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So I have issues...
Well I get very jealous when it comes to my boyfriend and talking to other girls even if they are just friends. It would kill me to see him hug another girl, Although I'm a big flirt i hug guys all the time even infront of him but he claims to not care. I think I treat him unfairly and I've been pulling guilt trips lately...and thats how my mom is and i swore that i wouldn't act like her. I just wish I could change but i can't. I get angry easy and when I'm angry jealous or sad with my boyfriend...I ignore him and start acting mean. What should I do? I love him dearly.
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i am this exact same way with my boyfriend, and the one thing i have noticed is that when i quit flirting around, he did too.
before you start to do something, ask yourself if you would get mad if he did the exact thing you are about to do, and if your answer is yes, then don't do it.
if he starts to notice your change, more than likely, he's going to change also.
good luck :]
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Hi,
I commend you for being honest about the way you treat your boyfriend.
Here's something to think about: Do you get very jealous because you're flirty yourself and perhaps you've been a naughty flirt in the past and have crossed boundaries and, therefore, get panicky in case your boyfriend will do the same?
A lot of flirts don't like their partners to flirt as they know what flirts get up to.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Also, consider making a pact that you'll both still talk to mates of the opposite sex but you won't hug them if you both feel that's going too far. That could be a friendly compromise.
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i know what you mean. when i'm angry at a guy i also ignore him without hating him so i cant help you with that. i quess you just have to control yourself and think before you do/say something.
and about that jealousy problem: think about it he likes YOU. you're the one who got him as a boyfriend so be happy. if he likes some other girl he would'nt be together with you so stop worring. and if it still bothers you that much talk to your boyfriend abou it. maby he'll understand and stops huging other girls.
i hope i helped
loads of luck =)
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to be honest im the EXACT same way! well the only thing you really can do is tell him how you feel you need to let him know that him hugging and talking to other girls really bothers you and its not that you dont trust him its that you just dont want anyone else to like him like you do. tell him that you dont mean to guilt trip him but you have been doing it forever and its hard to just stop but appologize ahead of time and tell him that you will try to stop and work on it. =] hope i helped
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