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weird parents...
i'm female 14 years old...well you will think this is normal and everything but i still feel weird:
yesterday it was about 11:30 at night and i was still awake listening to some radio then i became thirsty and i wanted to go downs stairs to get something to drink and then on my way downstairs i heard me parents having sex.... it was soo weird my mom was like making this really weird sounds and i heard how my dad kissed my mom and i dont know i was just standing there listening i couldnt move... but yeah then when i couldnt hear anything i went back to my room... and then my little sister (she's only 11 years old) also heard it cause her room is right next to my parents bedroom and she came into my room and she was really nervous and scared! and so am i and i dont know i just have a weird feeling about all this...what should i do?? its just freaking me out!!! and my sister also totally dosnt get it and she said she cant trust our parents or something :-/
any advice???
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Talk to your mom about it.
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A lot of people would be freaked out if they heard this, so I really do understand how embarrassing and weird it must have been.
However, instead of thinking about how creepy it was, try to bear in mind that it is a sign that your parents have a healthy relationship. With so many married couples getting divorced these days, it should be a reassurance that they are close as a couple, as well as parents.
At the same time, there's not really another way to handle what has happened without some embarrassement. You can simply try to avoid going out of your room after 11:30 at night or you can try to talk to your Mum about it (along the lines of "We heard you and Dad together the other night and....it kind of creeped me and my sister out.")and see if next time they want to do that they can just keep it down.
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well i really am not sure about what you should tell your sister, tell your mom im sure she will be the more understanding, but this is my advice to you.....your parents are human!! and they had to do that to get you ....think of it this way at least they are not fighting and about to brake up!! just keep in your head that they love eachother and they were just showing there love! haha i know its weird but it could be worse...way worse
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Your parents are human too you know and have urges just like everyone else. It's not like they meant for you to hear them and it probably happens a lot without you even knowing about it, you should take it as a good thing since it shows they're still very much in love and attracted to each other. Besides...how do you think you and I and everyone all started out?
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AHH thank god theres someone out there who has witnessed it,i was going to ask this kinda question when i first came here because i was just to weirded out.It happens to all of us i guess,it happened to me when i was sick around the age of 10 andi was up late and i guess i woke up both of my parents and they just "did it" i rushed back to bed and cried i dont know why hten i didnt talk to them for a day i was just too grossed out but im just pretty much used to it by now but it still gives me the creeps.If your parents are really shy and quiet people who dont usually talk about personal things with you,i wouldnt talk to them about it because my parents were like that and they didnt really answer my questions and kinda brushed it off like i never said anything,then i would just talk to your sister about it about the whole "sex thing" and say moms and dads all do this and that its normal us kids just dont think of our parents in that way as "wanting sex" and that one day well understand when were married,i think thats the best way to handle it.If your parents are open minded people and talk and are very open with you then i would talk to one of your parents about it (personally i would pick your mom,but which ever parent your most comfortable with is fine too) and talk to them about it and say that you think they should talk to your sister about it because shes worried and scared im sure your mom will understand and will be glad that you told her.
♥ danielle
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Dear I Feel Weird,
Sure, I can believe that you're feeling out of sorts after hearing your parents having sex. I'd say that is pretty normal. It seems really creepy because you and your sister don't relate to your parents as sexual beings. Your parents, however, do relate to each other (from time to time) in this manner, and yes, sex is part of a healthy marriage. Some day you will better understand the role sex has in a loving relationship. When this time comes, it won't seem so strange.
If their encounter continues to bother your little sister, perhaps you need to say something to one of your parents. I know approaching either parent might be uncomfortable for you, but I'm sure your parents would rather that you do than to say nothing with little sister still "nervous and scared."
Ask your friends if they've ever had this happen, and I'll bet at least one of them has. At least you'll know you're not alone with what you've experienced and how you're feeling about it.
I wish you well.
Take Care,
Earth Mother
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Tell your parents about your sister. You really don't want your sister to think that. Isn't she supposed to know about sex...some age around there? I thought parents told?
If you don't want to.. then just act like you've never heard it or anything. Because they probably don't know you heard so act like what they think.
Don't be awkward around them or they will notice..
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Trust me: it's normal. I felt the same way when I happened to walk in on my parents. (I was probably about 11). Trust your parents, I mean, come on! They're married! I know it sounds wierd, and in a way it may be, (I mean, ever since then I've beeen grossed out in that way) but again, they're married, and they have that privilege. When you're married, eventually you will have sex with your mate, so just let it be. (Try to occupy your time well if it bothers you that much)
Take care and good luck
♥
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You're having a normal reaction, of course it's gross, they're your parents! You never see this "wild" side of your parents and it scares you a little bit, and that is completely normal. As I'm sure you know, your parents have done this before :) and it is nothing to worry about, because they are a married couple, doing it with eachother, and there is nothing wrong with that. You just walked in on a very peculiar moment and it freaks you a little bit, which is normal. There is nothing to be worried about here, you're just embarrassed.
Dont worry
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