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SELF CONCIOUS
Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me?
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Dear U,
you should not feel so self-concious about your body. Remember guys like boobs they dont care wat size they r as long as they can enjoy it.So Relax if you have hair on your stomach you can wax it off but that can make the hair grow faster so do what you feel comfortable doing maybe he thinks those hairs are cute. U NEVER KNOW!
P.S:dont WORRY
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Uhmm...
I kinda had the same problem but not with boobs =D
Im fine there, but my legs I hate them very much and prefer to leave my trousers on during any sexual activity !
As weird as that sounds =D
If the guy truly loves you, it wont matter if your Paris - Hilton or Mike Tyson (Famous Boxer)
He should see past the looks and straight into your personality and if he doesnt,
Well you take lead and dump him!
Hope it helps ... <3
Love the Moo Cow ..Rawr (''|(^_^)|'')
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Don't worry about it. Just relax, and enjoy it. It you're really self-concious about the hair on your stomach, you can shave it or wax, but that gets a little annoying after a while.
Here's the thing. Guys like boobs. It doesn't matter what size they are. Embrace it, have fun, and be safe!
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wow, shave your stomach..and i have the smallest boobs in the universe..guys are pigs..they don't care..:)
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look i have little boobs two and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months 2 weeks and i just got fully naked for him last ntie and let him finally take my bra off after all that time, and it really isnt that bad, just for ur first time, do it in a dark room and take it off =)
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i was very self-conscious before also. i used to never let my boyfriend see my boobs, (they are a 36A) but one day he really begged me & i made him promise that he wouldn't judge me because they were small, and he didn't. actually he even started to like small boobs after that. maybe yours will too?
shave your stomach dear. i do; actually most girls i know, do. yes, it will grow back darker, but thats why you keep shaving it :]
good luck.
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i have the same exact problem.. but what i've noticed.. is guys don't care. when there into it, everything turns them on. they have flaws too that their probably really self consious about.. my boyfriend has no abs at all.. [honestly i hate it] but when we're having sex i couldnt care less, and i'd rather be doing it with his shirt off instead of on. i have the boob problem too. i actually do have an a cup.. which sucks.. because i feel like i look like a little kid. i learned to get over it. and my tummy is hairy too.. theres really not much we can do..
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it's normal to be self-consious about your body. almost all girls are whether they speak it aloud or not. seriously.
i know how you feel. when my boyfriend & i have sex, i feel paranoid/awkward also. he always seems to stare at my breasts which are a 32A, just so you know. they are super tiny, but i know he enjoys staring at them anyways. to guys, boobs are boobs. my boyfriend even told me he doesn't like big boobs, and though he's admitted they are small; he told me he loves them anyways & that they suit my body type.
as for the stomache hair, all girls have it. some are just lucky enough to get blonde hairs [like me]. if this really bothers you, you can buy a special body bleach kit. it sounds painful and a little bit unorthodox, but it's actually very popular. people use it for their backs/mustaches/stomache/toes/et cetera. or you could do as i do, and just shave it. it's really up to you.
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ok it's normal my boobes look big when my bra is on and then when i take it off they look small. and they really look small when your laying down cuz gravity sucks pretty much. but you shouldn't worry about it. i'm pretty sure if your haveing sex with a good guy he wouldn't care.
as for the hair. i have a "happy trail" and i shave mine, they say it will grow back faster and thicker but mine really doesn't i pretty much shave it once a week or when i notice it coming back.
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for the hair the only thing i can say is that if bothers so much your just going to have to get used to shaving. or you could always get waxed.
now let me say, as a guy i know that when it comes to boobs theres only two thing a guy really cares about. nipples and access.
personally i prefer girls with smaller chests anyways. ^_-
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If the guy wants to have sex with you, that means that he loves you. He (and you) should not care about what you look like on the outside, and care about what is on the inside. Everyone is different, and you should not be ashamed to show that.
And about the hair on the stomach, its natural. If you hate it, wax it or shave it. if you do not want to do that, then just wear one piece bathing suits and wear longer shirts, no one will know.
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Don't worry about it. I have the same hair problem.. just shave it. Sounds bad.. but to be honest, it doesn't grow back as fast as you would think.
As for the boobs, i'm the same way. My bra size is a D.. but my boobs seriously look like a B outside my bra. No worries. The guy will be way to preoccupied to notice the difference. As long as you have a little something there and don't stuff.. your fine. Its not a big deal at all.
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aw dont worry about your boob size
the guy likes you enough to be having sex with you,so it shouldnt matter.And about you being italian theres things like laser hair removal and waxing .
hope ive helped
ALEX.!
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