schlichtinator answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 8:28 pm: It's up to her. When it gets to the point where you're about to ejaculate, discreetly but explicitly let her know. Basically, it's her decision what she does with it. That is to say, if she does swallow or perhaps does something more extreme, you can let her know that she does not have to do that for you. [ schlichtinator's advice column | Ask schlichtinator A Question ]
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