like him! what should I do? (link)
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You should just gather up the courage and go up to him and ask him a question. Ask him something about an upcoming event or something that already happened (whether he's going, how it went, did he have fun, etc.). Those are safe subjects and you won't be straggling for something clever to say in awkward silences. He was probably chatting up your friends and staying away from you because he's too nervous to talk to you but wants you to still think he's confident with girls. Go talk to him. You won't regret it.
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ok so this guy who i like and i guess he likes me too wants to hang out so bad with me. he asked me for my phone # and he gave me his. first he invited me to his game and then a school dance afterwards which i couldnt go to. now is like the perfect day for him to hang out with me. but you see he wants me to call HIM? and i cant b/c i get embarassed and i just freak out. also i dont even know what we are going to do i havent planned anything but alls i know is im free today, next weekend im not. but you see its already 4 and i dont know what to do right now so help me before the day is over? (link)
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You shouldn't be embarassed to call him. You already know he wants you to. Just call and ask if he wants to catch a movie or go for pizza. Now all you have to do is hope he's home.
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