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I am 7 months pregnant. I love the babys father, he was great for a while. Then I got laid off for being pregnant and couldnt find another job. He works non stop and I know he is stressed from it. His son is coming out to vegas for the summer in 2 weeks. The problem is as of lately he has been making me feel so horrible that its driving me into a depression. lets put it this way, he is screaming at me about going over my 1000 minutes because I am the one that does bills over the phone and deals with bill collectors. Then tells me he is setting us up for less minutes. He yelled at me while i was at the hospital , and basically laughes at me when i am in pain with all this....he is so incompassionate. Then while we were leaving the hospital he decides to tell the guard i just got a shot in my "kiester" and that i am a "pussy" when it comes to pain. Then i make a comment while passing the maternity ward that we will be there soon. his response was "yeah you will, not me not me ill be fishing" Then said "oh im jk" I found out I am diabetic , he told me to get over it. He says so many things that hurt. But i dont feel that i can justify myself due to the fact he is always at work. A part of me wants to leave. But another part of me doesnt want to leave the father of my baby. I dont know what do to, or whats best for the baby..he will treat her like gold , its me behind closed doors that suffers.
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You have to leave this guy. Just because you leave the father of your child doesn't mean that he won't be part of your child's life. As you said, he'll treat the baby like gold... as he should. He should also be treating YOU like gold, and if he's not doing just that, especially in your time of need, then you need to get rid of him as soon as possible.
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I work in a cinema and part of my job is to make sure that people don't talk or mess around because it disturbs the other customers.
It would help me a lot if you guys would say how you think I should react in the following circumstances.
1) Group of people talking,throwing popcorn.
2) Two people making out.
3)People walking up and down the aisles a lot.
4) Little kids sitting in the aisle because they're too short too see over peoples heads(against fire regulations)
5)People with their phones on(messes up the sound)
6)Teenage boys wanking in the back row(has happened to me before)
7)People waiting outside banging on the doors to come in whilst a films on.
8)People making obscene gestures/giving me verbal abuse.
9)Having a queue, knowing we are going to run out of seats.
10) Babies crying.
Could continue but I think I've given you the general idea-my job is hard work! (link)
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I'm glad to see that you're much involved in your job. Let me see if I can help you out here---
1) Don't be way too hard on them (it's not really like they're committing any sort of crime) but tell them that they're disturbing others around them and that they will be asked to leave the cinema if they continue their actions.
2) Making out in general isn't very bad, just as long as it doesn't turn out to be too intimate. Just make sure it doesn't become completely inappropriate (i.e. the removal of clothing) for others (such as younger moviegoers) to look at.
3) After it definitely seems like they're walking down the aisles too much, I would ask them politely if they need anything. (Such as, "Can I get you something?" or "May I help you Sir/Ma'am?")
4) Walk towards the kids and be gentle with them. Not gentle, but firm, just gentle, because they most likely don't know any better. Tell them that it could be dangerous to sit there, and lead them back to their seats. If their parents are spotted there, tell them what their children were doing and that it's against fire regulations to do exactly what they were doing.
5) Try to find the source of the phone's ring and politely ask for the moviegoer to turn his/her phone off. If it happens again, ask a supervisor if he/she can make an announcement for all moviegoers to turn off cell phones.
6) Completely obscene. Kick the little delinquents out of the theater and ban them---they have no priviledge to even be in public.
7) Walk towards the doors, open them and politely ask them if they need anything. If they do and what they need is reasonable, give it to them graciously and lead them to their seats.
8) Continue to be the employee that you should be. The customer is always right. Being defiant towards customers can lead to unemployment.
10) Walk towards the parent of the baby and kindly ask them to take their baby out of the cinema.
I hope this helped! Good luck and stay safe.
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How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsi pop?
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Thousands and thousands. Actually, I'm not sure. You might want to ask that funny owl dude.
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ok how can i cook a small meal for my mom? i dont have much of a varity of food can you people please give me some ideas! i want to make a fancy and nice meal for my mother! i need some good cooking ideas now!! (link)
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A fancy and nice meal. Hm.
For breakfast, you may want to liven up traditional hotcakes by adding small pieces of fruit into the batter and griddling them as you normally would on the stove. Add some piping hot melted chocolate over the top and a few raspberries for garnish. A mint leaf would also be a nice touch along with some powdered sugar sprinkled across the top.
For dinner, you could try a simple pasta dish, using a more sophisticated sort of pasta such as linguini or a seafood ravioli. Make regular canned tomato sauce livelier by adding garlic cloves and extra meat.
Have fun and stay safe!
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I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!! (link)
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First off, any mother who says words such as those to their child are obviously bonkers. And also, you're twelve. Get. That. Through. Your. Head. You are TWELVE. Thongs aren't for you. Try...oh...sixteen at the least. Really, there's a reason for this. Thongs may seem like just a fashion statement, but due to their sexiness they can lead to harassment and even rape.
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OK, so there's this girl at school who's not that popular, but this year we've been put in some of the same classes and we got talking. She's quite nice, but embarrassing to be around because she's so loud and shouty! I'm also worried because when I'm hanging round with my friends she always comes over from her own friends to speak to us, and my other friends start laughing at her. Though I feel sorry for her, I wish she'd stop being so geeky and then maybe she could stop embarrassing me in front of my friends. She's also ditching her other friends to spend time with us, so I'm worried she'll end up with no friends at all. HELP! (link)
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"Stop being so geeky" is a bit harsh, don't you think? I've known people like this before, and basically I had no problems with them because my friends thought he/she were this way as well, meaning we could talk to each other about how we felt about him/her. (Not gossip, just ways to cope with her 'loud shouty' ness.)
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Should I run away from home? (link)
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This is a bit blunt, however, you shouldn't for it will devastate your friends and family members.
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I wasn't really sure where to put this, so I picked friendship, since it has to do with a friend.
Okay, so it's indirectly about my best friend. Her name is Lisa. But it's also about her boyfriend. His name is Tyler.
So, recently, Tyler told me that he's wanted to ask me out since he first came to our school in the middle of this year. (I'm a girl, in case you people didn't already figure that out.) I've always liked him, but I never let on. But now, he knows.
So, today, I stayed after school, because I didn't want to go home and clean my room. (It's a MESS.) Well, Tyler ALWAYS stays after school. For reasons unbeknownst to me. (I hope I spelled that right.)
Well, at first, we were just sitting at the picknick table, talking. About nothing, really. Then we got onto the subject of us liking eachother. Which quickly turned into flirting.
I had a metal... Thing, I have no idea what it was... in my hand. Well, Tyler took it. I tried to get it back, wich turned into us holding hands. Which turned into a kiss... Which turned into a make-out session...
Now, Lisa is my very best friend in the whole wide world, and I'd rather do ANYTHING than hurt her... But I think I just did.
We both knew it was wrong. And it was. Now I'm wondering what I should do. Please help me. :( (link)
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First of all, I would just like to say that boys are for temporary periods of time and friendships are forever (until you stop keeping in touch, faraway moves, or anything else, etc.). I was unclear on the fact if whether or not Lisa knows about the make-out session or not. Well, best of luck to you and Tyler. At least the feeling's mutual, and if Lisa doesn't know, I guess you could always go out with him when they break up?
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