me and my boyfriend were going out for about 14 months...everything was really great at first but then just a little while ago it started to go down hill, we started fighting a lot and everything. well i went to my friends yesterday and i met this kid Brandon, he was really nice and good looking. we flirted a little. But then today i went down to my friends house and he was there and me and him started talking and we connected really good, we made each other laugh we were kind all over each other but not alot. but me and him barly talked to anyone else that was there. It hard to explain we just hit it off really good...but anyway i was going to go home and he was going to walk me home but we got by my house and i asked him if he wanted to take a walk so we did and we ended up in the woods. so we sat and we talked and then we started kissing, and kissing lend into fingering then we had sex... i feel real bad tho and i know i have to tell my boyfriend but i'm not sure how to, i mean i don't want him to break up with me but i believe he will because i cheated on him, how is he supose to trust me....i need advice bad...
I also feel like a slut to and i feel really bad, like i let my self down and i did something that i know was wrong..like i just slept with a guy i just met..am i going to feel like this forever? how do i make it stop?...
Thanks in advance...
sorry its long to!
You made a mistake. But, you have to tell your boyfriend. He will find out eventually. Even if he does break up with you, you said yourself, your relationship was going downhill anyway. That could be why you did it. You can apologize and tell him you made a mistake. He probably won't trust you for a very long time, but he might forgive you.
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HOW DO I GET SKINNY??????
im 200 pounds..
please help!
dont say exersize...
please just help
i need to loose 100 pounds fast!
DONT SAY EXERSIZE I CANT DO IT.
PLEASE!!
help!! fast!
i want to be pretty..
First of all, you NEED to exercise. Eating healthy alone won't make you lose 100 pounds. You can't lose 100 pounds fast either, it would take months. Don't eat sugars and fats. Cut down on how much you eat. Only drink water, milk, orange juice, and healthy drinks - no soda.
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whats pros
and
cons??
Pros - in favor of something
Cons- to rethink bad stuff about it
in example; going shopping
pros - you get clothes, jewelry, etc..
cons - you spent all your money
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Hey Advicenators! (;
I usually hate giving advice to questions like these, but I really need to know if what I'm doing is right. Basically, I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a month and a couple days. I really really like him a lot. He's been my best friend since I've moved here to Texas, and we just thought we should start being boyfriend / girlfriend. His name is Kevin.
Back in Pennsylvania, I had this best friend called Charles. We had been best friends since 2nd grade. But, we became REALLY close before I left PA because we knew that it'd be super heartbreaking for the both of us, since we wouldn't be together anymore.
I was completely sad because I knew that Charles didn't believe in long distance relationships. I knew I'd have to wait for him.
But then he found a girlfriend like a month after I left. I don't know her but I know that he has a girl. I was so pissed off about this because I thought he was "in love" with me. But obviously not. Then I met Kevin, like 2 months after I moved here.
Somehow he found out that I'm making Kevin a gift for Xmas, "100 reasons why I like you.." lol i'm pretty sure everyone knows about that. Then tonight, Charles IMed me and said, "Tell me 100 reasons why you love me.." & I'm like I'm not going to do that because it's unfair to Kevin, even if he never finds out about this conversation, I still think it's unfair to talk about US behind his back. He shouldn't even feel that way anyways because he has a girlfriend, right? Now he said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And he's never said that to me before.
I'm not going to be upset about this, because it isn't my fault, right? I just need other peoples' perspectives on this.
Thanks for any help.
NaImEE ♥
He is jealous. He probably still likes you but has a girlfriend to try to get you off of his mind. He is just mad because you chose Kevin over him. It's not your faul, don't let it get to you.
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A guy that I'm quite good friends with was telling me stories from when he was in highschool. I was curious when all this happened to him so I innocently asked him what year he graduated from grade 12. Well it turned out that it was the same year that I was born!! I started giggling and then told him I was born the year he graduated.
Well this was his reaction: His eyes got huge(like a deer in the headlights) and his face went 50 shades of red. He also couldnt look me in the eye for the rest of the evening.
I felt bad for embarrasing him and never mentioned it again. But I thought it was a strange reaction for just a friend?
Do you think he may be attracted to me? Why else would he get so embarrassed?
Maybe you made him feel old lol. Or, maybe he didn't expect you to be so young and is attracted to you.
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hello.there is this guy i like and i think he likes me too cause i can see the way he looks at me. should i get his number and initiate some conversation with him?
I definitely would.
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I consider myself to be an independant woman, but my bf disagrees.
Well I am 27 and have my own appartment that I rent. I don't have any student loan dept, or credit card dept. I pay my bills on time and have been living in the same appartment on my own without any help from family or roomates for the last 4 years.
I have a car that is paid for that I maintain in excellent condition. I just replaced the tires and always make sure it is serviced regularily.
I work part time at a store that is UNION. Before I got that job I had been collecting a small disabllity pension for having a mental illness. Everyone has said how well I have done for myself considering I have this condition. They (my family and friends) are all very happy for me that I got the job.
My bf, however, is being a total jerk. Well before I got the job, even though I was managing to live on my own and be responible on my disability pension would say the meanest things, like that I was living off the system and how broke I was.
Now that I have the job, he is saying things like "so I guess it's working out for you,", in a negative tone.
Well he has no right to do this to me. We arent living together and I NEVER ask him for any money. I could understand him being mad if we were living together and I wasnt working and spent all his money, but I live ON MY OWN and can look after myself. I think considering everything I've been through he should give me a little more credit.
Why do you think he is treating me like this?
He is definitely jealous that you are more successful in life. You don't need a person especially a boyfriend in your life that treats you like that.
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Heyy everyone!
This is Lauren. I asked a few questions a while back. The most recent(besides this one) was about books. I didnt exactly get as many reponses as I was looking for. I took some of the advice. I took Shattering Glass, Cut, and A Child Called It from the library and read them. Does anyone know any other good books that deal with relashionships, dealing with abuse or rape, or any other REALLY dramatic books? I also LOVE a good mystery!
Thanks a Ton!
Lauren =)
The Other Side of Dark
Haunted
Speak
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
It happened to Nancy
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heyy! ok well this guy that i know pretty well goes to my school, and hes in the same grade as me. well he cheats on every single girlfriend he has... and see last year, he would try and hold my hand, touch my thigh, and touch my butt...he was touchy feely... hahaha. well anyways, this year, like 2 fridays ago.. i kinda started to like him... and well i gave him a HUGGEEE hug when the football game was over! like me and him were linked together... we were flirting big time... i just dont know if i should go out with him ((if he asks)) cause like i like someone else to... PLEASE HELP!
will rate 5's((if good))
No don't go out with him. If he cheats on all his other girlfriends, what makes you think he won't do that to you. I would suggest staying friends with him, but it's your decision. I hope you make the right one!
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My boyfriend and I are constantly getting into debates about everything, especially religion and politics. We usually don't get that worked up, but I'm afraid it's going to do our relationship damage in the long-run. Is debating normal? Or should we avoid doing it in case we start fighting and potentially ruin our relationship? Do other people have experience with this...?
16/f
I have debates with my boyfriend all the time over religion, evolution, politics, etc. You name it, we fight over it. I think debate is healthy in a relationship. Though, if it gets to extreme, then no you guys should try to avoid debating.
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14/m
okay background:
let's call her linda. i have known her since school started. she laughs at every funny thing i do and she doesn't hesitate to give a hug or a present or something. about a month into the school year she got a bf. another month passes and she wants to break up with him, she's a nervous wreck, comes to me for support and comfort.she gets mad when i hug on other girls.
question:
i don't know if she likes me or if she is very flirtatious? can anybody help
THANX IN ADVANCE
I think she likes you if she gets mad when you hug other girls. She still could flirt with you, but I definitely think she likes you. I would ask her out if I were you.
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Ok, for school I have to choose a book for this book report thing. Any books you like apropriate for a seventh grade girl? (Only if they're really good, because I hate a lot of books!)
Thank you! xoxo abercrombiebabiex3
The Other Side of Dark
Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?
I spend more time with my boyfriend. I spend almost everyday with him.
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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???
i rate.
thanks
Tell him you were just nervous. Just talk to him and pretend like you hang out with him all the time. Hope that works for you, it does for me!
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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)
Thanks!
Aww, that's really cute. I definitely think he'd like it. Those are good examples and yes I do think the whole picture thing would make it look even cuter.
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so heres the thing...i play sports year round((softball, basketball,volleyball,cheerleading))..but i am stil fat. i try to work out and stuf, but the fat just wont go away. why wont anything work?
Maybe that's the way your body was made to be. Are your parents built like that? Remember, muscle weighs more than fat. Try cutting sweets, fats, and all sugar from your diet. Drink alot of water and don't drink soda.
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i no this is kind of gay...but what does it mean when people say " fingered them"???
When a guy sticks his finger up a girls vagina for pleasure.
Or I guess it could mean give them the middle finger?
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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f
You are doing that for all the wrong reasons. That guy doesn't like you for you. He is using you to get some, and you are letting him! Why wouldn't you believe your friend over him. Obviously they were right. All he does is ask to do stuff to you and you clearly aren't ready. Say no and don't do it unless you feel 100% ready. Don't do it because he thinks you're prude!
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how can i stop careing about what people think of me
Read stuff about boosting your confidence and self concepts.
http://www.43things.com/things/view/7685
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so i like this guy and stuff. im afraid if i ask him if he likes me and he says yes && then we decide we wanna go out, i wount be able to. heres the main problem: i have an older sister (15/sophomore) and she isnt allowed to go out [even though she kinda is(they're "good friends"lol)] my parents probably wouldnt let me go out with a boy if im only 12 and my older sister who is 15 cant. so if the guy i like askes me out, what should i say. i dont wanna be mean and say like"i like you, but no", cause then he might think i dont like him that much and we will never get to go out. i no this is confusing, but what should i do?!?!
Just say yes to him. What your parents don't know won't hurt them!
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