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Pregnant with a jerk for a boyfriend....long sorry.
I am 7 months pregnant. I love the babys father, he was great for a while. Then I got laid off for being pregnant and couldnt find another job. He works non stop and I know he is stressed from it. His son is coming out to vegas for the summer in 2 weeks. The problem is as of lately he has been making me feel so horrible that its driving me into a depression. lets put it this way, he is screaming at me about going over my 1000 minutes because I am the one that does bills over the phone and deals with bill collectors. Then tells me he is setting us up for less minutes. He yelled at me while i was at the hospital , and basically laughes at me when i am in pain with all this....he is so incompassionate. Then while we were leaving the hospital he decides to tell the guard i just got a shot in my "kiester" and that i am a "pussy" when it comes to pain. Then i make a comment while passing the maternity ward that we will be there soon. his response was "yeah you will, not me not me ill be fishing" Then said "oh im jk" I found out I am diabetic , he told me to get over it. He says so many things that hurt. But i dont feel that i can justify myself due to the fact he is always at work. A part of me wants to leave. But another part of me doesnt want to leave the father of my baby. I dont know what do to, or whats best for the baby..he will treat her like gold , its me behind closed doors that suffers.
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You have to leave this guy. Just because you leave the father of your child doesn't mean that he won't be part of your child's life. As you said, he'll treat the baby like gold... as he should. He should also be treating YOU like gold, and if he's not doing just that, especially in your time of need, then you need to get rid of him as soon as possible.
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Hey, i agree with the person down below. You need to leave this guy. Yeah, hes the father of your baby and he still can be. Just because you and him arent together, doesnt mean that the baby and him cant see each other. Go to court and schedule visitations or just simply work it out between you two. Thats not a healthy relationship to be in. Good luck.
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Wow, I feel so badly for you. I think definately you need to leave this guy. He'll only lower your self esteem until it's so low you WON'T be able to get out of this. He's sounds very controlling and abusive to me. Do you have any friends or family that you could stay with for now? I know it's hard to leave because he is your baby's father, but come on now what kind of a life will you have if you stay with this creep. What kind of man laughs at his woman who is in pain? You know you deserve better than this. Good Luck.
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