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i like this guy named Matt. He is a year older than me and lives down the road. I really like him but he is one of my best friends ex's. I talk to him on the bus but i don't know how to tell if he likes me. I'm scared to tell anyone that i like him cause i'm scared of how they well react. Should i go for it and tell him how i feel or what? AND How will this effect my best friend?
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Ashley
o man, this isnt good hehe. well huni, first off the whole 'dating my friends ex' idea isnt good. might start problems between your friend and you, and it just might make you look bad, i suggest you dont go for it. but hey, who am i to judge you?> therefooooooore hehe tell him how you feel. the worst thing that can happen is him being a jerk and bragging about him rejecting you. hopefully he's not one of those guys. if he is known to be 1, dont say anyth, keep ur friendship safe with your friend, and move on. hope i helped and good luck
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is it safe if a guy cums in you, but he's wearing a condom? will you get pregnant? if it doesn't break nor leak, would you still get pregnant?
its a good thing to know your asking this to be sure. the chances of you getting pregnant arent that big if hes wearing a condom but remember its not 100%safe so its not a guarantee. this site explains better http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/contraception/contraception_condom.html
hope i helped
Belkis =]
Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D
lol this is cute. age IS nothing but a number. forget about what people think b/c some just envy you and want to be superior. others just follow the leader (society). so think about what you want. from what i see, he seems to have caught your eye pretty well so give it a shot! but just make sure he's what you want and not just acting it. good luck
Belkis =]
16/f. parents aren't divorced..
so, I'm a sophomore in school. generally, i'm a good student and i have honors/ap classes and am part of clubs and activities.
lately, my mom's been really quarrelsome. she'll panic over the tiniest things and always blame them on me.
today we had a fight. i don't know what i want to be in life yet, but i do have an idea. my mom's been PRESSURING me SO much to find out. i told her i didnt know. she started yelling at me that i'll never succeed, what kind of life am i going to live, i'm an egomaniac and a little bitch who's a coward and has no friends and that chatting on the internet is more important to me. she just EXPLODED on me. now she's not talking to me and she said "next time you need something, dont even bother coming to me. im not your mother anymore." she just randomly talks about little problems with me that have nothing to do with what we're talking about but are clearly my weaknesses.
and i told her that i have 3 years to choose what i want to be, but she began comparing me to other smart and more mature girls.
why is this? =\
ur mom is suffering from what my mom is suffering from:::breakdowns from stress and whatnot. my mother acts the same and says things so0 hurtful but to be honest it hurts. and although it hurts trust me deeep down she jut wants wats best for you. shes showin it in the worst way but all mothers want is love and affection back from you too. good luck
belkis =]
this one girl at my school is horrible. she harrases other girls and she broke onto my screen name some how and pretended she was me. the police have been to her house once when she was in 5th grade but she always gets out of things and blames other people. everyone, even boys, are scared of her. how can I stop this girl?
*thanks*
theres nothing to do ironically. we dont want no fights so0 just let her be. of course if she starts bothering you physically sumtin's gunna have to get done. defend ur self most definatly
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months. This last month has been really rocky, because we've just been arguing on a daily basis.
The 23rd was his ex girlfriend's birthday and that day he kept saying, "You know I'm going to call her and wish her a happy birthday." They never talk, ever. She was so rude to me when we first started dating, she'd always message me saying stupid things, and at one point, she had his little sister completely HATING me.
So, yesterday I had brought it up and I said I knew he had called her because she had told his little sister over Myspace. He kept denying it, and then today I get on his myspace and there's a message that says, "I know it's you who called me, and I wanted to let you know it made me feel really great." I hate this girl. I really do.
I'm so pissed at him. I really feel like this is making me want to end the relationship. Am I blowing this out of porportion?
in a way you are kinda making it seem like a bigger dal than it is. if you trust your boyfriend and he truly loves you, he wont cheat. yes, girls can try to tempt him but if he does love u and care he wouldnt try anything. dont end the relationship, b/c it might be a big mistake. talk to him bout how u feel first. let him know and be open with him. hope it helps
Belkis =]
16/f...my boyfriend's 15/m (almost 16 though) i'm kinda awkward around my bf. i mean i REALLY like him, and he REALLY likes me. but he's my first and i'm not HIS first..
so i dunno what to do around him and i'm afraid i'll do something stupid and make a fool of myself. i'm afraid he won't like me anymore. like, when we were about to kiss, i freaked out, and we just pop kissed instead. he knows he's my first boyfriend and he's taking things slowly. but i dont want them to be TOO slow. i'm not usually like this around my friends. i'm just really scared that he's staring at my imperfections or something or that he thinks badly of me. and when we're going to kiss next time...but for REAL, i don't know whats going to happen...ahhh..
any experienced people...lol what do i do?
well, if you guys have been going out for more than three months i feel you either way lol. we all have imperfections, emotionally or physically and even mentally. if you think your boyfriend is picking out your flaws then that means youre insecure. nothing buig, but it can affect the relationship. jus relax and let him know how much you like him or love him. if he really likes you he will put your "imperfections" aside and he will care for you as if you were the only beautiful girl in the world. looks shouldnt count, and he has flaws as well. u might have not noticed because you like him as well he probably feels the same. good luck love and i hope your relationship progresses for the better ^_^ im trying to make mines progress as well hehe
Belkis =)
There is this kid that i am with and i like him but my parents dont let me date so ive been hiding it. im 15 and im a sophmore and i feel like they just dont understand how it is these days to date...what do i do and how could i ever tell them so that theyd understand?
i agree with babykiwi. parents may be frustrating and controlling but its only because they wanna control you down the right path lol. what i would suggest is to talk to either parent and let them know you understand thier concerned for your well being but theres tis guy you know and that you want to bring him over to the house...your parents can get to know him and so on. jus make sure he acts decently and can get on thier good side lol. good luck love =)
Belkis
Well , lets just say i let my jelousy take complete control over myself . Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now [ in a bout a month anna half we will be ] . But i am still just as jelous and insecure as i was just starting to get in the relationship . I seriously don't know why i am , he has not done anything to make me feel like i shouldn't trust him , or be mad when he talks to girls , but i just am ! i hate when he talks to other girls but then i again he doesnt like [ certain ] boys but he has a reason as so do i . But i just need help because im scared if i havent gotten over it in a year where the hell is it going to stop ? We can never go through one day with out me bringing up past things or getting mad about something , but he's the laid back one . Any help please ?
wow hun its ironic because i have this same problem. first off let me tell you, this isnt abnormal. EVERYONE is jelous whethers its in a relationship, or anything else. secondly, this is something you work on, step by step because i understand u must love him alot you wouldnt want anything or anyone to take his love away from you, which is why you are jelous of him hanging with other girs and whatnot. have you talked to him about this? well if you have i suggest you let him know he should help you. hopefully u guys spend much time together on the phone or face to face. its not fair to control his life, put yourself in his shoes. what would you do if he was the jelous one and how would you react? ask your self these Q's and answer them. that might open your eyes. hope i helped good luck =)
Belkis =)
im 14/f
yes.im afraid of breaking up with my bf. i mean, i have all this support from my friends but im more concerned about his feelings.i have perfect reasons for wanting to break up with him, but at the same time i dont. and when i do i dont kno if i shold call him or message him, or what.im scared hes gonna get sad and ill be the bad guy. what should i do
i advise you to break up with him. i had this problem. you never know he might be thinking the same thing you are. just talk to him over the phone or in person. no matter how nervous you are. good luck ma.
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ok.. this is going to sound really stupid but i'm deadly serious. i'm 15 and i've never actually got in with a girl. I really need advice because if i like somone and want to kiss them, doing it wrong will probally screw up my chances with them. I'm not ugly and i'm not weird, i've just never actually kissed a girl :/
advice would be really appreciated.
thanks!
aww. well first check for a girl that is worth your time. however you like them. hopefully she will take you for who you are. whever that moment comes of kissing, just go for it and when she kisses you back, just follow the lead. like dancing. good luck pa
okay...so im 15 about to be 16...an ex boyfriend has already eaten me out..and it felt sooo good..but i have been with my recent boyfriend for 4 months now and we are starting to get serious...he started to finger me the other day...he was only using like 2 fingers, and it hurt. so he tried only one and it still kinda hurt. is that normal? should i do something to help it?
yep yep yep itz very normal. i dont know if you think pain is good, lol, but just tell him to be more gentle with you. maybe he'll understand. good luck!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months today. this weekend we are going to his cousins house and there will be no adults. i am a virgin but i think i am ready for sex. how do i know if i am or not? do i know at all? should i do it?
well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now, just like your relationship. if you think he is respectful, will stick by your side, and ur not doubting anything, then i say go ahead. but please dont do anything if he forces you or is pressuring you. because i honestly think being a virgin is good. dont be ashamed and if u think this is the right guy, please think it thru ok ma? good luck!
Hello,i'm a 14 yr old girl.Well, i recently broke uop with my ex boyfriend because his feelings has changed for me, i know this because he spoke to me less, never write back to me or anything. So i knew what to do and i let him go. So anyway as i was saying, i can't seem to get over him. He's my first bf, and i'm in Jr high while he just went to high skewl. So i dont know what to do. It seems that i think about him more and more. I have told him that but as i said he never responds. So i have no clue what he thinks. I asked his brother and his brother doesn't know anyting because the new Zelda game came out and my ex won't talk to no one becuz he's so hooked on the game. So please help me. you can also e~Mail me @
little_zelda05@yahoo.com
Thank you.
honestly...i think this boy wasnt ready for a relationship...maybe he was too scared or just not mature enough. some guys can be 13 and be ready to truly fall in love...while others can be 20 and stil not be ready...but thats not always the case.i Think you should move one. i know he was ur first bf but there are plenty of other guys out there. ok? good luck ma
how do i say goobye to some one i love more than any one in the world with out hurtng him or me? because i have to do thi but i dont no how help me
elcee is right. it doesnt matter how nice or how mean you say it, itz going to hurt both of you guys if you love eachother....what can i tell u? ma im sorry
Okay so, I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never made out. Lots of boys like me, but for some reason I can't bring myself to go out with them, even if I like them back. It feels like I'm scared, I just don't know why! I'm also nervouse 'cause I've never made out before, and EVERYONE thinks I have..so maybe that's SOME of it, but it can't be ALL of it. Also, when I like a boy, I'll talk to them and then they'll end up liking me..then all of a sudden when we're close to going out I don't like them anymore! I don't get what's wrong with me! I've hurt some boys because of it, and I hate it. I hate that I can't have a boyfriend 'cause I'm so weird about all this stuff. What's wrong?! How do I fix this? I'm so frustraited and nervous about this. It makes me upset. Please help! Any advice at ALL will help!
girl, honestly i go through the same thing. as well as you, i had never had a boyfriend but now i do. itz okay to be nervous, everyone starts out a relationship like that. try being with a guy u really like and trust me, you'll get used to the kissing and everything. good luck!@
why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are
1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin
so i dont get it
1) why do people in there teens have sex: cause we have plenty of hormones running around that make us want other people.
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn: lol cause some are perverted and love to just get aroused.
and im probably too young to answer the next question
i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help!
lol. im a freshman in hs and i felt the same way. I was scared nervous and the whole package. but when i got to that new school it wasnt that bad. i made freinds and if theyre your friends theyre not losers. i made friends with goths preps crazy people just have fun. trust me i going thru it rite now. good luck. bye"!
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On Mikes Super Short Show (Disney Channel) when he dresses up as a pumpkin and goes trick-or-treating, he gets a penny from this girl. And he says "Oh great, I dress up as a pumpkin and get a penny. We're rich, we're rich!!" In the beginning it sounds like he is being sarcastic, and then he starts saying we're rich and he sounds like he's really excited. So is he happy about it or sad?? I dont get it?!
hahahahahaha oo0oookaaaay.....um hes neither cuz hez faking it.....its fake. bye
Quick! How do you say "to climb" in Spanish???
para montar