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Q: Does anyone know a really good song for a wedding song from the bride to a father figure??

Thanks
I like this song :

Peter Cetera - Daddys girl
Scorpions - Daddys girl
Quorthon - Daddy's Girl
haha whoa thats alot of daddys girls lol uhm but the BEST in my opinion which is heard at alot of weddings,i even what this song for me and my dad to dance too at my wedding,its called Daddy by Red Sovine

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Q: My principal caught me and my boyfriend having sex in the elevator after a feild trip. and now the whole school know's about it what should i do? and my boyfriend wants to do it again. but we are using safe sex.....
Ehh having sex in an elevator in school = not a great idea AT ALL.You have a great chance of getting caught and plus you know obviously people are gonna know about it.Having sex in an elevator is exciting but you shoudl really be more careful.If you really want to do it again do it in an elevator where you dont know many people in the building and you cant get into a load of trouble if you get caught.As for what to do now because everyone knows you and your boyfriend had sex in the elevator ? well hun theres really not much you can do now it was a huge mistake you and your boyfriend made and you paid the price for taking the risk.So bottom line dont do it anymore in school,and if you really must do it again in an elevator just do it in some buliding where you hardly no anyone.


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Q: One of my favorite TV shows is Daria. I can't seem to find other shows that are similar to it. Does anyone know of any?

I should also add that I detest shows like Family Guy, The Simpsons, South Park, et cetera.
Omg i LOVED that show too too bad its not on anymore.Theres this show on "the-n" which is like channel 131 but its only if you have like digital cable its called "O'Grady" its kind of like the show daria in a way.I dont know if its on anymore it used to be on abcfamily but braceface was kinda like it too.You coudl also watch beavus and butthead ? lol but id say the best choice is "O'Grady".Also,you should try looking up who the director,producer,or write of daria and see what tv shows their doing now because usually all liek the tv shows they do is similar to each other.

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Q: i want some flirting tips that turns a guy on

also what are some clues to know if a guy likes u (besides that they talk to you)
Well this is from what ive heard and experienced :

1.Rubbing the guys leg or thigh,whispering in their ear,talking dirty to them,a girl with a good brain whos easy to talk too,can make a guy laugh,lean over the guy to get something,sitting on his lap,touching his armholding their hand,give a quick kiss on the cheek but of course all guys have different styles they like in girls and have different things that turn them on,but this is just from what my guy friends and what guys have told me.

2.They usually make fun of you,take your stuff,purposely touch you.Also try these websites: http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you

http://www.dreambachelor.com/relationship_advice/aa_howknow_bachelor.cfm


hope that helps you out!


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Q: What is it when someone is prude?
Well,it usually means that a person is too scared to do something sexual with a guy or girl.It could also mean a guy or girl is still "prude" meaning they havent kissed anyone yet.

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Q: What's an orgasm?
What Ryan said was good place to go.You can also try going on google and type in "define:orgasm" and your answers right there,it also gives you different kinds and examples of orgasms.

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Q: we have a question in science class i'm not sure how to answer. does sperm live in toilet water er any liquid?? i heard since the circumstances have to be very specific, if it's in the air & then stays in water for even a few seconds er minutes, it does not live & cannot be active. is that true??

thanks!!
Yes,thats true at least from what ive heard.Once sperm hits the air even in a liquid it becomes dead in about 5 seconds.

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Q: I usually only wear 2 piece swim suits but I need a one piece for this party I'm going to. It's a girls only night before we graduate and the girl throwing the party wants everyone to wear a one piece.


Anyways, on to my question. With my bikinis and stuff, I wear an XS or a S in the bottoms depending on the brand/store (I'm a size 1 pants). And for my tops I need a M (I'm a C cup). I was wondering how one pieces work when it comes to girls wearing a different size for the top and bottom?
Id have to agree with the last person it really depends on the cut and style of certain bathing suits,you would have to go and try a couple different bathing suits on in the dressing room.If you go to kohls the brand called candies are good bathing suits to try so are baltex,robby len,apt.9 and speedos.Speedos i think is the more comfortable bathing suit,its just the styles are kinda well not that young looking i guess you could say but they usually fit most body types.Candies on the other hand has some young cute looking bathing suits,i would look for bathing suits at kohls its the best place to go in my opinion.Have Fun At The Party!


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Q: my nipples have been hurting a lot lately. they sting really bad, even when im just like watching tv. im 14 female and havent gotten my period yet. is it a sign im getting my period soon?
Well thats one of the signs that your getting your period so yes thats a possiblity.It could also be that your breasts are just starting to develop too because they usually hurt in the beginning of the process.Go to this website if you have any of the other symptoms they talk about and if you do well then hun you might be on your way to becoming a woman.Talk to your mom about this and let her check out your breast and see if everything is going okay. http://www.healthopedia.com/menstruation/symptoms.html

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Q: Does anyone know a website where i can get rainbow flip flops for less? not ebay or overstock.com i tried those. for example, i get my ugg stuff at www.fleecefootwear.com its a place where uggs are really cheap. does anyone know?? thankss!!
I remember at aeropastle i saw rainbow flip flops their but they were i think about $14 but i havent been there for about a month so you might want you check their again.In Sears i saw some too.My friend got kinda rainbow ones and i think hot topic ? or i guess Spencers Gifts ? i dunno one of those stores lol OH! you know payless had them too for 12 bucks im pretty sure so you should try their also or the dollar store might have some.If you live near the beach they have shops filled with every kind of sandal you can imagine! I hope i could help!

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Oh,uhmm well i think i know what your talking about now,im pretty sure i saw some at target and kohls.

Q: where can i find a list on new songs that just came out? i want to get some for my ipod but i cant think of any and i hate listening to the radio.
Aww mann you gotta listen to the radio! haha i listen to it all the time,and the songs that are new and i hear all the time on the radio stations are:

Saying Sorry by Hawthorne Heights
Gimme That by Chris Brown
Unfaithful by Rihanna
Girl Next Door by Saving Jane
Beautiful Love by the afters
Over My Head (Cable Car) by The Fray
Bad Day by Daniel Powter
Ridin Dirty by Chamillionaire
Let U Go by Ashley Parker Angel
When Your Mad by Ne-Yo
Miss New Booty by Bubba Sparxxx
What You Know by T.I
Single by Natasha Bedingfield
Lean Wit It,Rock Wit It by Dem Franchize Boyz
I Write Sins Not Tragedies by PANIC! at the disco

Thats all i can think of right now,try going on your local radio stations website too to find out some more good songs that are out now are are tons believe me.

♥ danielle

Q: im 15/f and me and my best guy friend went to a party n both got a little drunk among other things. anyway we ended up having sex and since then i've found out im pregnant and i know its his and i told him about it. hes basically demanding i keep it but see i dont want to b/c its going to destroy my body, reputation,i know i wont be able to keep my gpa above a 4.0, and my mom will kill me. so should i just go behind his back or what?
Talk to your parents about this even though it probably will get them angry and upset,explain to them what had happened and see their point of view on the subject and what you should do abotu the baby.I personally agree with abortion but i think its right only in certain situations.Since its your baby i would do what you think is right for you,of course the fathers opinions a factor in this too this is a really hard and potentially life changing decision and you should think long and hard about it.You basically only have 3 choices abortion,adoption,and then actually keeping the child.I wont keep the baby if you cant handle it and cant finacially support the baby.I think putting the baby up for adoption is better then abortion.Read up information about each of your options and think which ones is best for you and of course what your parents,the father and his paretns think too.Good Luck Hun!

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Q: After you end your period when you're around 50ish, what happens next? Is there a new kind of period? Or does something else happen? Or do you just go back to being a kid again like with no more things that come 1nce a month?
lol well i thought these sites could help you out with this subject :

http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/biology/b103/f02/web1/ddimuro.html


http://www.pamf.org/health/healthinfo/index.cfm?page=article&seq_id=6&sgml_id=hw228763

You dont get a "new period" your done with having your period which is pretty good i think you dont have to worry about cramps and wearing tampons or pads anymore,but you do have you start worrying about your joints and bones more since your going through menopuase.

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Q: hi i am rohit. i have been doing masturbation since 4 years. tell me what are the ill effects of doing this? should i stop doing this? what are the advantages of this too?
youll go blind,wont be able to have sex....haha im just messin theres NO ILL EFFECTS because of masturbation trust me.You dont need to stop doing it at all its actually very healthy for you,but i would suggest stopping for a little bit if you do it TOO much for example,if you did it for say 2 times an hour or once a an hour a day you know ? thats just a little too much.As for the advanatages go,its good for when your ready to have sex because you know what feels good to you already and so you can tell your partner what to do and how to do it because you already know what feels good to you same thing with if a guy/girl was giving you oral sex.It will help you get off faster.

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Q: My Mom read my journal/diary and found that i had had sex before, (not anymore) and she went ballistic. She is now taking me to a gyno tomorrow, and i really dont want to go, (besides, im not haveING sex, I had it once before) and shes putting me on birth control. I was wondering , does she have any right to force me to do these things? She cant force me to go to the gyno, and she cant force me to have birth control right? (Birth control being a shot of hormones) I dont want these things to happen.. Do i have a say in what happens to me? 14 yrs old and obviously female if that helps.
Wow its great that your mom is like that and just would let you go and pretend like she never saw your diary.I think its a very good idea even though your mom forced you into it.You already have birth control and your prepared to when the next time youll have sex even if its a few years from now.I just read that its the shots kind of birth control,i would just talk to your mom about this and say youve only done it one time and that you wont have sex for awhile and if if you do start to have sex again that youll tell her and she can get your birth control pills instead of the shot if it really bother you that much.Its a good thing for your mom to take you to the gyno to see if anything went wrong or if you have any dieases down there.Your lucky to have a mom who is there for you and watches out for you.

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Q: Does eyeliner run when you swim in the ocean or the pool? If so, is there waterproof mascara??
Yes it does,i wouldnt recommend wearing makeup to the ocean or pool ive done it plenty of time and ive learned from it.Yes there is waterproff mascara i would suggested maybellines kind or that one with the pink tube and the green cap im sorry i forget what its called but you would know what im talking about if youve looked in a makeup aisle,they both work amazingly well.

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Q: i'm female 14 years old...well you will think this is normal and everything but i still feel weird:

yesterday it was about 11:30 at night and i was still awake listening to some radio then i became thirsty and i wanted to go downs stairs to get something to drink and then on my way downstairs i heard me parents having sex.... it was soo weird my mom was like making this really weird sounds and i heard how my dad kissed my mom and i dont know i was just standing there listening i couldnt move... but yeah then when i couldnt hear anything i went back to my room... and then my little sister (she's only 11 years old) also heard it cause her room is right next to my parents bedroom and she came into my room and she was really nervous and scared! and so am i and i dont know i just have a weird feeling about all this...what should i do?? its just freaking me out!!! and my sister also totally dosnt get it and she said she cant trust our parents or something :-/

any advice???

i'll rate
AHH thank god theres someone out there who has witnessed it,i was going to ask this kinda question when i first came here because i was just to weirded out.It happens to all of us i guess,it happened to me when i was sick around the age of 10 andi was up late and i guess i woke up both of my parents and they just "did it" i rushed back to bed and cried i dont know why hten i didnt talk to them for a day i was just too grossed out but im just pretty much used to it by now but it still gives me the creeps.If your parents are really shy and quiet people who dont usually talk about personal things with you,i wouldnt talk to them about it because my parents were like that and they didnt really answer my questions and kinda brushed it off like i never said anything,then i would just talk to your sister about it about the whole "sex thing" and say moms and dads all do this and that its normal us kids just dont think of our parents in that way as "wanting sex" and that one day well understand when were married,i think thats the best way to handle it.If your parents are open minded people and talk and are very open with you then i would talk to one of your parents about it (personally i would pick your mom,but which ever parent your most comfortable with is fine too) and talk to them about it and say that you think they should talk to your sister about it because shes worried and scared im sure your mom will understand and will be glad that you told her.

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Q: Ok i play basketball and i like to get pimped up before i play so i listen to music. So any "pumping" up music? it can be anything rap, rock, punk?
Easy 5's
I thought these websites could help:

http://support.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=pbgt&action=display&thread=1145493797

http://skateboard.about.com/od/skateboardinglifestyle/tp/TopSkateMusic.htm

http://boards.self.com/message.jspa?messageID=273146


I hope those could help you out.

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Q: Is losing your virginity on prom night the worst thing ever??

cause me and my boyfriend are staying in a hotel with his bro and my best friend... but with 2 rooms?

Im a good virgin but i love my boyfriend... and i dunno if im ready...
Errr this is kinda a tough call.If you honestly think your not ready DONT do it,youll most likely regret it in the long run.Having sex is a big decision you dont want to lose your virginity to just anyone.If you feel its the right time then go for it.If youve been with him for 3 plus years,then i think its okay for you guys to have sex but i mean if youve only been together for a couple months its not a good idea,especially if the guy has a reputation with what he does with girls.Dont let your boyfriend pressure you into doing something you dont want to do either,if your really not ready tell him.If you do do it,talk to each other about it like if you get pregnant what are oyu going to do,are you going to go on the pill or use a condom not use a condom you know that kind of stuff,the important stuff.I wouldnt recommend doing it on prom night i dont think its really THAT special and usually well the people at my school who do it are the sleezballs and the sluts so its not kinda ehhh that great i guess you could say since everyone seems to do it that night.If you dont want to have sex,you can have oral sex which is still sex but much safer or you know just makeout.If you do just have oral sex make sure you or him wear a condom okay?But honestly its how YOU feel and what YOU think is right,all we can do is give you the facts and our opinions.Have Fun At Your Prom! it should be really fun!

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Q: I've got a choir audition on Saturday. I'm in for sure, it's just a matter of which choir I'm in.

Any audition tips other than to be confident?
Aw good luck! i made my choir at my school im very proud of that : ]

Ill tell you what i did,I just looked straight ahead didnt even think of a teacher being there and just sang my heart out haha you should practice at home with the notes and if you know what song your singing,practice singing it.Move a little bit in your audition like dont just stand there like a stick move your arms a bit like get into the song but dont be too over dramatic you know? Give expressions on your face while your singing too,teachers love that.And just be yourself,if you emss up on a note try again ; ] once again,GOOD LUCK! : ]


♥ danielle

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