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oral/sex
Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?
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i like to be given oral sex rather than giving and i am a fan of 69. but i like actual intercourse way better. just make sure you're ready. and use a condom at all times for protection.
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Neither is better than the other. It would be wise for the guy to wear a condom during oral because he may have an STD that isn't clearly visible to the naked eye such as herpes or syphillis. But the girl needs to be protected as well. Dental dams work well for oral sex. It's like a condom but fits the labia. If neither wants to wear these, as they do in fact hinder pleasure, make sure for both of you to get checked out by a doctor before engaging.
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First of all, you're only 14, and to be honest, I don't think your relationship is serious enough to be even considering sex -- oral or otherwise. You're so young, and you could easily be making a mistake that you'll regret for the rest of your life.
That being said, oral sex isn't about who's first and second -- whatever happens, happens. You're not going to listen to me saying "don't do it." So my advice is to just go with the flow when it comes to who's first or at the same time or whatever.
As far as protection goes, a condom is a VERY good thing to have, even just for oral sex. Yeah, it's a little weird, but you can get STDs from giving oral sex. Same goes for him -- even if you're a virgin, he should use a dental dam when he's giving you oral sex. If you can't get ahold of an actual dental dam, then just use a square of plastic wrap about the size of your open hand -- stick that over your "area" before he begins oral. It'll keep both of you safe (again, you can get an STD from him giving YOU oral too).
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14?? is a lil young for any of them..sex or oral. trust me.. i was soo close to that with my ex..but i had to stop because, i didnt wanna regret anything..so you shouldnt be thinking about those things..wait for a while.
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Sex at 14 is really not a very good idea. You may not be able to cope emotionally or physically with the reponsibilities that come with sex. For example - pregnancy, STDs, VDs, and all the emotional packaging that you will experience. You will regret losing your virginity at such a young age one day, especially if it all goes wrong and you end up pregnant or with AIDS. Try a bit of research about such consequences before having sex and if you must go ahead, please use all the protection you can. All the best.
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Wait for sex...you'll regret losing your virginity this early....oral is fine...it is safer if the guy wears a condom. It protects from STD's but if the guy hasnt been with any other girls you do not NEED one.
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umm you are 14 so my advice would be neither but oral if anything. but if you get syphyllis or something, you will be soooo embarrassed. wait a little geez. and yes the guy must wear one.
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14 is a little young to be doing either sweetheart. Wait a few more years before you go off doing that type of stuff. You're 14. You've got better things to do with your time.
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so 14 is young for any of that.. but i would like it if you did oral, so you wont be having a baby. yes, a guy must wear a condom. and it doesnt matter who goes first, the guy would like it if you did him first, but you would want him to do it to you first, so i guess whatever you feel like at the time.
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