My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?! (link)
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yes.
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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
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it doesnt mean anything.It happens to every1
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hey yall i met this guy and i really like him but i don't think he like me.
i think the reason is that i am kinda chubby. but i really like him and he is sweet and we have a lot of things in common.please tell me what to do. (link)
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express ur feelings to hIm.Try to Lose sum wieght if u think thas wut is wrong.Hope I could help! :-D
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how do u kno if ur clothes r out of style (link)
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If alotta ppl arent wearing that style nemore..mostly wen ppl get new styles that means that tha style and is goin out.
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have u had ur period yet? (link)
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yah for lyk 2 years
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Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship? (link)
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Tell him that you cant return the same feelings. That you think its better off for you guys to be friends and u dont wanna hurt his feelings but u think its the best.
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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if you like him go for it. "nerds" are now like millionares. Dont care what other ppl think.
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i want to get something for my boyfriend who i have been going out with for 2 years on june 26th, 2004. i feel like gettin him something or making him something just because ... anyone have any ideas ? (link)
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depending on if he wears gold or silver a lot, you should get him a gold or sterling silver (or white gold...if you can afford it) bracelet with his name or suthing ingraved in it. write something cute like i love you or w/e.
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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.
I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.
While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.
For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.
So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.) (link)
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umm it doesnt matter if you tell him or not...you two were broken up...he shouldnt care. he probably did it too!!!
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Ok i need help. theres this guy i like named zack. Ive known him for about 3 years and we've both liked eachother in the past and everything. hes 16 and im 14(female). Well this time we both have been hanging out, talking more and im really liking him. But for some reason i have this weird feeling that its just a summer type thing, because all year we barely talk(even tho we go to the same school i barely see him) then it seems like everytime summers commin up hes all talkin to me liking me and stuff.. I wanna ask him myself (my best friend offered to but i want to do it myself) i just need help on what i should say and if i should! please help.. (link)
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umm...i think it is just a summer thing...i speak from experience. but if ya wanna ask him, go for it! dont beat around the bush tho...come right out and ask.
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I apologize if this ends up being really long, but I thought I'd ask.
I've been friends with this girl, we'll call her Sabrina, since the 8th grade. We grew to be really close really fast and ended up going to the same high school. That's kind of a big deal since we live in Chicago and most kids separate after grade school.
Anyway, we remained best friends up until I had a tough time in early 2003 and ended up dropping out of school. We lost contact up until a couple of months ago. The fact that we didn't keep in touch is pretty much my fault. I apologized for it, she appears to have forgiven me and we started hanging out again.
Sabrina is 18 now and recently moved in with her boyfriend because she was unhappy living with her mom. Only, now that she lives with her boyfriend, he wants to maintain complete control of her life, including who she hangs out with.
He told her she wasn't allowed to hang out with me anymore and she's actually obliging him.
I don't know if I should just deal with it and talk to her whenever I can, or if I should just let her know we shouldn't be friends at all anymore or what! I'm pretty hurt. Any advice would be appreciated and I will rate everyone who responds. Thanks. (link)
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it sounds to me that her boyfriend is gonna be one of those contolling types. id keep a close eye on him, he also sounds like the abusing type. and the title for your question ("is she really a friend?") well, i dont think its her fault that she cant talk to you so...
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ive never kissed a guy before and all my friends have, im scared people will call me frigid and fall out with me.
has any one got any tips 4 me?? (link)
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oh geez...just do it. its not that big of a deal. DONT BE PRUDE!!!
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all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.
has any1 got any advice for me??? (link)
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dont be scared...have fun while you can. DONT BE PRUDE!!!!!!!!
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I want to start wearing eye-liner and I don't know exactly where on my eye I put it - and what are the good brands. Pencil/Liquid? I'll rate you! (link)
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Pencil! (covergirl expert eyes) all you do is you put it on top of your bottom eyelid and you can also do it on the top too.
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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care? (link)
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you'll find sum1 that still a virgin. dont dwell on it.
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okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!
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he prolly doesnt remember u or he doesnt understand english or number 3 doesnt care! THank you for playin tha price is right a u lose!
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MY ankles are sorta big and have muscle around them i guess cause they can be skinnier...and then it just keeps getting bigger and then my calves are HUGE..and i hate it, any advice? lol all i want is a thinner lower leg i guess. (link)
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sounds like u gotta bad case of "the kankles!"
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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ok. not to be mean.but since he all of a sudden stop askin about it it sounds like he cheated on u.cuz guys onli stop askin for sex when they get it from u or sum1 else. Believe me i would kno it happened to me b4. Later Chico
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my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her? (link)
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tell her to snap the fuck out of it and dont ruin her life by doing that shit. shes probably jsut trying to draw attention to herself. Hope i could help! :-D
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How do you make a link of your advice column and put it on an instant message to a friend? (link)
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see the heart at tha top of tha page click on it and go and click on Insert in instant message. :-D
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