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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
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i'm an honest person. i give the best advice that i possibly can, & if i don't feel as if i can answer your question properly, then i will forward you to someone who i feel is more qualified to answer.
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This boy really likes me he even stares at me and my friend is his friend and he told me he thinks about me all the time.I'm emo and he asked me if I was emo and of course I said yes and now he trys to be kinda emo, he asked me out once and I said noo but I quickly regreted it. I really like him and I'm not going to see him next year so I'm not sure if I should ask him out because I really don't want people talking but I mean they would anyway should I ask him out? I'm I just crazy and give up? (link)
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if you like him, then ask him out, duh.
it doesn't matter what other people say, people are going to talk regardless, just give them something even better to talk about =)
just ask him out for your own benefit & if you don't like where things are heading, then you can always break up with him.
good luck
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The more I know my boyfriend, the more I feel he and I aren't compatible at all. I don't think this relationship will work out, so I want to end it. The problem is, my boyfriend is still passionately in love with me. I don't want to hurt him. Although I no longer have romantic feelings for him, I still regard him as my close friend. What can I do? How to dump someone without hurting him? (link)
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mainly, just be nice about it.
tell him you don't like where things are heading & you feel you need to take a break, and you never know, you guys may get back together.
just don't be rude about it & tell him how you feel about this breaking up deal. don't let him think that you hate him, or like someone else, it might only lead to pain.
good luck
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This is kind of nasty...but I think I have a bacterial infection in my vagina. Is there anyways i can get rid of this on my own without having to go to the doctor? And if i do have to go to the doctor will she just look at it real quick or take a long time? (link)
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please go to a doctor. if you think you have an infection & it goes untreated, it could get worse. bacterial infections are normal & girls get them all the time, there aren't any reasons to be embarrassed, just tell a parent that you think you have one & then see a doctor.
i've never had one, so i can't tell you what the doctor will do, but i'm sure it'll be all right.
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I know this isn't the right catagory but its the only one I could think of.
So anyway im a 14/f,
I masturbate every now and then, and I've looked at porn once or twice. Well my question is that if I get turned on by girls who doing sexual things with eachother does that make me a lesbian or bi or something? I have crushes on guys and I have a boyfriend and I've never had feelings for a girl, but I get turned on by girls doing stuff like that. Is this normal? Thank you so much for the help! (link)
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this doesn't mean that you are a lesbian, its just what turns you on. like some girls like guy on guy & im sure some guys probably like guy on guy too.
so don't worry dear, it's normal.
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I want to start shaving my bikini area. All of my my friends do but I'm a bit embarassed to ask them this!
You see, I'm just a bit, well, nervous, really about going around my bits with a sharp razor. For the first time, who wouldn't be? So I really need like a step by step guide. I've looked on the internet and I can't find much for teens that doesn't sound scary. Could any of you ladies out there help me? It needs to be quite detailed.
Much Love, FF. xx (link)
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i'm not very sure how i can explain this so i'm not really going to try, haha =)
just shave it slowly & use shaving cream, not soap.
if it gets cut, it doesn't hurt anymore than a razor cut on your leg.
mainly just sit on the edge of your bathtub & spread your legs (haha) its not hard to shave, really.
& it doesn't hurt, i promise :]
good luck with it.
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well i was wondering if i am about to start my period cause when i wiped myself there was a rusty color on the toilet paper. and there was a rusty colored little spot on my undies. im scared please help. im 13. (link)
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this could be two things;
[1] you are about to start your period
or..
[2] you've popped your cherry.
usually if you've not started your period yet, you will spot a couple of months, or maybe just weeks before. don't get scared, just tell your mom/guardian. they'll help you out
your cherry can be popped by you running, swimming, gymnastics, dancing, almost basically anything that involves extremely spreading your legs, or stretching them. but once again, this isn't something to worry about either.
it'll be okay :]
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Shave my stomach...isnt it nasty when it grows back? (link)
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no way. i shave mine & it doesn't really grow back hairier. but you just have to keep on shaving it, same as your legs.
it doesn't hurt & you can't even tell that you have shaved it when you do :]
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I've already started thinking about Christmas gifts instead of procrastinating and waiting until December to order/get them. Last year I did this and my gift to my boyfriend did not get here until a day or two AFTER Christmas..lol. My question is, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I have no idea what to get him. Last Christmas, I got him an Emerica (that's the brand; it is commonly worn by skaters) hoodie. This year, I'd like to get him something different. I'd prefer to buy something rather than make it. He skates and is very interested in videogames such as Halo and Tony Hawk's American Wasteland (this is all on the Xbox). Any ideas of what to get?
Thank you=) (link)
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he sounds exactly like my boyfriend except mine is 16.
maybe you could get a pretty good sized basket, and fill it full of skater t-shirts, movies, cds, etc.
anything that you think he would like, put it in the basket.
=] good luck
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i wanted to learn how to break dance since 4th grade. But my mom and teacher said no because its hard. So i didnt mention breakdancing that much for long time until 7th grade my uncle's nephew taught me how to do some simple moves. But he just visits like once a year. So i didnt learn it in 8th grade, i heard my friend's bf knows how to breakdance but he didnt want to teach me, he just said he cant breakdance. 9th grade, finally he taught how to do some simple stuff too, and my friend asked me and said" how come you wanna learn how to breakdance out of no where?" and im afraid that people will think im a poser. The question is am i poser for wanting to learn how to breakdance? (link)
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i don't think wanting to do something makes you a poser.
your friend just sort of sounds a bit jealous on the fact that she doesn't want to learn something as cool as breakdancing :]
i think its a neat idea to try & learn, and you should keep it up ;)
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i want to get shoes that look something like this: http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensAthletics&BLC=WomensAthleticsSneakers&Width=Regular&ItemCode=55278&LotNumber=050938&Type=Adult&Popularity=16&DescriptiveColor=Tan/Pink and under $35. in your opinion, do you think that thise are those cute to buy? any other suggestions? thanks! (link)
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actually i think those shoes are really cute.
& on that link, it says that they are only $19.99.
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I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.
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i promise girls don't care about it. it's natural.
but if its really bothering you, nair is probably the best thing to use.
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Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me? (link)
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i was very self-conscious before also. i used to never let my boyfriend see my boobs, (they are a 36A) but one day he really begged me & i made him promise that he wouldn't judge me because they were small, and he didn't. actually he even started to like small boobs after that. maybe yours will too?
shave your stomach dear. i do; actually most girls i know, do. yes, it will grow back darker, but thats why you keep shaving it :]
good luck.
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there is this guy who is so cute and he says that i am hot and he always smiles at me when we see each other, but i am not that attractive or very popular and i am the freak of my group also i am a ditz. can someone please tell me if he is just joking or if he actually likes me because i like him. (link)
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he could be serious, or he could be joking.
its kind of hard to tell with guys because they are flirty.
he must find you somewhat attractive or something, or you wouldn't be getting any attention from him at all.
get him alone & ask for the truth.
good luck :]
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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do? (link)
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i hate to be rude, although these sort of are characteristics of being a slut. maybe you should lay loose on having sex. i know it feels good, and at the time, its hard to say no. but you will feel so much better if you just stop having sex.
there is a thing called secondary virginity & you should really look into it, if you are worried about all this.
but admit it, if there was a girl in your school who had sex with 4 guys who weren't her boyfriends, you would call them a slut too.
i promise i am not trying to be mean at all, but i am just stating the truth.
good luck to you.
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my boyfriend & i have been together for 18 months [1 year & 6 months] now but we've only been having sex for 4 months. we lost our virginity to each other & i love him sooo much! (link)
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my boyfriend & i are the same way, we like to do different things also.
the only ones i can think of at the top of my head, are doggie style, which basically is him doing you from the back, and then cowgirl, which is you on top.
for some really amazing results, go to
http://www.wikipedia.com
& search sex positions; you'll never run out of ideas :]
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I'm always negative. I can not accept myself the way I am. I'm a 116-117lb girl who thinks they're fat. I think I'm ugly. No matter how many compliments I get, I always disagree. I worry about everything. I always think my boyfriend/mother is going to die in a car accident. I seriously can not control these thoughts. I REALLY want to not think this anymore. Is this a mental problem? I don't know what I should do; I can't really see a counsler, because I'd have a hard time explaining to my mother.
What can I do?
Thank you so much. (link)
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yes dear, this is a mental problem.
you are a pessimist, and you are paranoid.
the best thing to do is to talk to your school counselor, or someone who knows how to get you help without your mother finding out, unless you want her to.
i know how you feel though, because i too, am very doubtful & can never think of anything positive, it is a terrible feeling, and yet sometimes you just have to try & accept the fact that the things you are worried about, may or may not happen, but no matter what, you can't stop fate.
i'm sorry that you feel this way; just good luck.
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Well I get very jealous when it comes to my boyfriend and talking to other girls even if they are just friends. It would kill me to see him hug another girl, Although I'm a big flirt i hug guys all the time even infront of him but he claims to not care. I think I treat him unfairly and I've been pulling guilt trips lately...and thats how my mom is and i swore that i wouldn't act like her. I just wish I could change but i can't. I get angry easy and when I'm angry jealous or sad with my boyfriend...I ignore him and start acting mean. What should I do? I love him dearly. (link)
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i am this exact same way with my boyfriend, and the one thing i have noticed is that when i quit flirting around, he did too.
before you start to do something, ask yourself if you would get mad if he did the exact thing you are about to do, and if your answer is yes, then don't do it.
if he starts to notice your change, more than likely, he's going to change also.
good luck :]
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i am almost positive i have anorexia, as hard as that is for me to admit. i don't want to tell any of my friends or family, but i know i need help and i cant do it on my own. i went online and searched for help sites, or centers near me to help and i found nothing. the first step is to admit you have a problem, and i am doing that, but now i cant even get help. if you know of any web sites that will help me, sites to find a place near me, or can give me any other advice, i'd appreciate it. (link)
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i know you said you don't want to tell your parents or someone else, but please do. it'll help you out so much better in the long run.
if you are too embarrassed or scared to tell your parents, talk to the school psychiatrist(sp?) those tend to help a lot of kids at my school.
here are some great places to call/visit for more information;
National Eating Disorders Association
1-800-931-2237 8:30am – 4:30pm mon-fri.
http://www.gurl.com/findout/dwi/pages/0,,644678,00.html
http://www.coolnurse.com/eat_disorder.htm
please try & get help, this is a serious problem & if you remain untreated, it could possibly lead to death.
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Okay so im 16 and im kinda seeing this guy and we just started saying "i love you" to each other. He tells me he really means it and im the only one he says it too. But i was looking at some of the comments hes got and a girl commented him "really? i love you more" and i saw the comment he left her and it said "i love you so much" he told me they were just really good friends but they used to date. Now I dont know if he is lying to me and just making up an excuse about being really good friends or if he just said it. but i can't figure out why he would say something like that if he didn't mean it. Does anyone know what i can say to him about it? (link)
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guys are flirty, online & offline, no matter what. he was probably just telling her that he loved her as a friend, just like you probably tell guys also.
don't get too upset over this, just tell him how it made you feel & that you would prefer for him not to do this again.
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i met this guy through my friend "stacey" and he asked me how you doin' like joey on friends! and i was all like aww then the next day we tlaked in the hallway and then he gave me a note that say your hot and to call him and stuff. stacey is going out with his cousin. Stacey is sometiems known to strech or bend the truth and same with her best friend "robin" whichim really good friends with too. they are both telling me he jsut uses girls to sleep with them and he is a jerk and lies. he IS SO CUTE THOUGH and my otehr friend told me that i should tottaly go for it. i dont get guys very often, idk waht i should do! HELP! (link)
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don't listen to what everyone else is telling you, it doesn't matter. just go with what you think is best.
give him a try, and if he shows signs of cheating, using you, etc. just break up with him, or talk to him about it.
just don't ignore him because other people tell you that he's a cheater/user -
go for it dear. :]
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